East African Girls

[mrdegdeg]

Estarix: It can't be justified Bro. They're self haters with a twisted sense of view that contradicts their own biological being. But at the end of the day, they're not harming anyone.

mrdegdeg: Oh lawd..

I can't believe this shit. Any person who makes the decision of marrying a foreigner must come to terms with the fact that their kids will never be Somali regardless of the gender of said person marrying out of their ethnicity.

What you are saying is kind of right. When I say there is a big difference between a guy and a woman I don't mean in society but biologically. A Somali woman who marries ajinabi and has half ajinabi kids, has a child which is not Somali walahi, that is speaking from a biological point of view. The child carries the fathers dominate gene and that's what qaabil is, in a sense it is protecting the Somali gene. So for example when a Somali man marries ajnanbi woman the woman no matter what will have a genetically Somali child. This is not same for the Somali woman having ajinabi children and its just biology. The Somali woman with her ajinabi child wont belong to the Somali community because the child will not have a qaabil, with no qaabil ties you lose ur Somaliness.

[Amira143]

Hey, Phinks.


I still stand by my statement. If this girl isn't yours and I's perception of "beauiful" then believe me there is someone out there who will find her captivating, beauitful and sexually enticing.

females are pressured into looking certain way to be "attractive" look at the why the media and the magazine's sell us these skeletal framed, fair skinned, narrowed-nosed cadaan women as the ultimate beauty. It's very dangerous for young girls coming of age to be exposed to such harsh statements and its extremely careless to label anyone who Isn't all those things you've listed above as "Ugly".




“Every girl is expected to have Caucasian blue eyes, full Spanish lips, a classic button nose, hairless Asian skin with a California tan, a Jamaican dance hall ass, long Swedish legs, small Japanese feet, the abs of a lesbian gym owner, the hips of a nine-year-old boy, the arms of Michelle Obama and doll tits. The person closest to actually achieving this look is Kim Kardashian ... everyone else is struggling” (Fey, 2011: 23)."

This made me chuckle nevertheless its food for thought.

[Adali]

Tsk Tsk,I'm not Hydrogen.Beauty is truly subjective this chick to me is just SMUGLY.

If she were fair I'd say the same thing.

I'd like to become the Sudani ambassador of Snet.Work in progress ya know.


Signed Salih.......

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" Leave Allah's creation alone.



Signed Amira.....

Amira

What's up?

I just want to chime in here and correct you just for a sec. Salih is right, that girl is ugly, and I mean really ugly. Are you implying that she's pretty in some or any way?

Look at it from a economic point of view. What do men look for in a potential spouse?

- Supple breasts
- A tight ass/big booty
- long hair
- youth
- Nobody else's children
- Isn't a financial risk
- Is not batshit crazy

What do women look for in a man?

- Height
- Money
- Brute strength
- Security
- Charm
- Leadership
- Intelligence

This is what we all want from each other if we cut through the political correctness social justice one love bullshit. I remember you even stated you having a preference for men over 5'11" so I can't be wrong here. And quite frankly I don't blame you because you are programmed to find taller and stronger men more attractive then shorter skinnier men which is completely fine.


Let's be honest here, there's a reason why light skin Xalimos are the most sought after. There's a reason why balding Farax's are generally avoided, theres a reason why muscled broad shouldered men are Hollywood sex symbols, there's a reason why men find skinny/thick women with a big booty more attractive, there's a reason why women find taller men more attractive and dominant and there's a reason why ugly girls are screwed for life because at least an ugly guy can offset his disadvantages with height/social rank/wealth.


It's because all these negative/positive attributes either increase or decrease your Sexual Economic Value. You believe in the saying that Beauty is in the eye of the beholder right? But what if Amira, you posted a pic of yourself and you were compared with that girl in terms of which of you being deemed more attractive? I'm betting money that the vast majority of men would choose you over her and there is simply no denying this fact.

I'm sorry, I'm not attacking you or anything but I'm just sick and tired of everyone labouring under the delusion of political correctness.

Some women look for money aka gold diggers, but that is because they are desperate, normal women who have their own income don't care about money, but only personality. If you have a good personality and some intellect you should be able to make money and take care of yourself anyway, but if you somehow failed that they will understand and have patience with you and try to help/change you for the better. The best thing a man can do to improve his chances with women is to find himself and develop his personality, the money he has and clothes can get him women gold diggers who just leech of his wealth. Even good looks will not get you far, male models don't have as much as a following as singers because the singer has more of a personality yet the model is more handsome.

Men only want to have sex, even a batshit crazy dhoocil will do, fuck it. All a woman has to do is play naughty with men for a few minutes and we will have no blood flow to our brain, that is why these women are shunned as sluts who use their body excessively.

[Phinks]

What you are saying is kind of right. When I say there is a big difference between a guy and a woman I don't mean in society but biologically. A Somali woman who marries ajinabi and has half ajinabi kids, has a child which is not Somali walahi, that is speaking from a biological point of view. The child carries the fathers dominate gene and that's what qaabil is, in a sense it is protecting the Somali gene. So for example when a Somali man marries ajnanbi woman the woman no matter what will have a genetically Somali child. This is not same for the Somali woman having ajinabi children and its just biology. The Somali woman with her ajinabi child wont belong to the Somali community because the child will not have a qaabil, with no qaabil ties you lose ur Somaliness.

I'm honestly not gonna bother with this one. Have a nice day Adeer.

[Phinks]

Hey, Phinks.


I still stand by my statement. If this girl isn't yours and I's perception of "beauiful" then believe me there is someone out there who will find her captivating, beauitful and sexually enticing.

I honestly doubt it. Her hair is too short, she doesn't have a youthful look to her and she's just too plain looking. There is nothing attractive about her Amira, nothing.

females are pressured into looking certain way to be "attractive" look at the why the media and the magazine's sell us these skeletal framed, fair skinned, narrowed-nosed cadaan women as the ultimate beauty. It's very dangerous for young girls coming of age to be exposed to such harsh statements and its extremely careless to label anyone who Isn't all those things you've listed above as "Ugly".

This isn't about race Amira.

These features I listed above apply to all women. There are beautiful African/Asian women who would destroy most white females in looks. I'm talking about the individuals Sexual Economic Value. Race has nothing to do with it. Let's be honest, most White/Asian women don't like dating black men and would rather scoff at the idea or just roll their eyes. But what if these very same women met Idris Elba? Or Will Smith? If they turned up at her door step they could anal her raw on the side of a desolate rural road and film the whole thing with her permission. You know why? Because their sexual economic value is high. Get it now?

“Every girl is expected to have Caucasian blue eyes, full Spanish lips, a classic button nose, hairless Asian skin with a California tan, a Jamaican dance hall ass, long Swedish legs, small Japanese feet, the abs of a lesbian gym owner, the hips of a nine-year-old boy, the arms of Michelle Obama and doll tits. The person closest to actually achieving this look is Kim Kardashian ... everyone else is struggling” (Fey, 2011: 23)." This made me chuckle nevertheless its food for thought.

It's too specific. The features I listed above are what men truly want. And can I also point out a flaw in your argument? You say that females are pressured to look attractive by the media right? THEN WHAT ABOUT MEN??!!

Men are pressured to have a six-pack, to be over six feet, to have broad shoulders and stacks of cash. I just find it hypocritical on how you speculate that the media tells women how to be attractive but completely ignore how it affects men.

[Phinks]

@Adali

Lol personality?

Get out of here!

Let's say there's a poor, balding and short Farax under 5'5. Let's be honest, that dude is fucked for life. It's because his economic sexual value is too low. Charisma alone will not put it in on the plus side. Sorry man, that's just how it is. This whole world is a god damn social hierarchy. It's not a good thing mind you; but that's the way it is.

[Sophisticate]

@Adali

Lol personality?

Get out of here!

Let's say there's a poor, balding and short Farax under 5'5. Let's be honest, that dude is fucked for life. It's because his economic sexual value is too low. Charisma alone will not put it in on the plus side. Sorry man, that's just how it is. This whole world is a god damn social hierarchy. It's not a good thing mind you; but that's the way it is.

You know damn well he could still find someone. The only impediment might be homelessness or an addiction (even then some manage). He's not required to be cute, tall, hyperintellectual and/or high/middle income. Some women are very forgiving. More than you'll know.

[Phinks]

@Adali

Lol personality?

Get out of here!

Let's say there's a poor, balding and short Farax under 5'5. Let's be honest, that dude is fucked for life. It's because his economic sexual value is too low. Charisma alone will not put it in on the plus side. Sorry man, that's just how it is. This whole world is a god damn social hierarchy. It's not a good thing mind you; but that's the way it is.

You know damn well he could still find someone. The only impediment might be homelessness or an addiction (even then some manage). He's not required to be cute, tall, hyperintellectual and/or high/middle income. Some women are very forgiving. More than you'll know.

He may find someone, but only after years of rejection and pain. The thing is he can only get tied to a woman who reflects his Sexual Economic Value. If a homeless man with a drug addiction came to my house to propose to my sister; it's not gonna happen. Not ever.

Let me ask you a question. Say there were two guys with the same personality, charisma, and deen. But one of them is tall, does not have a bidaar and is well off financially while the other is the total opposite (he has all these negative features). Which one would you choose? And be honest, no political correctness here sophisticate.

[Sophisticate]

@Adali

Lol personality?

Get out of here!

Let's say there's a poor, balding and short Farax under 5'5. Let's be honest, that dude is fucked for life. It's because his economic sexual value is too low. Charisma alone will not put it in on the plus side. Sorry man, that's just how it is. This whole world is a god damn social hierarchy. It's not a good thing mind you; but that's the way it is.

You know damn well he could still find someone. The only impediment might be homelessness or an addiction (even then some manage). He's not required to be cute, tall, hyperintellectual and/or high/middle income. Some women are very forgiving. More than you'll know.

He may find someone, but only after years of rejection and pain. The thing is he can only get tied to a woman who reflects his Sexual Economic Value. If a homeless man with a drug addiction came to my house to propose to my sister; it's not gonna happen. Not ever.

Let me ask you a question. Say there were two guys with the same personality, charisma, and deen. But one of them is tall, does not have a bidaar and is well off financially while the other is the total opposite (he has all these negative features). Which one would you choose? And be honest, no political correctness here sophisticate.

You know full well that life doesn't come in pretty little boxes, with frilly ribbons and wrapping paper cut with an exacto blade. That scenario will likely not happen as there will always be a trade off between the two, one will likely have an attribute the other does not have and vice versa. And all things are never equal. Hey, it's a no brainer Phinks. You know my answer. The other guy. I'm a contrarian. My choice is the most logical.

[Amira143]

Phinks sxb! Was trying to hammer-home the fact that, what you may or may not find attractive/unattractive there is someone out there who will! That's just undeniable. is hypocritical about me mentioning the sensationalised pressure faced by females to look a certain way? I not denying the fact that men also face such pressure, but I was exclusively talking about us naago in my post.

To be honest with you, being unattractive is a fact of life. Isn't good or bad. So lets just agree to disagree, huuno.

[MoAwr]

^^soph^instead of 'mutatis mutandis' you could have gone with the ceteris paribus to formulate your jawaab

Amira

[Amira143]

^^ Why are you up soo early?

[Phinks]

You know full well that life doesn't come in pretty little boxes, with frilly ribbons and wrapping paper cut with an exacto blade. That scenario will likely not happen as there will always be a trade off between the two, one will likely have an attribute the other does not have and vice versa. And all things are never equal. Hey, it's a no brainer Phinks. You know my answer. The other guy. I'm a contrarian. My choice is the most logical.

Stop trolling.

I know for a god damn fact you'd choose the first guy. No need to hide your preferences honey.

The real issue sophisticate is whether people are actually willing to invest the time and resources to achieve these qualities and traits and therefore attract a mate. And if you look at the general population, most people aren't. The majority of the western world, both men and women, are fat, obese, lazy, unattractive, uninteresting, boring mundane wastes of human protoplasm that inspire neither attraction not desire from the opposite sex. The result is a slothful population that lives their sexual and romantic lives vicariously through celebrities, the movies and the Internet. No one wants to improve their sexual economic value.

Phinks sxb! Was trying to hammer-home the fact that, what you may or may not find attractive/unattractive there is someone out there. That's just undeniable.

No. Sometimes there are people that are so ugly they're mostly ignored for the rest of their lives. There are some pharmaceutical companies out there that are developing drugs that inhibit your sex drive for both men and women who cannot find partners and get into a relationship. Look it up.

is hypocritical about me mentioning the sensationalised pressure faced by females to look a certain way? I not denying the fact that men also face such pressure, but I was exclusively talking about us naago in my post.

But you didn't mention it and chose to ignore it to further prove your point no? You were implying that women had it harder no? I'm not attacking you or anything but you came off as if it only affected women.

To be honest with you, being unattractive is a fact of life. Isn't good or bad. So lets just agree to disagree, huuno.

Sure, it's not good or bad thing but no denying the fact that being unattractive will impede and reduce the quality of your life. Who said life is fair anyway?

Take care.

[Sophisticate]

Stop trolling.

I know for a god damn fact you'd choose the first guy. No need to hide your preferences honey.

The real issue sophisticate is whether people are actually willing to invest the time and resources to achieve these qualities and traits and therefore attract a mate. And if you look at the general population, most people aren't. The majority of the western world, both men and women, are fat, obese, lazy, unattractive, uninteresting, boring mundane wastes of human protoplasm that inspire neither attraction not desire from the opposite sex. The result is a slothful population that lives their sexual and romantic lives vicariously through celebrities, the movies and the Internet. No one wants to improve their sexual economic value.

You wanted an answer and I gave you one. The other man has less competition for mates. He's probably more attentive. He could be more virile. Plus, I've learned in life at my age that hotties normally aren't considerably funny (good looking comedians are hard to come by) . Tall men rarely live exceptionally long lives (I don't know if this has anything to do with shrinkage), all I can tell you is a lot of seniors aren't basketball player height (in general).

I plan for the long haul. I'm not into instant gratification. That's more of a male thing.

Also how does one increase their SEV index?

[Phinks]

You wanted an answer and I gave you one. The other man has less competition for mates. He's probably more attentive. He could be more virile. Plus, I've learned in life at my age that hotties normally aren't considerably funny (good looking comedians are hard to come by) . Tall men rarely live exceptionally long lives (I don't know if this has anything to do with shrinkage), all I can tell you is a lot of seniors aren't basketball player height (in general).

That's the only one I'm letting you get away with. While you do have a point there, I think you misunderstood my example. The two can only be differentiated by the height, bidaar and financial status.

Just admit it.

You'd choose the former. No shame in admitting it.

I plan for the long haul. I'm not into instant gratification. That's more of a male thing.

Now calm down there. While some men tend to skew towards that selfish behaviour; there are noble men out there.

Also how does one increase SEV index?

More than happy to answer your question.

When I was 18 I got laser PR surgery which freed me from wearing glasses/contacts. This is considered a positive increase in my SEV because I looked horrible when wearing glasses. Another example is whitening your teeth. A male experiencing hair loss can go on Finasteride/Propecia to save his hair thus keeping his youthful look. Even going to the gym and packing on 20/30 lbs of muscle can drastically increase your SEV. Get it now?

For women it's generally the same thing. Just be fit, watch what you eat and don't go whoring around. While a man would have no problem having sex with you, he'd never marry you because it'd be considered a risk. Both sexes can also work on their charm/charisma/personality and knowledge in Art, Science and History. I'm sure you get the gist of it now. The issue is whether people are willing to commit the effort and discipline in achieving their maximum Sexual Economic Value.