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. How about you make friends with integrity, instead. A real friend does not drop friends because they are married. A real friend will not care about your marital status. A real friend is uplifting and won't try to pull you down but will raise you up.
But that doesn't mean you should get married to an UGLY oneSo you ladies are serious about not marrying a good looking manDon't marry a good looking person.
Don't be too soft on him from the beginning, set your ground otherwise he will think he can walk all over you.
Make sure he's not a mummys boy.
Don't get too close with his family, keep your distance, the closer you are to them, the more they analyse you and chat crap.
Do not rush.
Don't complain about each other to each others families, otherwise his family will have a bad view of you and vice versa.
Don't mix with unmarried girls/divorced girls most just want to ruin things for you and that applies to some married girls also.
That is all.
Are you considering yourself as a good looking man?Don't marry a good looking person.
Don't be too soft on him from the beginning, set your ground otherwise he will think he can walk all over you.
Make sure he's not a mummys boy. <--- wtf, hooyo lama huuran
Don't get too close with his family, keep your distance, the closer you are to them, the more they analyse you and chat crap.
Do not rush.
Don't complain about each other to each others families, otherwise his family will have a bad view of you and vice versa.
Don't mix with unmarried girls/divorced girls most just want to ruin things for you and that applies to some married girls also.
That is all.
lol its not terrible advise. Mother in laws are kinda evil so the less you mix with her the less chance you will clash. It's always good to see her once in a while buy her a gift and just be nice, but see her everyday and you will both start to get under each others skin.I had no idea we had so many divorcees.Ilayen wa waxa mesha loogu ciil baxo.
Euphoria i suspect u is a divorcee waa maxay the terrible terrible terrible advice you trynna give to the girls. If you cut off connections with his mum do you expect things will go your way. The bucks stops there maliinta aad ayaadada (Step mom) aad isku diirto is when aad deegaha qiic ka keento
I can't stop a grown ass man so it's not up to me, if he wants to go I wouldn't make a fuss. I would however follow him and see how he interacts with said "friends", if I get the slightest inkling that something ain't right that's when I start looking for his secret accountBV
Got a question for you.
Would you let your husband go out with his friends on the weekends (guys n girls)?
The only thing I'd tell you is to not discriminate us handsome chaps, it's possible we can have everything you just mentioned and still be handsome on top of that lol j/kExactlylol, Hopefully you wouldn't be with someone who inspired lust alone, although those butterflies are damn fun.
Yummy, I know what you mean. Silken voices, devilishly good looks, bearded grins.....they can persuade one to forget certain misgivings you would have otherwise respected lol
Inaadeer there's a very good reason for this. Everyone looks for certain important characteristics in someone. For me, that is 4: diin/salaat, akhlaaq/generous personality, good reputation/family background, and financially stable... none of those are derivatives of good looks. I'm not saying it's mutually exclusive; it's just bloody rare. Hence I fear someone like that might make you compromise on those important characteristics, so yes, I would discriminate.^
Women.
I can't stop a grown ass man so it's not up to me, if he wants to go I wouldn't make a fuss. I would however follow him and see how he interacts with said "friends", if I get the slightest inkling that something ain't right that's when I start looking for his secret accountBV
Got a question for you.
Would you let your husband go out with his friends on the weekends (guys n girls)?
Maybe, perhaps I am, perhaps I am not.Are you considering yourself as a good looking man?Don't marry a good looking person.
Don't be too soft on him from the beginning, set your ground otherwise he will think he can walk all over you.
Make sure he's not a mummys boy. <--- wtf, hooyo lama huuran
Don't get too close with his family, keep your distance, the closer you are to them, the more they analyse you and chat crap.
Do not rush.
Don't complain about each other to each others families, otherwise his family will have a bad view of you and vice versa.
Don't mix with unmarried girls/divorced girls most just want to ruin things for you and that applies to some married girls also.
That is all.
It's less about him telling the truth or lying and more to do with calibrating the amount of trust you've placed in him using empirical evidence.
LOOOOL follow him? Who has time for that when you can just accuse and see the truth from his reaction?
There's nothing wrong with having female friends, the question is, how friendly are you with your friends.^ Nin hablo la saaxibey ha guursan ba.
How would you know who is and isn't married?A lot of unsolicited advice from unmarried folks, and very few solicited advice from married folks, go figure.
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