Sometimes child abuse, is good for the child
I understand what you're trying to say but the above statement is horrible. Yes love, happiness and harmony is great but not all children have the same needs and it is important to understand the little person, their personality, their idiosyncrasies and try, to the best of your ability, to have those needs met
Forget loser behaviour, imagine delinquent, sociopathic tendencies, murder .... a serial killer!
I need to stop watching Criminal Minds, I'll never have children otherwise. Thank God we're not Caucasian