There are many Xabashi women in my city. After Somalis they are the most prolific Africans on my west coast city, so I have first-hand experience about their attitudes and looks. I kid you not, I have yet to find an attractive Xabashi girl that sweeps me off my feet. I have seen bow-legged ones, tima afro, nothing soft going back over their shoulders and many things that were unappealing about them. They also were too short, way too short for my liking. However, Xabashi come in different looks. In comparing the Xabash, I will give attractiveness to Tigray girls (many but not all by all means), Oromo girls (Arsi, Afaar Qaalo, may be Itu) and then Amhara (very few Amhara girls) in that order. Eritrean girls, many of them are good looking too.
When it comes to their men, both Ethiopians and Eritreans, they are generally butt ugly. They are short, kinky hair (I am not sure why their women have soft hair but the men are one step above Bantu hair) and bug-eyed.
Most Habashi girls, including Eritreans, prefer Somali men over their own -- fact. I am talking from first-hand experience
However, I do not have the same feelings for them -- fact.
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