Well Somali women should be celebrated to counter all these self-destructive messages circulating around this forum. Lets be honest its unbalanced; threads about our women are more negative than positive, same goes for our men. And the lad above needs to understand that to be human is to be forgetful and through repetition one indelibly retains information. Praise and kind affirmation are certainly scarce here and its much needed. Perhaps you wouldn't be so pessimistic if you received more kindness vs destructive criticism constantly.
***Remember what you say to others matters and it has reciprocal effects.****