Yaab!

[Hyperactive]

Jug, war 4 women, waqti iyo la'ag uma hayside naka daa.

why you want to bring kids in this messed up world? war siyaayadada, isaga fareeso, mid ba ba ka badan.

thug,

ninyaho my doctor said the same "expose to dirty" i couldnt. now i try to just take shower 3 times a day max, but still i see my self taking shower every time i do wuthu or even go to washroom.

[gegiroor]

There's a Somali saying, seydiiga ha isku diriin walaasha maa isku huubtiid, correct if I am wrong guys!

Never ever involve yourself married couples fight. Most likely you will take sides and when they make up, you will look the bad guy.

That is the correct way of saying it as I know it.

Seedigaa ha isku ceebayn walaashaa iskuma hubtide!

[BlackVelvet]

Laakin don't you agree, imagination within boundaries is most useful?

Depends on how compatible the two imaginations are. People's boundaries vary but yes, problem solving and life in general requires a bit of imagination


If you can add communication like you pointed out then they are almost there. Assuming he doesn't communicate that she should remain in the maqasiin or use potentially harmful products on herself in the name of hygiene


You have to want the same things and have the same goal in mind

[VeiledGarbasar]

Laakin don't you agree, imagination within boundaries is most useful?

Depends on how compatible the two imaginations are. People's boundaries vary but yes, problem solving and life in general requires a bit of imagination


If you can add communication like you pointed out then they are almost there. Assuming he doesn't communicate that she should remain in the maqasiin or use potentially harmful products on herself in the name of hygiene


You have to want the same things and have the same goal in mind

My dear relationship counsellor.

I concur, I have nothing more to add to that.

Ps. Naa ka dhaf inanka yar, there's plenty of things to use that aren't harmful and potentially beneficial for the other party.

[BlackVelvet]

Laakin don't you agree, imagination within boundaries is most useful?

Depends on how compatible the two imaginations are. People's boundaries vary but yes, problem solving and life in general requires a bit of imagination


If you can add communication like you pointed out then they are almost there. Assuming he doesn't communicate that she should remain in the maqasiin or use potentially harmful products on herself in the name of hygiene


You have to want the same things and have the same goal in mind

My dear relationship counsellor.

I concur, I have nothing more to add to that.

Ps. Naa ka dhaf inanka yar, there's plenty of things to use that aren't harmful and potentially beneficial for the other party.

I can't seem to help myself. If I believed in reincarnations I would have said I used to be a marriage counsellor

Walaaley inkaar maaha but when he said that I pictured qof dettol la siiye, like here you go, you know the drill

[gegiroor]

Mediation is very good as it is intended to save the marriage. When two people have arguments and one of them is not giving up, a third mediation phase should be sought. That is the Islamic way. In early Muslims, it used to be the learned Islamic scholars who did the mediation.

In Somali society, it has always been the immediate relatives of the couple and ulema (islamic scholars) who did the mediation.

In the West, when couples are having issues, they seek counselling. This is intended to seek second opinions and save their marriage.

It is the people who are doing the mediation that should not speak up on what they encounter from the family that they were going to mediate. It is a privacy issue. Where Somalis are losing is, they are inviting people who are incapable of mediating and keeping the secrets of family from the larger public. We need to go back to basics and how it is done in the past.

[metamorphosis]

I don't think the original poster knows that importance of intimacy between a married couple in Islam. It is her right that she is tended to in bed and if the man knew he wasn't capable of that he should have not assumed such responsibility. It is remarkably illogical to believe that he had a change of heart or mind after the marriage where he decided not to engage his wife in a physical manner. He probably knew it ahead of time and he should not have wasted her time like that.

Omar's daughter Hafsah once said if it wasn't for the fear she had in Allah her bed would be shaking due to.....because her husband was away on a war. I don't think she did anything wrong at all. The man is completely irresponsible and he was stupid to think all would be dandy knowing he was not giving his wife her right.

[Jugjugwacwac]

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Omar's daughter Hafsah once said if it wasn't for the fear she had in Allah her bed would be shaking due to.....because her husband was away on a war. I don't think she did anything wrong at all.

Whaaat??? Her bed would be shaking from self-pleasure or....? Don't be so ambiguous. And can u provide a source please?

[metamorphosis]

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Omar's daughter Hafsah once said if it wasn't for the fear she had in Allah her bed would be shaking due to.....because her husband was away on a war. I don't think she did anything wrong at all.

Whaaat??? Her bed would be shaking from self-pleasure or....? Don't be so ambiguous. And can u provide a source please?

In the company of a man. I think this is when Omar made it illegal for any man to serve more than 12 weeks in a war?

[Jugjugwacwac]

In the company of a man. I think this is when Omar made it illegal for any man to serve more than 12 weeks in a war?

Source please...and if she said that it's pretty shocking. She should've had some shame. I doubt it's authentic though.

[metamorphosis]

In the company of a man. I think this is when Omar made it illegal for any man to serve more than 12 weeks in a war?

Source please...and if she said that it's pretty shocking. She should've had some shame. I doubt it's authentic though.

It is in Bukhari. I can't remember which book it was Hold on a sec let me do some research.

[Jugjugwacwac]

It is in Bukhari. I can't remember which book it was Hold on a sec let me do some research.

Please do that fam. Thanks.

[Jugjugwacwac]

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[Robotic]

Clearly he isn't attracted to her. But then we shouldn't have married her in the first place! Your parents have no right to decide who you are going to marry. People need to remember that. I am completely against arranged marriages.

[Jugjugwacwac]

Your parents have no right to decide who you are going to marry. People need to remember that. I am completely against arranged marriages.

You're confusing arranged marriages with forced marriages. Somalis don't force their kids like Indians and others.