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Why do people shame Gold Diggers?

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Re: Why do people shame Gold Diggers?

Postby Hyperactive » Thu Jul 30, 2015 3:17 pm

why i am a weird ass dee?

normal is boring tho.lol

now i am broke , i spent until last dolar in a house. my dad felt bad and transfered few thousands to my bank. Alhamdullilah.

people think if you purchase a house for over half a million, you are rich. man that was all i had saved last couple years.

Allaho abahey e daa.

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Re: Why do people shame Gold Diggers?

Postby Methylamine » Thu Jul 30, 2015 3:19 pm

As long as that money doesn't reach the pirate republic, we gucci :whew: Mans aren't tryna support the cast of Captain Phillips
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Re: Why do people shame Gold Diggers?

Postby Sophisticate » Thu Jul 30, 2015 3:20 pm

Idman,

I appreciate their hustle, irrespective of the gender. This whole gold digger label placed on them which attempt to brand them as opportunists, fails to factor in the fact that hablaha have been doing this (marrying for money/status) since time immemorial. It was seen as a way to improve their lot in life, along with that of their families.

Many women aspire to marry someone that is their earning equal or higher. Personally, if I had a considerably high net-worth. I wouldn't be too concerned about marrying a man that made less than me (prenup involved and I would probably not disclose the fact that I have a lot of money by living humbly). Sadly, the higher up the tax bracket the uglier the men usually are (sad but true). This can be a bit stifling. Anyway, money comes and goes. Similarly, a man of means can be reduced to nothing. The etymology of the term gold digger is very specific and only refers to women that are trying to cultivate a relationship for the sole purpose of financial gain, nothing more.
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Re: Why do people shame Gold Diggers?

Postby Idman702 » Thu Jul 30, 2015 3:21 pm

why i am a weird ass dee?

normal is boring tho.lol

now i am broke , i spent until last dolar in a house. my dad felt bad and transfered few thousands to my bank. Alhamdullilah.

people think if you purchase a house for over half a million, you are rich. man that was all i had saved last couple years.

Allaho abahey e daa.

All I read was the highlighted part.


:lol:

You're right being normal is boring. Keep being you and keep purchasing million dollar homes while I perfect my hijabi and cabaya skills. :up:

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Re: Why do people shame Gold Diggers?

Postby Idman702 » Thu Jul 30, 2015 3:22 pm

As long as that money doesn't reach the pirate republic, we gucci :whew: Mans aren't tryna support the cast of Captain Phillips
:dead:


Nigga if I knew pirates you think I would gold dig my way to Canuck money? :ufdup:

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Re: Why do people shame Gold Diggers?

Postby Idman702 » Thu Jul 30, 2015 3:26 pm

Idman,

I appreciate their hustle, irrespective of the gender. This whole gold digger label placed on them which attempt to brand them as opportunists, fails to factor in the fact that hablaha have been doing this (marrying for money/status) since time immemorial. It was seen as a way to improve their lot in life, along with that of their families.

Many women aspire to marry someone that is their earning equal or higher. Personally, if I had a considerably high net-worth. I wouldn't be too concerned about marrying a man that made less than me (prenup involved and I would probably not disclose the fact that I have a lot of money by living humbly). Sadly, the higher up the tax bracket the uglier the men usually are (sad but true). This can be a bit stifling. Anyway, money comes and goes. Similarly, a man of means can be reduced to nothing. The etymology of the term gold digger is very specific and only refers to women that are trying to cultivate a relationship for the sole purpose of financial gain, nothing more.


Some gold diggers fall in love with their partners later in life. You're right though society down plays gold diggers, think about how they're boosting the self esteems for these men. It's all part of the package. Lol.

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Re: Why do people shame Gold Diggers?

Postby Bandit » Thu Jul 30, 2015 3:27 pm

Why do other women try to shame women who want to live in a lavish life style and who choose to be with a rich partner. Yes I believe everyone should work hard for what they want, but I also believe short cuts in life are the best thing.

Let's be honest, no woman in her right mind wants a broke guy. No matter how charming, handsome and educated he is. Even if I was a rich, I would only seek a rich man. Why should a broke guy spend my money.

I would rather be with hyperActive weird ass who has money than with broke ass bandit/guwop. Hyper can hire a maid or clean after himself while I shop at Dubai. Bandit will just drain my damn energy, want me to drive him around since his broke ass can't afford a car. Bandy you're still my nigga though.
:wtf: why are people using me as example for deadbeats nowadays? When did I become the poster boy deadbeats :wtf:
Ps: females don't care about how much money you have they just care about how you look especially when there young :stylin:

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Re: Why do people shame Gold Diggers?

Postby Robotic » Thu Jul 30, 2015 3:27 pm

This is not my way of living. It kinda feels lazy and boring. Honestly, I have always been that kind of person who wants to earn something and work for it. My independence is very important for me. And I can't stand sitting and doing nothing. Everyone is different though and everyone live their own lives once, so why not do what you enjoy?

But hey...

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Re: Why do people shame Gold Diggers?

Postby Hyperactive » Thu Jul 30, 2015 3:28 pm

idman, i like your hussles. many men dont care if you are a gold diger as long you are a good wife and became a good mother for their kids.

i wouldnt mind to "buy", i use that for lack of better word, if i know she is a good person and i can trust her. money is just a tool, if getts me a better woman, be it.

strangely, i dont think women whom gold diggers are bad thing. the key is, is she worth it.

financial comfortability is very important.

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Re: Why do people shame Gold Diggers?

Postby Methylamine » Thu Jul 30, 2015 3:29 pm

As long as that money doesn't reach the pirate republic, we gucci Mans aren't tryna support the cast of Captain Phillips
:dead:


Nigga if I knew pirates you think I would gold dig my way to Canuck money? :ufdup:
Ever since Tom Hanks released that movie, stocks in Dal Udug's largest company have plummeted faster than Meek Mill's career :damn:

It's all good, we'll have a seaside resort in the ancestral city of Maydh. You'll be preparing laxoox iyo muqmad as I test out some military grade missiles that will be heading to Bender Qasim :mrgreen:

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Re: Why do people shame Gold Diggers?

Postby SolidCamel » Thu Jul 30, 2015 3:30 pm

This is not my way of living. It kinda feels lazy and boring. Honestly, I have always been that kind of person who wants to earn something and work for it. My independence is very important for me. And I can't stand sitting and doing nothing. Everyone is different though and everyone live their own lives once, so why not do what you enjoy?

But hey...

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Re: Why do people shame Gold Diggers?

Postby SolidCamel » Thu Jul 30, 2015 3:30 pm

As long as that money doesn't reach the pirate republic, we gucci :whew: Mans aren't tryna support the cast of Captain Phillips
:damn: :whew:

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Re: Why do people shame Gold Diggers?

Postby Idman702 » Thu Jul 30, 2015 3:34 pm

Bandit: I said you're still my nigga. But yes women in this age care about your financial stability.

Robotic: bish how are you going to talk down on GDs then drop that khia gif, :comeon:

Methy: prepare laxoox, me? Lool. Attack bender qasim?. Don't get ahead of yourself. I will make sure to wear the pants, you will go to work them back home. I will track your cellphone also. :ufdup:

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Re: Why do people shame Gold Diggers?

Postby Idman702 » Thu Jul 30, 2015 3:36 pm

idman, i like your hussles. many men dont care if you are a gold diger as long you are a good wife and became a good mother for their kids.

i wouldnt mind to "buy", i use that for lack of better word, if i know she is a good person and i can trust her. money is just a tool, if getts me a better woman, be it.

strangely, i dont think women whom gold diggers are bad thing. the key is, is she worth it.

financial comfortability is very important
.

:whew:


You just dropped the truth. Mashallah...

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Re: Why do people shame Gold Diggers?

Postby Bandit » Thu Jul 30, 2015 3:37 pm

For any somali nikka that hits a jackpot my advice would to get a white or Asian female no need to downgrade to somali female :MJ: when I hit the jackpot ill be impregnating white/Latino/asian females only :win:


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