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Re: Sex in the Somali community!

Postby CaliQase » Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:39 pm

So, guess what I did? I went home and asked Hooyo if she and Aabbo had sex to have me. You would've thought I cursed her dead relatives or something the reaction I got. That's probably the scariest I've ever seen my mother.
Lol, you were a dumbass. I always knew from the get go but never brought it up with them.
Naive + trusting + curious = dangerous combo.

@CaliQase, :broken: :( :cry: 8-)
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Re: Sex in the Somali community!

Postby CaliQase » Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:40 pm

Sex Ed for Somali Kids:

1. Allah has created human beings with innate sexual desires intended to ensure the propogation of the human race. Thus, the primary purpose of sex is reproduction. A secondary benefit is that Allah has made it a pleasure able experience.

2. Allah has also sanctioned the institution of marriage between a man and a women, and it is only within this moral context that romantic love and sex can be pursued. This has been inverted in the West, which views romantic love as the moral place to experience sex and marriage.

3.Pre-marital sex is fraught with many dangers and consequences in the hereafter and in our worldy lives. These include Allah's wrath and punishment, unwanted pregnancies, children born out of wedlock, abortion, and STD's.

4. Girls need to be especially careful of Zina. That's because, along with beauty, the quality honourable men value above all is chastity. A young women who engages in Zina shames injured her honour and that of her family's and will not be able to marry the type of man she dreamed of as a girl.

What have I missed people?
Malahayga si fiican baad u soo koobtay.

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Re: Sex in the Somali community!

Postby DR-YALAXOOW » Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:45 pm

Why is it a taboo to talk about intercourse? How come youths are not taught anything about sex?

Why do they call it such an ugly word? The 2 words for sex in afsomali is so ugly.


Sex is natural ofcourse in a halal way. :ufdup:



Oh I forgot these people scorn the bride if she smiles on her wedding ceremony. :mindblown:
there is good somali word for intercorse . "Galmo ama galmada" its a right word to use marka laga hadlayo biiqmada..

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Re: Sex in the Somali community!

Postby samaalenoble » Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:52 pm

Sex Ed for Somali Kids:

1. Allah has created human beings with innate sexual desires intended to ensure the propogation of the human race. Thus, the primary purpose of sex is reproduction. A secondary benefit is that Allah has made it a pleasureable experience.

2. Allah has also sanctioned the institution of marriage between a man and a women, and it is only within this moral context that romantic love and sex can be pursued. This has been inverted in the West, which views romantic love as the moral place to experience sex and marriage.

3.Pre-marital sex is fraught with many dangers and consequences in the hereafter and in our worldy lives. These include Allah's wrath and punishment, unwanted pregnancies, children born out of wedlock, abortion, and STD's.

4. Girls need to be especially careful of Zina. That's because, along with beauty, the quality honourable men value above all is chastity. A young women who engages in Zina shames injures her honour and that of her family's and will not be able to marry the type of man she dreamed of as a girl.

What have I missed people?

Rageedi. Everyday I realize more and more that there truly is hikmah in Islam and in the (unadulterated) religions of Christianity and Judaism. Bro, even atheist/non-religious wealthy families know this.

For instance, interacting with women literally stupefies men:

http://www.scientificamerican.com/artic ... -impaired/


Say no to CO-ED schools.
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Re: Sex in the Somali community!

Postby SultanOrder » Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:53 pm

You can also say isku tagasho

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Re: Sex in the Somali community!

Postby Basra- » Wed Jun 03, 2015 4:59 pm

sex education is important and time proved that in muslim societies. sexual frustration and sexual crimes wouldnt be wide spreaded. i dont believe correct islamic gender segregation anything to do with homosexuality, infidelity and incest sex. but luck of educating kids and young people about correct way to deal with their sexual frustration islamicly.

sex is energy and needs to guide it to the right and safe way to relief.

i dont like to spread fa7isha and make it norm to public/3amata alnaas to talk about it but in 2013 arab muslim majority country was number one for incest sex crimes/ زنا المحارم. and wasnt khaliji country, though came second.

dont come to me somalis immune from these kind of sexual illness. we just dont talk about it.

isome where in the west; somali father of 6 was brought to court cause his daughters accused him of inproperate sexual advances! is not she said he said or rumours. accually the case was in the court.

:lol: :lol: Hyper@Loooool


U crack me up. No wonder u r a virgin. U have zero energy therefore not compatible to sex. Also --gegigor too. Too lazy in person and energy. :eat:
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Re: Sex in the Somali community!

Postby samaalenoble » Wed Jun 03, 2015 5:02 pm

I think somebody deleted my original comment from 30 or so mins ago. Here it is:

You guys are talking about sex education saxib; I wouldn't even put children/teenagers/adults in CO-ED schools.

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Re: Sex in the Somali community!

Postby Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE » Wed Jun 03, 2015 5:19 pm

sex education is important and time proved that in muslim societies. sexual frustration and sexual crimes wouldnt be wide spreaded. i dont believe correct islamic gender segregation anything to do with homosexuality, infidelity and incest sex. but luck of educating kids and young people about correct way to deal with their sexual frustration islamicly.

sex is energy and needs to guide it to the right and safe way to relief.

i dont like to spread fa7isha and make it norm to public/3amata alnaas to talk about it but in 2013 arab muslim majority country was number one for incest sex crimes/ زنا المحارم. and wasnt khaliji country, though came second.

dont come to me somalis immune from these kind of sexual illness. we just dont talk about it.

isome where in the west; somali father of 6 was brought to court cause his daughters accused him of inproperate sexual advances! is not she said he said or rumours. accually the case was in the court.

:lol: :lol: Hyper@Loooool


U crack me up. No wonder u r a virgin. U have zero energy therefore not compatible to sex. Also --gegigor too. Too lazy in person and energy. :eat:
Basra why did u have to highlight that part..hyper is unintentionally funny... :lol:

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Re: Sex in the Somali community!

Postby Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE » Wed Jun 03, 2015 5:31 pm

Somali couples have sex? :lupe:


Since when ku dhufo ka dhaqaaq sex noqotay.

There's nothing to tell.

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Re: Sex in the Somali community!

Postby DR-YALAXOOW » Wed Jun 03, 2015 5:41 pm

ku dhufoo ka dhaqaaq
is the best sex ever :up: ,,, i do it 2 times a day somethimes whit my xalaal xajiyo :stylin:

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Re: Sex in the Somali community!

Postby Kaafiye » Wed Jun 03, 2015 5:42 pm

I think somebody deleted my original comment from 30 or so mins ago. Here it is:

You guys are talking about sex education saxib; I wouldn't even put children/teenagers/adults in CO-ED schools.
Rageedi. Neither would I.

Boys should attend all-boys schools and girls should attend all-girls schools.

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Re: Sex in the Somali community!

Postby Kaafiye » Wed Jun 03, 2015 5:46 pm

Sex Ed for Somali Kids:

1. Allah has created human beings with innate sexual desires intended to ensure the propogation of the human race. Thus, the primary purpose of sex is reproduction. A secondary benefit is that Allah has made it a pleasurable experience.

2. Allah has also sanctioned the institution of marriage between a man and a women, and it is only within this moral context that romantic love and sex can be pursued. This has been inverted in the West, which views romantic love as the moral place to experience sex and marriage.

3.Pre-marital sex is fraught with many dangers and consequences in the hereafter and in our worldy lives. These include Allah's wrath and punishment, unwanted pregnancies, children born out of wedlock, abortion, and STD's.

4. Girls need to be especially careful of Zina. That's because, along with beauty, the quality honourable men value above all is chastity. A young women who engages in Zina injures her honour and that of her family's and will not be able to marry the type of man she dreamed of as a girl.

What have I missed people?
That's all that needs to be said. :clap:

There is Hikmah in Islam regarding the institution of marriage and the relationship between the two genders.

This perverted Western mindset regarding sex needs to be thrown away. It has no benefit and it will only corrupt our society.

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Re: Sex in the Somali community!

Postby CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC » Wed Jun 03, 2015 6:58 pm

Somali couples have sex? :lupe:


Since when ku dhufo ka dhaqaaq sex noqotay.

There's nothing to tell.
cadaan ppl do ku dhufo ka dhaqaaq too they call it "quickie" :lol:

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Re: Sex in the Somali community!

Postby InaSamaale » Wed Jun 03, 2015 7:30 pm

Sex Ed for Somali Kids:

1. Allah has created human beings with innate sexual desires intended to ensure the propogation of the human race. Thus, the primary purpose of sex is reproduction. A secondary benefit is that Allah has made it a pleasurable experience.

2. Allah has also sanctioned the institution of marriage between a man and a women, and it is only within this moral context that romantic love and sex can be pursued. This has been inverted in the West, which views romantic love as the moral place to experience sex and marriage.

3.Pre-marital sex is fraught with many dangers and consequences in the hereafter and in our worldy lives. These include Allah's wrath and punishment, unwanted pregnancies, children born out of wedlock, abortion, and STD's.

4. Girls need to be especially careful of Zina. That's because, along with beauty, the quality honourable men value above all is chastity. A young women who engages in Zina injures her honour and that of her family's and will not be able to marry the type of man she dreamed of as a girl.

What have I missed people?
Well said. I think ill effects of pornography/ masturbation should be discussed too. We shouldn't sweep such things under the rug like they aren't issues affecting young Muslims.

This topic reminded me of this discussion forum I attended about 'issues within a marriage' run by Somalis. It was an interactive thing, in which audiences contribution both male and female was encouraged. One of the scenarios was about a couple who were having intimacy problems in their marriage, the girl was complaining that she was not satisfied and the guy was blaming her FGM. Anyways, the male MC was like "we won't ask audiences for their input on this specific scenario due to sensitivity and we will direct this to the shuyookh"

This daring single girl in a hijab, stood up in protest and said "why are we shying away and not asking for input from both genders? Me personally, I think maybe it's not the wife who is the issue, the husband needs to find out what gets her going/ what spots to hit, basically men should come and explore our bodies" Mind you all the guys were staring at her :lol:

qolka dhan yaab iyo yaxyax baan dareemnay. While I agree that Somalis make sex/marriage taboo to the point that it's unhealthy and provide little guidance to young people, it's important to not go to the other extreme.

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Re: Sex in the Somali community!

Postby Ismail87 » Wed Jun 03, 2015 7:47 pm

ku dhufoo ka dhaqaaq
is the best sex ever :up: ,,, i do it 2 times a day somethimes whit my xalaal xajiyo :stylin:
Marmarka kalena with water melons somaha :lol:


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