Husband hunting

[Advo]

I dont find it offensive

If my wife made more money, it will just mean less responsibility.

[BlackVelvet]

So you are dating and girl and she asks for your payslips and/or to see your account and you wouldn't raise an eyebrow

Beenta day you would run a mile

[Advo]

I ain't doing it unless the playing field is even, say I got with a chick that works for google, I know dammm well shes stable and wouldn't mind showing her the stubs.

[BlackVelvet]

Really people do that? I would find it awkward asking how much he makes let alone asking to see his finances

[MujahidAishah]

BV I'm not telling her to see finances on the first date but when it gets to the donnis time shit I better see paperwork

[BlackVelvet]

The world's most awkward conversation

[Itrah]

women who post on snet are instantly not marriage material. 9/10 are crazy.

[MujahidAishah]

Itrah how much do you make

We know you broke

Bv start with aboowe bank statement waan fiirinaa leh sheekh what happens

[Itrah]

Itrah how much do you make

Lol.. enough.

[BlackVelvet]

Bv start with aboowe bank statement waan fiirinaa leh sheekh what happens

To be fair it's important to talk about money no matter how awkward. A lot of marriages fail because of it

[salool]

Sheekadi hada ma mushahar bay maraysa...dadyahow bal oo yara kaadiya.

[Hyperactive]

smile, ina adeer, its doable to have kids in your 40s. my mom started having kids 3 months before her 21 birthday and still going on.lol but things is , its good idea?. luckely my mom getting a huge help from nanies and grandma and my self.

she admitted , it was loads easier when she was in her 20s than now. our new addition Alshayma is few months just 5 months to her 43 birthday. her excuse is; she strated young and she is not like woman starting late!

personally, i dont want kids. if you find woman who doesnt want kids, please direct her to my way. lol

[original dervish]

Aisha..... not every female is a gold digger.
PS What's a decent income to you....job seekers allowance, tax credit, disability living allowance etc?

[salool]

smile, ina adeer, its doable to have kids in your 40s. my mom started having kids 3 months before her 21 birthday and still going on.lol but things is , its good idea?. luckely my mom getting a huge help from nanies and grandma and my self.

she admitted , it was loads easier when she was in her 20s than now. our new addition Alshayma is few months just 5 months to her 43 birthday. her excuse is; she strated young and she is not like woman starting late!

personally, i dont want kids. if you find woman who doesnt want kids, please direct her to my way. lol

Isn't that danbi? aakhiro waa lagu waydiinaya.Ta labaad, if some pple only want few kids ex, 3-4 waayo inta wax ka badan ma awoodi karaan inay korayaan, maxay dadka soomalidu oo dhahaan waxaad samayneysan wa xaraam.Dhalmada la xadido lama ogola diinayan, laakin bari ka maalin ilmu kasta ood dhashid adiga ayuu danbigiiso ku saaran yahy.Ilaahy dadka ha oo danbi dhaafo.

[Hyperactive]

is not danbi. also not dambi to not marry. ibn taimia, inb qiyam never married or had kids.

if you are not ready for family, is dambi to just marry or have kids for sake of it.

its thulm al ijtima3i to just marry and know you not ready for huge responsibility of being a husband or father.