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What mistakes should those green behind the ears avoid.

Edit: and what pitfalls did you just not see coming. Overall advice?

She hit me when I said " Huuno macaan cunto bal inoo samee ileen gaajadii aduunka ayaa maanta ii dilay" , from that day on she saw me reading recipe books and making some cadaan gourmet stuff. IDK what I did wrong tbh

Never been married myself, but been around friends that have been married and some are still married.

Some lessons they have learned:


1. Do it for the right reason.
2. You can't change anyone so if you marry a badboy don't expect he will change.
3. Marriage can't make you happy.
4. All of them regret spending a lot of money on lavish weddings

She hit me when I said " Huuno macaan cunto bal inoo samee ileen gaajadii aduunka ayaa maanta ii dilay" , from that day on she saw me reading recipe books and making some cadaan gourmet stuff. IDK what I did wrong tbh

since when are u married?


@BV

Can you be more specific? What kind of advise are u looking for?

be around a lot more..

hmm....Done differently before the marriage?

She hit me when I said " Huuno macaan cunto bal inoo samee ileen gaajadii aduunka ayaa maanta ii dilay" , from that day on she saw me reading recipe books and making some cadaan gourmet stuff. IDK what I did wrong tbh

since when are u married?


@BV

Can you be more specific? What kind of advise are u looking for?

Since last year, her name is Mutuh Farolahaato

Mawduuc xasaasi ah baad furtay.Most somalis love living in denial, they're to stubborn to admit their mistakes or acknowledge them.Hense why most marriages fail in the first place.So i doubt anyone will tell you the truth.

She hit me when I said " Huuno macaan cunto bal inoo samee ileen gaajadii aduunka ayaa maanta ii dilay" , from that day on she saw me reading recipe books and making some cadaan gourmet stuff. IDK what I did wrong tbh

since when are u married?


@BV

Can you be more specific? What kind of advise are u looking for?

Since last year, her name is Mutuh Farolahaato

left or right mate?

Let's learn from your 20/20

What mistakes should those green behind the ears avoid.

Edit: and what pitfalls did you just not see coming. Overall advice?

Maskiin.

left or right mate?

left or right mate?

Na bal iga xishood maxaad tidhi, everything was all innocent until you posited that illicit presumption

bismillahi, i'm out of this thread,

Mistake I made was I went into it ill-experienced. I was not patient. I was arguing with her. I was being too honest. I got too friendly with her family. I exposed myself to her.

Second marriege now..,I learn to remain a stranger. I stayed far away from her family. I held my secrets to myself. I don't argue with her. I "sabsab" her by buying her something or taking her out. I play good cop terrible cop with her.

But most I portably I rule by salat, I pray my salat and do does she. I know I'm complicated.

Find a girl who can take this D.

Nothing with my current one. I pray it stays this way till the end.

Former. Like 1man should've been around more also should cared a lot more. I guese I was inexperienced and wasn't ripe enough for the huge responsibility.