What is your opinion?

[ciirkaiyoaduunka]

Hello all,

I'm getting married in a few months, and of course I have a lot on my mind. From the wedding, to the house, decorating,my duties as his wife and life after marriage.

To tell you a little bit about my fiance and I. We have been together for about 5 years. We met each other while I was a sophomore in college. We've wanted to get married after 3 months of knowing each other, but of course like any relationship we came across many obstacles.

Obviously we love one another very much and I want to be the best wife to him. He is nice guy. His mother and I getting along fairly well. I want to make sure I make him happy.

So as a newly-wed or 5 year,10,15,20 year spouse, what do you expect from your significant other to make you happy? What are some wifey duties a lady has? Cooking? Cleaning? Communicating? Going-out? Staying fit? etc

All opinions are welcome. Waiting to read your thoughts!

[TheblueNwhite]

Lol. Troll alert.

You know what you have to do. Get a pole and put it in the middle of your bedroom. Dirty dancing. Yep.

[CaliQase]

Never let him smell an unpleasent smell from you and the house,
Never let his eyes catch anything less than beautiful in you or the house,
Never let him eat any food that is not yours (That you didn't make).

[TheLoFather]

Firstival I will tell you what will not make me happy, infact will make passed off out of my skin, is my wife asking complete strangers what will make me happy (even if she is just trolling) Somali maahmaah says "Af jooga looma adeego." So my advice to you is go and ask your husband to be and discuss with what your/his expectation, idea of love and plans for the future are AND STOP WASTING OUR TIME.
And Secondly good luck and hambalyo.



how I will never get back the time I have wasted in reading and replying to this post

[Theguardian]

Hello all,

I'm getting married in a few months, and of course I have a lot on my mind. From the wedding, to the house, decorating,my duties as his wife and life after marriage.

To tell you a little bit about my fiance and I. We have been together for about 5 years. We met each other while I was a sophomore in college. We've wanted to get married after 3 months of knowing each other, but of course like any relationship we came across many obstacles.

Obviously we love one another very much and I want to be the best wife to him. He is nice guy. His mother and I getting along fairly well. I want to make sure I make him happy.

So as a newly-wed or 5 year,10,15,20 year spouse, what do you expect from your significant other to make you happy? What are some wifey duties a lady has? Cooking? Cleaning? Communicating? Going-out? Staying fit? etc

All opinions are welcome. Waiting to read your thoughts!

Aww congratulations sister -

I say; just be yourself -
And remember you've rights over him too -
Learn each other likes and dislikes and always talk to each other in adult manner -no shouting.
Good luck and may Allah bless you with long happy fulfilled marriage.

[Theguardian]

Never let him smell an unpleasent smell from you and the house,
Never let his eyes catch anything less than beautiful in you or the house,
Never let him eat any food that is not yours (That you didn't make).

LOL -bad smells are sometimes uncontrollable -
And some bad smell are just part of life -

So sister don't panic if one day he smells something bad in the house or in you.
Hopefully you're marrying a reasonable guy.

[CaliQase]

Never let him smell an unpleasent smell from you and the house,
Never let his eyes catch anything less than beautiful in you or the house,
Never let him eat any food that is not yours (That you didn't make).

LOL -bad smells are sometimes uncontrollable -
And some bad smell are just part of life -

So sister don't panic if one day he smells something bad in the house or in you.
Hopefully you're marrying a reasonable guy.

Lool this is not from me Lady G, it a wisdom I heard. It is from a mother to her newly-wed daughter.

[Theguardian]

Never let him smell an unpleasent smell from you and the house,
Never let his eyes catch anything less than beautiful in you or the house,
Never let him eat any food that is not yours (That you didn't make).

LOL -bad smells are sometimes uncontrollable -
And some bad smell are just part of life -

So sister don't panic if one day he smells something bad in the house or in you.
Hopefully you're marrying a reasonable guy.

Lool this is not from me Lady G, it a wisdom I heard. It is from a mother to her newly-wed daughter.

Lol I heard something similar too; I think it is from hadith.
But some people take it literally where they don't go to the toilet when the husband is in the house for number2

[GAMES]

Hmmm.....

[CaliQase]

Lool I had to google what number two is

Anyways, you certainly don't want to heard doing that, do you?

[CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC]

I know you are trolling but here is two things that will make every guy happy

Food nd sex ... You make sure food is on the table nd you are ready when ever he comes home I promise he won't look at another woman

[2ndtoNone]

Only talk when you're spoken to and whenever he comes greet him wearing nothing but a dirac bila googarad.

[Theguardian]

Lool I had to google what number two is

Anyways, you certainly don't want to heard doing that, do you?

Lol
Imagine the 7 day when newlyweds don't leave each other sight. Poor girls.

[CaliQase]

Lool I had to google what number two is

Anyways, you certainly don't want to heard doing that, do you?

Lol
Imagine the 7 day when newlyweds don't leave each other sight. Poor girls.

Well, be creative about it and come to a solution

[CaliQase]

Lool I had to google what number two is

Anyways, you certainly don't want to heard doing that, do you?

Lol
Imagine the 7 day when newlyweds don't leave each other sight. Poor girls.

Wait a sec. how about us?! It is not like we enjoy it either