If looks weren't important the Prophet peace and blessings be upon him, wouldn't have listed it as one of the things to look for
The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) taught us in many hadith about the various characteristics which one looks for in a spouse and their relative importance and which ones determine success insha'Allah and Allah's blessing on a marriage. Among those hadith:
"A woman is married for her deen, her wealth or her beauty. You must go for the one with deen, may your hands be in the dust! (if you fail to heed)" [Muslim]
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InshaAllah I will find a pious hunk. If beauty wasn't an important factor to consider when looking for a spouse our beloved Prophet peace and blessings be upon him wouldn't have mentioned it, that's what I was tryingto get at bro.
We're not discouraging you to find a beautiful Muslim bro, but you need to understand the context of that hadith - deen, wealth, and beauty were all mentioned. However, the one with the deen is recommended over others. If you can find a fella that is rich, handsome, and have string religious faith, that is all you need to have. However, if you have to choose one over other two, deen comes first. That is the context.
You know Ms Fiora, there was this Somali wedding where the malxiis was much taller and handsome than the groom. When the malxiis and malxiisad were sitting next to the groom and bride respectively, the malxiisad girl would look 180 degree away from the groom (caruus). The bride were very surprised to understand what was bothering her friend whom she has chosen as a malxiisad. Well, some people understood what hat girl was up to and could not stop laughing
At the end of the wedding, the bride understood what was bothering her friend and started giving her new husband a hard-time. She was like why did you embarrass yourself and me when you chose a guy that is mire handsome than you in our wedding?
The groom got defensive, was very upset, and did not take that crap from his new wife. He told her that her friend - who was the malxiisad - was a bish, and if she does not stop questioning him about why he chose that guy to be his malxiis, he is gonna file for divorce. Well, the girl somehow could net get over, so she kept bringing that issue up every time they have arguments. The last I heard that family broke up due to issues emanating from what malxiisad girl did
Alright, I understand your point now. You want to marry a handsome bro because you don't want your malxiisad friend doing the 180 degree away from your hubby loooooooool
