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sahal, bal is daji o e sheeg. maba ko fahmin what you talking about. i am lost every time you get excited or get angery. you remind me of my cats, when they excited they bite you and when they angery they bite you.
sahal, bal is daji o e sheeg. maba ko fahmin what you talking about. i am lost every time you get excited or get angery. you remind me of my cats, when they excited they bite you and when they angery they bite you.
Thirty feels so strange for me. I am really having hard time to come to terms with the fact that I am now a walking and talking adult.
In my twenties I was a DAAUUS/ A PEACOCK now I am a LION and I am dreading to turn into a camel.
1. What was/is it like
Fast, very tough, steep learning curve. Many milestones & accomplishments rolled over each other, blurred memories.
2. How different/similar are you now to who you were or thought you wanted to be
I'm a mum alxamdulillah! He motivates me to be the best. I'm less Black and white about decisions. Less confident, softer, more resilient & adaptable. Much tougher than i imagined alxamdulillah, but feel weak. Very jaded, glass half empty. Still quite idealistic & naive/gullible, I don't want to lose this in shaa Allah.
3. Advice
Don't lose sight of your diin & loved ones. Decide on what makes you, you, and resist changing those things. It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice. You'll likely never achieve your childhood dream, or when you do you may be disappointed; it's perfectly possible to be quite perfect at the quite impossible, learn to adapt. With hardship comes ease, with hardship comes ease. Fully feel your failures so your successes taste sweeter. Let go of the bitter weight & you'll soar like a kite. Kiss your mother everyday; relent your will to hers plenty. Some people will be in places they don't deserve, not just because they're not worthy but also because they're too worthy; "can I have it in writing" is useful. Money is valuable, quality of life is invaluable. If you can close and open your heart 100x, let it be crushed, and still smile through the pain, you're tougher than most. It's possible to be very tough and weak, and very strong & brittle (something for fellow engineers).
All the best everyone in shaa Allah, don't give up.
I'm sure you read this one somewhere before so here the female version... where males are animals women are a habitat (a physical environment that surrounds a species)!That is very specific
I am curious about the female version but not sure I want to know
1. What was/is it like
Fast, very tough, steep learning curve. Many milestones & accomplishments rolled over each other, blurred memories.
2. How different/similar are you now to who you were or thought you wanted to be
I'm a mum alxamdulillah! He motivates me to be the best. I'm less Black and white about decisions. Less confident, softer, more resilient & adaptable. Much tougher than i imagined alxamdulillah, but feel weak. Very jaded, glass half empty. Still quite idealistic & naive/gullible, I don't want to lose this in shaa Allah.
3. Advice
Don't lose sight of your diin & loved ones. Decide on what makes you, you, and resist changing those things. It's nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice. You'll likely never achieve your childhood dream, or when you do you may be disappointed; it's perfectly possible to be quite perfect at the quite impossible, learn to adapt. With hardship comes ease, with hardship comes ease. Fully feel your failures so your successes taste sweeter. Let go of the bitter weight & you'll soar like a kite. Kiss your mother everyday; relent your will to hers plenty. Some people will be in places they don't deserve, not just because they're not worthy but also because they're too worthy; "can I have it in writing" is useful. Money is valuable, quality of life is invaluable. If you can close and open your heart 100x, let it be crushed, and still smile through the pain, you're tougher than most. It's possible to be very tough and weak, and very strong & brittle (something for fellow engineers).
All the best everyone in shaa Allah, don't give up.
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