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Re: Group of men have gathered in Hargeisa's Mansoor hotel to protest over expensive engagement costs
Posted: Wed Jul 22, 2015 5:20 pm
by Ismail87
Hyper 15k for my Meher money. I won't have a big wedding, I will have an intimate gathering with my blood relatives and close friends, then he has to take me to an exotic place for the honeymoon. The 15k money is like insurance, you know when he effs up, I will ask for a divorce.
Already planning the divorce
Inadeer how about marrying someone you can tolerate that way you won't need 15k for insurance...
Re: Group of men have gathered in Hargeisa's Mansoor hotel to protest over expensive engagement costs
Posted: Wed Jul 22, 2015 5:37 pm
by Idman702
if i was married what i own is hers, but i wouldnt let her waste it in wedding and none sense honey moon. i wouldnt take loan for no matter what for any one. she has eccess what i owe.
i can promise taking her to haj every year and every ramadan umra tho .
and very nice house and very clean place that she doesnt have to clean, i wouldnt trust her, i would do it myself at 4 am after fajir prayers. loool
Hyper you're warming up to the idea of marriage

From never wanting to be married to saying you would take her to hajj every year.
Looooooooool@ I wouldn't trust her with the cleaning, heck if you're willing to clean the whole house and cook, no woman will ever complain about you not spending money on the wedding.
Already planning the divorce
Inadeer how about marrying someone you can tolerate that way you won't need 15k for insurance...
Looool
Nothing lasts forever dee, who knows when I turn 60 he might want to go back home and marry a young tenderoni. Then I will hit him with the papers.

Re: Group of men have gathered in Hargeisa's Mansoor hotel to protest over expensive engagement costs
Posted: Wed Jul 22, 2015 5:54 pm
by Ismail87
nothing lasts forever dee, who knows when I turn 60 he might want to go back home and marry a young tenderoni. Then I will hit him with the papers.

15k in 30-40 years will probably be equivalent to 1k or even less

Re: Group of men have gathered in Hargeisa's Mansoor hotel to protest over expensive engagement costs
Posted: Wed Jul 22, 2015 5:56 pm
by Hyperactive
idman, i said "if" i really dont understand people who marry and mistreat their wife/husband.
after long years marriage , when you 60, hack you got the house and all the money, you worked life time and you have right to retire comfortaple on my expenses. nothing worthed more, raising my kids to adulthood. any women deserve a crown that time.
i say that cause i imagine my mom, the old man, cannot dare to mistreat her. rag bey leedahay hada, on ogoleyn in hooyadood la bahdalo

Re: Group of men have gathered in Hargeisa's Mansoor hotel to protest over expensive engagement costs
Posted: Wed Jul 22, 2015 6:06 pm
by Idman702
Ismail: I forgot each year we are married he will add 2k.

I'm kidding, I will probably be sick of him after certain years. I've noticed old white couples sleep in different bedrooms and they're very happy. I want that kind of marriage inshallah. After 50 years of marriage, I will want my space.
Hyper: I'm sure you boys will change your tune, boys always take their dad's side. No matter what.

Re: Group of men have gathered in Hargeisa's Mansoor hotel to protest over expensive engagement costs
Posted: Wed Jul 22, 2015 6:22 pm
by Ismail87
Waxaan kugu ducaynaya a righteous spouse inadeer

Re: Group of men have gathered in Hargeisa's Mansoor hotel to protest over expensive engagement costs
Posted: Wed Jul 22, 2015 6:24 pm
by COOL-MAN
[quote="Idman702"]Ismail: I forgot each year we are married he will add 2k.

I'm kidding, I will probably be sick of him after certain years. I've noticed old white couples sleep in different bedrooms and they're very happy. I want that kind of marriage inshallah. After 50 years of marriage, I will want my space
[/quote
Maxaad ku reebtey after fifty years? You squeezed the last drop of him by then

Re: Group of men have gathered in Hargeisa's Mansoor hotel to protest over expensive engagement costs
Posted: Wed Jul 22, 2015 6:36 pm
by Hyperactive
looooool@after 50 years of "marriage"!! your self will be 70+ years. hadad so'on kartid naseeb baad lesdahay without a help.
coolman, idman wey kaftameysa ban o maleyn. somalimen dont age that long, inta badan.lol
Re: Group of men have gathered in Hargeisa's Mansoor hotel to protest over expensive engagement costs
Posted: Wed Jul 22, 2015 6:41 pm
by Idman702
Ismail: thank you ina adeer, and I also pray you will find a loving, obedient, respectful wife with dhax dhuuban iyo joog dheer. Unless you're short, I pray you find a short one, unless you like them tall.
COOLMAN: like hyper said, you Somali men are cursed, the old men drop like flies

Re: Group of men have gathered in Hargeisa's Mansoor hotel to protest over expensive engagement costs
Posted: Wed Jul 22, 2015 6:44 pm
by COOL-MAN
looooool@after 50 years of "marriage"!! your self will be 70+ years. hadad so'on kartid naseeb baad lesdahay without a help.
coolman, idman wey kaftameysa ban o maleyn. somalimen dont age that long, inta badan.lol
@ hadad so'on kartid naseeb baad leedahay
Idman oo kale ayan kuu aqanaa hyperow, She is theytype that will be clinging to her man everywhere he goes. Separate bedroom ayad sheegiye musqusha kaligiis in uu tago ma ogolaaneyso

Re: Group of men have gathered in Hargeisa's Mansoor hotel to protest over expensive engagement costs
Posted: Wed Jul 22, 2015 6:46 pm
by COOL-MAN
Ismail: thank you ina adeer, and I also pray you will find a loving, obedient, respectful wife with dhax dhuuban iyo joog dheer. Unless you're short, I pray you find a short one, unless you like them tall.
COOLMAN: like hyper said, you Somali men are cursed, the old men drop like flies

Women too. We all drop dead one time or the other non lasts forever. Been ha iska dhaa dhicinin

Re: Group of men have gathered in Hargeisa's Mansoor hotel to protest over expensive engagement costs
Posted: Wed Jul 22, 2015 6:48 pm
by Hyperactive
she is looking sex after 50 years!! neefteeda ba ba ya o adkeysan karo.lol
Re: Group of men have gathered in Hargeisa's Mansoor hotel to protest over expensive engagement costs
Posted: Wed Jul 22, 2015 6:52 pm
by Idman702
Looooool
Screw you both!
COOLMAN: absence makes the heart grow fonder, I will even pay his ticket I don't see him for a while.
P.s
I know 90% somali old widows, the husbands all dropped lol
Re: Group of men have gathered in Hargeisa's Mansoor hotel to protest over expensive engagement costs
Posted: Wed Jul 22, 2015 6:54 pm
by Hyperactive
lol@screw you both. hey Idman, its all kaftan sis. if you survive first 5 years of marriage, you are really a surviver.
Re: Group of men have gathered in Hargeisa's Mansoor hotel to protest over expensive engagement costs
Posted: Wed Jul 22, 2015 6:55 pm
by COOL-MAN
she is looking sex after 50 years!! neefteeda ba ba ya o adkeysan karo.lol
Idman
We will wait to see
Habraha you see in the qurbaha without there old men either divorced young or the men were killed during the war. It doesn't mean men die earlier the women.