Yaab!

[metamorphosis]

It is in Bukhari. I can't remember which book it was Hold on a sec let me do some research.

Please do that fam. Thanks.

"Umar ibn al-Khattab (may Allah exalt their mention) was making night rounds when he heard a woman lament:
The night has grown long, and its end is dark and black,
I am sleepless since I have, with whom to play, no lover,
If there was not (the Lord) whose Throne is above the Heavens,
The sides of this bed, would roll, shake and quiver!
In the morning he went to her and asked her the reason for her poetry, and she answered that her husband had gone with the soldiers on a long campaign. Umar then conferred with his daughter Hafsa on how long a woman can be patient for her husband to return. After some moments of hesitation and embarrassment, in which he convinced her that this question was for the general good of the Muslims, she replied six months."

[Jugjugwacwac]

lool, So ur just gonna pretend what u claimed earlier and what's in that narration are one and the same? Anyway I knew one of the wives of the Prophet PBUH, and especially the daughter of Umar, would never ever talk like that.

[Robotic]

Your parents have no right to decide who you are going to marry. People need to remember that. I am completely against arranged marriages.

You're confusing arranged marriages with forced marriages. Somalis don't force their kids like Indians and others.

Then what's the definition of "arranged marriage"?

[Jugjugwacwac]

Then what's the definition of "arranged marriage"?

It's real definition is the way u understood it,...essentially a marriage where the bride and groom have little to no say in the matter when the two families have agreed on it, so ur not wrong technically. But in the Somali context, or the way it was being used in this thread then yes, there is choice. The families arrange for the two to get to know each other, but wax khasab ahi ma jiro.

[Robotic]

Then what's the definition of "arranged marriage"?

It's real definition is the way u understood it,...essentially a marriage where the bride and groom have little to no say in the matter when the two families have agreed on it, so ur not wrong technically. But in the Somali context, or the way it was being used in this thread then yes, there is choice. The families arrange for the two to get to know each other, but wax khasab ahi ma jiro.

Ok I see what you mean.

[ManD333q]

Naagta waxaas odeyaal usoo shirisay yaabka aduunka.Ninkan isaguna qolka kale isku soo xidhaya maxaa ka si unless uu yahay kuwa tollow ma kuwa bidixda ka laafyooda . If he isn't attracted to her turning tout he light should do the trick , mise waa ma maydhato wuu ka wiswisaya? If that's the case bacdiisa maddow nuu hore u qaato ayaa u dhaanto maqsinkan uu isku soo xidhayo.

[metamorphosis]

lool, So ur just gonna pretend what u claimed earlier and what's in that narration are one and the same? Anyway I knew one of the wives of the Prophet PBUH, and especially the daughter of Umar, would never ever talk like that.

I am not sure. I can't say anything else at this point. I will check it when I get home but I could have sworn I thought I was right.

[Xamud.]

Ragow, Dhalfo iyo dollar haadi aadan hayn dumar haa isku doonan. Waxa weeye ariintu waa simple, dumarkuna waa simple, labadas haadi ay ka wayan walleysan har ku seexin. Ninkan haadi uusan hawshisha gudaneyn waa garted in ay ka cabato oo ay so gudbiso waxay tabaneyso.

Hadu rabo hurdo iyo bariis u cuuno dee guuriga hooyadis ha iska joogo, maxu gabar islameed ka so doonay? naagtu waa nafley waxay rabta in la ciyaarsiyo xiliyada danbe, marba low u labtid oo lagdan iyo sabaxad sida ugu wadid naqaska ku dhajisid.

[gegiroor]

Ragow, Dhalfo iyo dollar haadi aadan hayn dumar haa isku doonan. Waxa weeye ariintu waa simple, dumarkuna waa simple, labadas haadi ay ka wayan walleysan har ku seexin. Ninkan haadi uusan hawshisha gudaneyn waa garted in ay ka cabato oo ay so gudbiso waxay tabaneyso.

Hadu rabo hurdo iyo bariis u cuuno dee guuriga hooyadis ha iska joogo, maxu gabar islameed ka so doonay? naagtu waa nafley waxay rabta in la ciyaarsiyo xiliyada danbe, marba low u labtid oo lagdan iyo sabaxad sida ugu wadid naqaska ku dhajisid.

Ama aan kugu daro Xamude aad u jilibka u aasatid. Weigaa daali maysid!

[Xamud.]

Ragow, Dhalfo iyo dollar haadi aadan hayn dumar haa isku doonan. Waxa weeye ariintu waa simple, dumarkuna waa simple, labadas haadi ay ka wayan walleysan har ku seexin. Ninkan haadi uusan hawshisha gudaneyn waa garted in ay ka cabato oo ay so gudbiso waxay tabaneyso.

Hadu rabo hurdo iyo bariis u cuuno dee guuriga hooyadis ha iska joogo, maxu gabar islameed ka so doonay? naagtu waa nafley waxay rabta in la ciyaarsiyo xiliyada danbe, marba low u labtid oo lagdan iyo sabaxad sida ugu wadid naqaska ku dhajisid.

Ama aan kugu daro Xamude aad u jilibka u aasatid. Weigaa daali maysid!

Garaad Gegiroor sow run maha Garaad. Ciyaaraha gelinka danbe haadi ay seegseeg ka galan qatar baad ku jirta, weliba beryahan waxa so baxay dumar habaar qabo oo aan hadalka la gabaneyn, waa tabtey tirii Gabarti heestay

"War haadadan tumeyniin tumeyniin, ama aadan tageyniin ma tasfiir camal ayad u tagantahay ma tiirki magaalada tahay?"

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

Maskinka inay sa u ceebayso ma ahayn she should have asked her papers...instead.

[Machiavelli2]

This thread is about the conflict of two generations, the social media and the older generation. Naturally, older generations are very secretive and heavily guard their privacy and they always whinge about younger generations. Generation social media relinquished their rights to privacy and are open to their emotions and feelings to the point of narcissism. Marka, as long as they include odeyaasha and not the cops, they are fine.

[gegiroor]

Ama aan kugu daro Xamude aad u jilibka u aasatid. Weigaa daali maysid!

Garaad Gegiroor sow run maha Garaad. Ciyaaraha gelinka danbe haadi ay seegseeg ka galan qatar baad ku jirta, weliba beryahan waxa so baxay dumar habaar qabo oo aan hadalka la gabaneyn, waa tabtey tirii Gabarti heestay

"War haadadan tumeyniin tumeyniin, ama aadan tageyniin ma tasfiir camal ayad u tagantahay ma tiirki magaalada tahay?"

Waa sidaas weeye. Ta heestaas tirisay waaba tan topicu ku saabsan yahay!

[Xamud.]

Her name is Nasteexo Indho, and her song along with Farxiya Fiskas "Qulqul" song dhibato badan ayey raga uso jiiden.

[gegiroor]

What a voice Nasteexo Indho has.

So according to her, if the man is not "umeyniin tumeyniin," he needs to leave he house and bring cash. In other words, either get busy on the bed or bring money At least she is doing better than tufaaxlayaasha when it comes to Somali guys.

Tan iyo Farxiya Fiska ragga yaa usoo direy? Indeed I know this guy oo xaaskiisu ku tiri waddada ku qulqul. Hadda sidii berigii qurbaha lagu cusbaa ay dumarku 911 u garaaci jreen, hadda waxaa socota wadada ku qulqul. Kuwani guryo dhisan bay duminayaan.