Sex in the Somali community!

Jugjugwacwac · Postby **Jugjugwacwac** » Wed Jun 03, 2015 3:41 pm

You don't talk about sex. You find a willing partner lock yourself in a room and just do the deeds and just be done with it. Nothing to talk about

That's my opinion as well. What's there to talk about? Any idiot who can understand the mechanics of a lock and key knows how to have sex. The only thing one needs to discuss with their children is avoiding zina, and especially stressing to ones daughers how important it is for them to maintain their chastity as honourable women. People who stay away from Zina don't need to worry about protection, unwanted pregnancies, abortion, and STD's, which makes up the bulk of the sex talk for gaalos.

AbkoowDhiblaawe · Postby **AbkoowDhiblaawe** » Wed Jun 03, 2015 3:44 pm

Somali couples have sex?

Since when ku dhufo ka dhaqaaq sex noqotay.

There's nothing to tell.

loool bara för du hade en keff partner behöver inte alla vara så.

Postby **SultanOrder** » Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:07 pm

We really need to open up and stop this attitude if you mention sex to kids they will go out and do it as if they will remain ignorant forever. The other thing is that kids now are being exposed to porno and they think that is sex.

I kid you not wallahi I knew this Somali kid that didn't find out how kids were made until he was 17 or 18. He honestly believed when a couple got married that a kid was delivered like in cartoons the stork carrying the baby in their beaks.

I'm going to teach my kids about sex.

samaalenoble · Postby **samaalenoble** » Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:11 pm

I kid you not wallahi I knew this Somali kid that didn't find out how kids were made until he was 17 or 18. He honestly believed when a couple got married that a kid was delivered like in cartoons the stork carrying the baby in their beaks.

When did this become a bad thing?

Postby **SultanOrder** » Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:14 pm

I kid you not wallahi I knew this Somali kid that didn't find out how kids were made until he was 17 or 18. He honestly believed when a couple got married that a kid was delivered like in cartoons the stork carrying the baby in their beaks.
When did this become a bad thing?

What good that ignorance do, when he still ended up wilding out? He was ignorant and nervous around girls that now he feels like he has to make up for lost time.

Itrah · Postby **Itrah** » Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:16 pm

We really need to open up and stop this attitude if you mention sex to kids they will go out and do it as if they will remain ignorant forever. The other thing is that kids now are being exposed to porno and they think that is sex.

I kid you not wallahi I knew this Somali kid that didn't find out how kids were made until he was 17 or 18. He honestly believed when a couple got married that a kid was delivered like in cartoons the stork carrying the baby in their beaks.

I'm going to teach my kids about sex.

10% of the population has an IQ below 80. That individual most likely falls into that bracket.

samaalenoble · Postby **samaalenoble** » Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:18 pm

I kid you not wallahi I knew this Somali kid that didn't find out how kids were made until he was 17 or 18. He honestly believed when a couple got married that a kid was delivered like in cartoons the stork carrying the baby in their beaks.
When did this become a bad thing?
What good that ignorance do, when he still ended up wilding out? He was ignorant and nervous around girls that now he feels like he has to make up for lost time.

Who told him to be around girls?

SaciidAyanleh · Postby **SaciidAyanleh** » Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:23 pm

I kid you not wallahi I knew this Somali kid that didn't find out how kids were made until he was 17 or 18. He honestly believed when a couple got married that a kid was delivered like in cartoons the stork carrying the baby in their beaks.

When I was growing up, I was always around older kids so I knew about sex pretty early, but I was adamant my parents never had sex. So, when I was about 9, I told my friends that my parents never had sex with a straight face. They didn't roast me or anything but they just kept repeating that that was impossible.

So, guess what I did? I went home and asked Hooyo if she and Aabbo had sex to have me. You would've thought I cursed her dead relatives or something the reaction I got. That's probably the scariest I've ever seen my mother.

Itrah · Postby **Itrah** » Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:27 pm

So, guess what I did? I went home and asked Hooyo if she and Aabbo had sex to have me. You would've thought I cursed her dead relatives or something the reaction I got. That's probably the scariest I've ever seen my mother.

Lol, you were a dumbass. I always knew from the get go but never brought it up with them.

CaliQase · Postby **CaliQase** » Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:28 pm

^^ he still might be!

samaalenoble · Postby **samaalenoble** » Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:33 pm

We really need to open up and stop this attitude if you mention sex to kids they will go out and do it as if they will remain ignorant forever. The other thing is that kids now are being exposed to porno and they think that is sex.

I kid you not wallahi I knew this Somali kid that didn't find out how kids were made until he was 17 or 18. He honestly believed when a couple got married that a kid was delivered like in cartoons the stork carrying the baby in their beaks.

I'm going to teach my kids about sex.
10% of the population has an IQ below 80. That individual most likely falls into that bracket.

Thanks for the input bro.

Postby **SultanOrder** » Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:33 pm

Who asks their parents if they are doing it. :dead:

Idman702 · Postby **Idman702** » Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:34 pm

Who asks their parents if they are doing it.

SaciidAyanleh · Postby **SaciidAyanleh** » Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:35 pm

So, guess what I did? I went home and asked Hooyo if she and Aabbo had sex to have me. You would've thought I cursed her dead relatives or something the reaction I got. That's probably the scariest I've ever seen my mother.
Lol, you were a dumbass. I always knew from the get go but never brought it up with them.

Naive + trusting + curious = dangerous combo.

@CaliQase,

Jugjugwacwac · Postby **Jugjugwacwac** » Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:37 pm

Sex Ed for Somali Kids:

1. Allah has created human beings with innate sexual desires intended to ensure the propogation of the human race. Thus, the primary purpose of sex is reproduction. A secondary benefit is that Allah has made it a pleasurable experience.

2. Allah has also sanctioned the institution of marriage between a man and a women, and it is only within this moral context that romantic love and sex can be pursued. This has been inverted in the West, which views romantic love as the moral place to experience sex and marriage.

3.Pre-marital sex is fraught with many dangers and consequences in the hereafter and in our worldy lives. These include Allah's wrath and punishment, unwanted pregnancies, children born out of wedlock, abortion, and STD's.

4. Girls need to be especially careful of Zina. That's because, along with beauty, the quality honourable men value above all is chastity. A young women who engages in Zina injures her honour and that of her family's and will not be able to marry the type of man she dreamed of as a girl.

What have I missed people?

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