Well said, bro.I see what you're saying here bro, but I think you drawing up a couple of false equivalencies. The suit and tie have become so ubiquitous all around the world that it can no longer be deemed European culture. It's now global culture, with European roots. As for the khamiis, it is worn only in the middle east/north africa and is considered out of places in regions outside of these. Also, it has no Islamic significance, as you will find Christian and athiest Arabs dressed in this traditional garb. Lastly, the khamiis, in the west, does not serve the functional purpose the suit and tie does. The suit and tie is recognized as formal dress for men, and it garners a certain level of respect from others. Not so with the khamiis, in fact you you are looked at as a weirdo or worse a terrorist. So it's crazy that impressionable and lost Somalis in the west will go out of their way to wear a garb that is culturally Arab, has no relgious significance and that will just bring unwanted and hostile attention to them. You'll rarely see an Arab dressed like this...nowadays Somalis are more Arab than Arabs lol.These anti-Arab Somalis are some of the most hysterical and hypocritical people you will ever meet. Their hatred of Arabs is so deep that it permeates their entire worldview.
If a Somali is seen wearing a khamiis to a Somali event, they get all upset and talk about how "Somalis are being colonized by Arab culture"....but yet these same hypocrites wear a suit and tie (which is European culture). They don't see the irony here. If they truly were consistent than they'd wear the Somali macawiis and scarf to a Somali wedding or cultural event.
If a Somali is seen listening to Arabic music....these same Somalis get all hysterical and start getting angry of "Somalis imitating Arabs" yet these hypocrites listen to American rap music and R&B music....which again has nothing to do with Somali culture.
It isn't so much about "preserving Somalinimo" that they care about. Most of these lowlives don't give a shit about Somali culture. They just use "Somalinimo" as an excuse to make a point. Most of these xayawaans never donated one dollar to help their starving brethren back home. It's just a charade and I can see right through their bullshit.
As for Arab music, most of the same points above apply. Somali youth in the west are native English speakers, so American rap music and R&B, for better or worse, is their culture. It's all they know. It's not the same as those 'akhis' and 'ukhtis', who don't understand a word of Arabic and have never been to the middle east, who wanna play Arab music at weddings because Somali and English music is haraam but Arab music isn't lol. And don't get me started with all of them naming themselves 'abu this' and 'umm that'. Don't they know that kunyas are just Arab culture, and that Christain and secular Arabs also go by 'abu so and so' and 'um so and so'?
There's no doubt that Somalis are becoming Arabized under the guise of religion, so don't assume that everyone who speaks out against this is a secular athiest. But you're right, many of the Somalis who have a diabolical hatred for Arabs tend to be secular and/or athiest. There's no reason to hate or love the Arabs. I frankly dont care about them. I just don't want my culture eroded by alien traditions from the deserts of Arabia.
the hatred is misplaced and has more to do with their own identity issues IMO.
If that isn't being Arab wannabes I don't know what is. 
