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Suaal for the married/previously married folks
Posted: Sun Aug 30, 2015 2:57 am
by Inaayah
How old were you when you got married?
Re: Suaal for the married/previously married folks
Posted: Sun Aug 30, 2015 3:36 am
by MujahidAishah
21
Re: Suaal for the married/previously married folks
Posted: Sun Aug 30, 2015 3:40 am
by YummyMummy
20
Re: Suaal for the married/previously married folks
Posted: Sun Aug 30, 2015 3:49 am
by original dervish
Why so young......were they shotgun weddings?

Re: Suaal for the married/previously married folks
Posted: Sun Aug 30, 2015 3:56 am
by MujahidAishah
Why so young......were they shotgun weddings?

Original Cockroach!!

Re: Suaal for the married/previously married folks
Posted: Sun Aug 30, 2015 3:57 am
by Inaayah
Girls, 20/21 is fairly young for young adults who were born/raised in the West.
Was it difficult getting use to masuuliyada and getting along with in-laws?
Re: Suaal for the married/previously married folks
Posted: Sun Aug 30, 2015 5:58 am
by theyuusuf143
Inaayah iska guurso inaar naaguhu cimri maleh hadaad 40 dhaafto huudhaydh baad noqonaysaa cidwalbaa kugu jufaysa.
Re: Suaal for the married/previously married folks
Posted: Sun Aug 30, 2015 6:08 am
by Inaayah
Lol I'm no where near 30 and you're talking about 40. InshAllah I'm in no rush, ka ugu horeeya ee ila hadla ku dhagi maayo.
Re: Suaal for the married/previously married folks
Posted: Sun Aug 30, 2015 7:02 am
by Sumubaridi
sug aan xisaabshee.
1978-2006=28 years baan jiray. Yes, it was so hard to come home at 8pm and being asked where are you going and when are you coming. It was also hard to be there every evening at home for a visiting women introduction which is not ending especially the first 30 days of the wedding. Maalinba islaan bed sheet $20 wado baa imaanaysa and we spend the whole day cleaning the house and cooking for her.
1st tip, when you are about to get married, remember one thing and stick it in your head and azz. everything in your life will take a different turn and you better get used to it.
Re: Suaal for the married/previously married folks
Posted: Sun Aug 30, 2015 7:09 am
by Sumubaridi
Lol I'm no where near 30 and you're talking about 40. InshAllah I'm in no rush, ka ugu horeeya ee ila hadla ku dhagi maayo.
you can marry anytime you want but your choice of men will change. When you are 17-21- you are qualified for guys 24-28, when you are 23-28- you are qualified for 34-38, when you are 30-35, you are qualified for 40-50.
if you want to know your value in men's eyes, just add 10 years to your age and that is the man you should go for. Islaan canyuubaysatay oo lac lacday nin yar marabo.
Re: Suaal for the married/previously married folks
Posted: Sun Aug 30, 2015 10:42 pm
by DisplacedDiraac
Lol I'm no where near 30 and you're talking about 40. InshAllah I'm in no rush, ka ugu horeeya ee ila hadla ku dhagi maayo.
you can marry anytime you want but your choice of men will change. When you are 17-21- you are qualified for guys 24-28, when you are 23-28- you are qualified for 34-38, when you are 30-35, you are qualified for 40-50.
if you want to know your value in men's eyes, just add 10 years to your age and that is the man you should go for. Islaan canyuubaysatay oo lac lacday nin yar marabo.
Bless, is this what old geezers tell themselves..
Re: Suaal for the married/previously married folks
Posted: Sun Aug 30, 2015 11:02 pm
by Xeno
you can marry anytime you want but your choice of men will change. When you are 17-21- you are qualified for guys 24-28, when you are 23-28- you are qualified for 34-38, when you are 30-35, you are qualified for 40-50.
if you want to know your value in men's eyes, just add 10 years to your age and that is the man you should go for. Islaan canyuubaysatay oo lac lacday nin yar marabo.
Rubbish. I know Somali couples where both the man and the woman are 30 when they first married.
Re: Suaal for the married/previously married folks
Posted: Mon Aug 31, 2015 1:01 pm
by Sumubaridi
you can marry anytime you want but your choice of men will change. When you are 17-21- you are qualified for guys 24-28, when you are 23-28- you are qualified for 34-38, when you are 30-35, you are qualified for 40-50.
if you want to know your value in men's eyes, just add 10 years to your age and that is the man you should go for. Islaan canyuubaysatay oo lac lacday nin yar marabo.
Rubbish. I know Somali couples where both the man and the woman are 30 when they first married.
The girl might have claimed a fake age. She might have been 30 but claimed 25. Its ceeb in the somali culture for a woman to marry a man who of the same age as her.
Re: Suaal for the married/previously married folks
Posted: Mon Aug 31, 2015 1:08 pm
by The-Screw
I'm Awrtable, my people don't rush to marriage life.
Re: Suaal for the married/previously married folks
Posted: Mon Aug 31, 2015 1:09 pm
by Cherine
Hey Screw

nice to see you back