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Women who always say they don't have female friends and women are full of drama, no there's nothing wrong with women. There's something wrong with YOU. You're either a slut, insecure or you're full of drama. I can't stand when women say that they don't want female friends. Oh well you're missing out, I had the best of times with my female besties.

is that so?

You're boring me. GO AWAY..

Any female who does this is a hoe any female who knows more men then women is also a hoe

LOL When I saw it was you who posted it I was like

But I agree 100%. I haven't met a Somali girl like that, only cadaan chicks are like that

Omg right?! There's nothing more than I hate when a woman says " I only have male friends, females bring too much drama". They don't get that they're probably the cause of all the drama that happens in their life. They put themselves on a high pedestal that they're above it all and only men are able to understand them. It's annoying and quite frankly a little depressing.

I'm so thankful for my female friends! I've experienced everything with them and the fact that they can also relate to most of them is just a wonderful feeling. !

Warriors wrote:Any female who does this is a hoe any female who knows more men then women is also a hoe

Nigga I'm 50/50.

SolidCamel wrote:LOL When I saw it was you who posted it I was like

But I agree 100%. I haven't met a Somali girl like that, only cadaan chicks are like that

There are tons of somali chicks who say that Loool.

venusian wrote:Omg right?! There's nothing more than I hate when a woman says " I only have male friends, females bring too much drama". They don't get that they're probably the cause of all the drama that happens in their life. They put themselves on a high pedestal that they're above it all and only men are able to understand them. It's annoying and quite frankly a little depressing.

I'm so thankful for my female friends! I've experienced everything with them and the fact that they can also relate to most of them is just a wonderful feeling. !

You're absolutely correct. And no those women are not above anyone. Most of them are insecure, and only hang out with men because they feed off male attention.

Well think of it this way.

Men are normally fair weather friends - for a reason or season. Once they are married it's nice knowing them. That's just how they are. I kid you not. And I'm referring to platonic friends. The only male confidants I have are my brothers and cousins. Since, they keep it real, with no agenda.

Women will be your friend irrespective of your marital status and they are better at providing emotional support. I'm talking about the good and loyal ones. Some have not mastered the sister code, which is why they are without female friends.

Soph do you actually give a fakrad dheer when reading/replying to a post?

Sophisticate wrote:Well think of it this way.

Men are normally fair weather friends - for a reason or season. Once they are married it's nice knowing them. That's just how they are. I kid you not. And I'm referring to platonic friends. The only male confidants I have are my brothers and cousins. Since, they keep it real, with no agenda.

Women will be your friend irrespective of your marital status and they are better at providing emotional support. I'm talking about the good and loyal ones. Some have not mastered the sister code, which is why they are without female friends.

Women are generally boring compared to men, a girl who has guy friends in the past knows this.
But a guy has an agenda, that is true, unless he has gay syndrome.

Sophisticate made it very clear. The best of us want marriage (Which is technically an agenda, but a good one), the rest of us just want..You know

Gentlemen; Would you marry a girl who has male friends?
How about interactions between them? How do you see that?
How do you see if your sister has male friends? How about their interactions? How do you feel about that?

CaliQase wrote:Sophisticate made it very clear. The best of us want marriage (Which is technically an agenda, but a good one), the rest of us just want..You know

Gentlemen; Would you marry a girl who has male friends?
How about interactions between them? How do you see that?
How do you see if your sister has male friends? How about their interactions? How do you feel about that?

It is rare to find a female that has no male friends. Understand that the term "friends" these days is applied loosely. Does an snet friend count, school friend, a member of an association/group/club, work colleague, family friend etc. Please specify. Will I take a guy friend shopping, out to dinner by himself; this is unlikely. I don't care about having guy friends, but apparently society does, they have set up such friendships for failure from the start. Unless of course they lead to a relationship. If they so much as see you with a male in public - they are quick to assume there is something there (only exception: limp-wristed fellows).

Every male friend I've had was platonic. Including a suitor. So, I suppose I can truly say they were friends. However, like I said before, most male friends are normally fair weather - for a reason or season.

Eid Mubarak Walaal =)

Adali wrote:

Sophisticate wrote:Well think of it this way.

Men are normally fair weather friends - for a reason or season. Once they are married it's nice knowing them. That's just how they are. I kid you not. And I'm referring to platonic friends. The only male confidants I have are my brothers and cousins. Since, they keep it real, with no agenda.

Women will be your friend irrespective of your marital status and they are better at providing emotional support. I'm talking about the good and loyal ones. Some have not mastered the sister code, which is why they are without female friends.

Women are generally boring compared to men, a girl who has guy friends in the past knows this.
But a guy has an agenda, that is true, unless he has gay syndrome.

Although they seem to occupy a lot of your mental real estate. And are the focus of most of your threads. Who are you kidding.

Sophisticate wrote:

Adali wrote:

Sophisticate wrote:Well think of it this way.

Men are normally fair weather friends - for a reason or season. Once they are married it's nice knowing them. That's just how they are. I kid you not. And I'm referring to platonic friends. The only male confidants I have are my brothers and cousins. Since, they keep it real, with no agenda.

Women will be your friend irrespective of your marital status and they are better at providing emotional support. I'm talking about the good and loyal ones. Some have not mastered the sister code, which is why they are without female friends.

Women are generally boring compared to men, a girl who has guy friends in the past knows this.
But a guy has an agenda, that is true, unless he has gay syndrome.

Although they seem to occupy a lot of your mental real estate. And are the focus of most of your threads. Who are you kidding.

women=sex

so yeah I agree, perhaps not what you wanted to hear, but essentially sex is what occupies my mind as well as every other man, don't feel flattered, doggystyle isn't.

Adali wrote:

Sophisticate wrote:
Although they seem to occupy a lot of your mental real estate. And are the focus of most of your threads. Who are you kidding.

women=sex

so yeah I agree, perhaps not what you wanted to hear, but essentially sex is what occupies my mind as well as every other man, don't feel flattered, doggystyle isn't.

Your mind sounds a lot like a brothel. I doubt, all "men" express the same sentiments. For starters, bro don't speak in absolutes. They don't all see women as reduced to their (sex organs alone). I know men that have impeccable impulse control. I know men that put their creator over instant gratification. They have conquered their desires and have not succumb to human foibles - lust/fornication outside the confines of marriage. This is the epitome of masculinity to me. These brothers are husband material. And yes; I've been friends with this type.