Married or previously married people - in hindsight what would you have done differently?

Jugjugwacwac · Postby **Jugjugwacwac** » Fri Feb 27, 2015 4:59 pm

Salool, waxani waa kaftan walaalo. Cidina dumarka Soomaaliyeed igama jecla. Xushmad iyo qadarin ayay iga mudan yihiin. Sababta aan kuu ammaanay waxa weeyaan waxaan jeclaaday sidaad dadka runta wajiga ugaga dhufatid ee wax kale ha moodin abaayadiis lol.

Postby **Basra-** » Fri Feb 27, 2015 5:00 pm

Bvii Mid habeebnka WWF kugu iyaaro baa kugu soo ducaanaaya
Ilahey ha kaa akhbalo

Okay I'm logging off and having some paracetamol

YummyMummy · Postby **YummyMummy** » Fri Feb 27, 2015 5:03 pm

Women sending me their xxx pics on FB is apparently considered cheating.

Since it's not cheating then she should exchange nude pics with guys, right?
Plus nothing is free, did you offer something to them in return?

GAMES · Postby **GAMES** » Fri Feb 27, 2015 5:14 pm

Got married right out of HS. I was 19 and she was 22. We've been together for 4yrs before we separated due to irreconcilable differences.The marriage produced 2 twins which we both share custody and we are friends even though she got married again.

What would I have done differently? Not listen to my parents who pushed me into it when I got married. That's my only regret.

Libix · Postby **Libix** » Fri Feb 27, 2015 5:22 pm

terrible salool you know you want ku macmacan afka kuu galiyo, chocolate cake soo gado oo wax aad ku dhirbaxdo kuu keeno

Ama sug bal adiga miya lagu dhirbaxaa

Qandho (fever) aa I heyso I should stop posting before I get carried away
lool @ dhirbaax

I thought we were discussing who was in charge, Libix iyada rabta inay ninka oo taliso.The romance part wa sheeko kale.

Teena hadaan iskaga kala danbeyneeno maayadaaba talis ah waa guule.lol

Postby **Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE** » Fri Feb 27, 2015 5:45 pm

warkeyga haduusan haa waa sax gacalo kadhihin markan lahadlaba wuu sii socon karaa. lol

Agree...caku hadu igu so hadal celiyo..taladaydana dhegasan

COOL-MAN · Postby **COOL-MAN** » Fri Feb 27, 2015 5:52 pm

Got married right out of HS. I was 19 and she was 22. We've been together for 4yrs before we separated due to irreconcilable differences.The marriage produced 2 twins which we both share custody and we are friends even though she got married again.

What would I have done differently? Not listen to my parents who pushed me into it when I got married. That's my only regret.

Say Alhamdulillah for returns. You got twins. Some invested all they had. still no returns. They will swap places with you in a heartbeat. Children are a huge blessings. Only those who lack it know it.

TheblueNwhite · Postby **TheblueNwhite** » Fri Feb 27, 2015 5:53 pm

Women sending me their xxx pics on FB is apparently considered cheating.

Since it's not cheating then she should exchange nude pics with guys, right?
Plus nothing is free, did you offer something to them in return?

I dont even know them. They kept sending me pics and trying to chat with me. I didn't even delete the pics, If I was cheating I would've hid the pics.

Some women love chasing married men.

GAMES · Postby **GAMES** » Fri Feb 27, 2015 6:06 pm

Got married right out of HS. I was 19 and she was 22. We've been together for 4yrs before we separated due to irreconcilable differences.The marriage produced 2 twins which we both share custody and we are friends even though she got married again.

What would I have done differently? Not listen to my parents who pushed me into it when I got married. That's my only regret.

Say Alhamdulillah for returns. You got twins. Some invested all they had. still no returns. They will swap places with you in a heartbeat. Children are a huge blessings. Only those who lack it know it.

I agree with you.

SelfD · Postby **SelfD** » Fri Feb 27, 2015 6:18 pm

Women sending me their xxx pics on FB is apparently considered cheating.

Since it's not cheating then she should exchange nude pics with guys, right?
Plus nothing is free, did you offer something to them in return?
I dont even know them. They kept sending me pics and trying to chat with me. I didn't even delete the pics, If I was cheating I would've hid the pics.

Some women love chasing married men.

why not block or report them. Unless you were enjoying it.

SelfD · Postby **SelfD** » Fri Feb 27, 2015 6:19 pm

BV,

You without this forum is the chocolate cake without the chocolate....

But yeah listen to Salool, she knows best....dhinac oo agony aunt ina loo furoo wa! Best advice and keeps it 100% legit

I want chocolate cake now...thanks ladies

zulaika · Postby **zulaika** » Fri Feb 27, 2015 11:45 pm

Let's learn from your 20/20

What mistakes should those green behind the ears avoid.

Edit: and what pitfalls did you just not see coming. Overall advice?

marriage advice is like those multivitamin supplements, one just isn't enough.. don't overdose it dear

TheblueNwhite · Postby **TheblueNwhite** » Fri Feb 27, 2015 11:50 pm

I learned something from that experience.

Thats what matters.

salool · Postby **salool** » Sat Feb 28, 2015 12:31 am

Women sending me their xxx pics on FB is apparently considered cheating.

Since it's not cheating then she should exchange nude pics with guys, right?
Plus nothing is free, did you offer something to them in return?

Some desperate women do anything to get a man.

My cousin used to recieve daily naked pics of women he doesnt know directly to his cellphone.They almost destroid his marriage shaqaabaduhu.

Postby **EvolSyawla** » Sat Feb 28, 2015 1:34 am

This thread makes me sad.

If only we were able to prevent marriages from breaking down and allowing silly misunderstandings and breakdowns in communication fester and create irreconcilable differences.

I hope everyone who was married is happier now, and inshaAllah marriages return to 'till death do us part'.

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