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i wanted someone to tell me their good or bad experiences when it comes to interracial marriage or if they were the product of an interracial marriage.This guys not looking for any advise. His minds made up, he's just looking for someone to validate him.
You dated a reformed prostitute ? I think your credibility just went out the window with that line, go check yourself for STD.To the OP, dude who said going roots mean going somali, to me it means going black or my case a mullato. If you don't look your typical somali it may help you against somalis but not main stream canucks(or cultured canadians as you put it). Never been to canada really so I wouldn't know but from an american perspective, even at liberal schools, there is always an undertone subtle racism and awe as to why one is dating outside his race, especially when it cliched(like black dude/white girl). I suggest you go out with her on a road trip and outside your friend zone, take her to edmonton as I am hear it has many hillbillies and go to a sports bar with her and see how people react. One must be either a militant type(I don't give a fuck personality) to not notice the surroundings and their stares. I tell you this cause I once dated a reformed prostitute and put on my blank I don't give a fuck face but it is still too taxing and energy drainer. Don't get my wrong bro but from what you say the girl has personality which is very good thing and rare in this case, albeit not my thing as I am superficial bastard and will probably end up with a bimbo. I guess to each his own, good luck.
Like I've stated before what you do and who you date is your prerogative. Yes; you are right that all people don't remain the same with respect to looks over time.@Zumaale its not all about looks bro. I've seen plenty of fine somali chicks age disgracefully. at 30 they all turn into a typical fat suugo smelling hooyo. every race is that way.
Speak for yourself and what you've seen. Don't use absolutist terms. We care not for what you like. Let's put things in perspective. The probability of finding a well-adjusted Somali that's funny/witty, with an advanced degree, decent looks, health-conscious, with an open mind and self-respect is much higher among the ladies than the men. We've got to be honest here. I don't mean to sound elitist but the men are lagging behind. It's also quite sad that some Somali guys with a couple degrees under their belt or financial stability are far from humble and rub off as entitled and obnoxious at times. 
That just had to be said.
Like I've stated before what you do and who you date is your prerogative. Yes; you are right that all people don't remain the same with respect to looks over time.@Zumaale its not all about looks bro. I've seen plenty of fine somali chicks age disgracefully. at 30 they all turn into a typical fat suugo smelling hooyo. every race is that way.
However, to infer that at 30 they are " all overweight mothers smelling of suugo" is a statement that wrecks of (1) bias, (2) singlism and (3) fat-shaming.
Agreed. This thread has "attention seeking" stamped all over it. We don't care about his MD or his bride-to-be, Becky. Methinks this is vikingman's new handle.I didn't have the care to respond to this thread beyond what advice everyone is trying to give him. Like our darling Jeffo said, he's only looking for validation. But I am glad you addressed those points.Like I've stated before what you do and who you date is your prerogative. Yes; you are right that all people don't remain the same with respect to looks over time.@Zumaale its not all about looks bro. I've seen plenty of fine somali chicks age disgracefully. at 30 they all turn into a typical fat suugo smelling hooyo. every race is that way.
However, to infer that at 30 they are " all overweight mothers smelling of suugo" is a statement that wrecks of (1) bias, (2) singlism and (3) fat-shaming.
Many of the guys on this forum need help understanding some very fundamental flaws about themselves, let alone our women. So thank you.
Exactly. There is no reason for a Somali brother to go and marry some White girl. He can find plenty of available Somali women who are looking for marriage, and he should stick to his own kind. I've met a Somali guy who was totally against the idea of marrying Somali women, and his reasons revealed his deep psychological hatred for his own people, as well as his own deep insecurities. I knew this man quite well and he was trying to run away from his own identity, run away from who he was, and he sought validation by marrying some foreigner.Miscegenation seems to be a Somali obsession these days. Like someone else said before me, this guy isn't seeking advice but validation at the expense of our Somali women. I always wonder what kind of Somali women guys like this have in their families ,and vice versa. I've seen my fair share of incredibly messed up Somali girls, but the human tendency to generalize has been mitigated on my part by the wonderful women in my family. I know there are Somali diamonds out there in the rough because of growing up with my mom, sisters and aunts. I think the endogomous/exogomous divide among diasporan Somalis says more about their perceptions of their own families, and thus their self-concept and concepts of their people, than it does about benign preference, which is what most people ostensibly use as their reason for going ajanabi.
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