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My message to the young xalimos of this forum.

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Re: My message to the young xalimos of this forum.

Postby Advo » Thu Oct 01, 2015 4:45 am

I swear I saw that movie

Fat guy in high school gets friendzoned or brotherzoned, he runs away due to shame. He becomes successful, loses weight, and comes back to town years later. Etc

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Re: My message to the young xalimos of this forum.

Postby Inaayah » Thu Oct 01, 2015 5:19 am

Bad boys are no good & good boys are no fun.

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Re: My message to the young xalimos of this forum.

Postby Bibaaye6828 » Thu Oct 01, 2015 6:49 am

^^maxa rabtiin marka lol but anyway a nerdy relative of mine with money got married to some crazy wild freak hoe. Shit was just :russ:

Another thing tho when you see a girl who shot ya down years ago n crumbles this time around :steviej:

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Re: My message to the young xalimos of this forum.

Postby Xeno » Thu Oct 01, 2015 7:57 am

I swear I saw that movie

Fat guy in high school gets friendzoned or brotherzoned, he runs away due to shame. He becomes successful, loses weight, and comes back to town years later. Etc
The reverse is also a common phenomenon:

Hot chick in her teens/early 20s, marries/dates trashy men, ends up being a single mom with a shit job, life ruined.

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Re: My message to the young xalimos of this forum.

Postby Inaayah » Thu Oct 01, 2015 8:44 am

Bibaaye- One that's inbetween, which is hard to find

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Re: My message to the young xalimos of this forum.

Postby Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE » Thu Oct 01, 2015 11:41 am

Have fun with the bad boys ..marry the nerdy guy

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Re: My message to the young xalimos of this forum.

Postby Bibaaye6828 » Thu Oct 01, 2015 11:50 am

Bibaaye- One that's inbetween, which is hard to find
From my pov im a man i can put up with bs but i would think nerds over niggas for u lot. To have a future with i mean.

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Re: My message to the young xalimos of this forum.

Postby Itrah » Thu Oct 01, 2015 12:22 pm

Youth delinquency rates have been dropping for a couple of decades as nearly all the kids are turning into nerds. 'Gangsta thug life' types aren't as common as they used to be.

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Re: My message to the young xalimos of this forum.

Postby incognito1 » Thu Oct 01, 2015 12:22 pm

Find a man or a woman you share humor, lifestyle, food, business, future goals, and family plans with, some one who enjoys travel and understands romance is like tango. Because when the illusions of love and beauty fade and they will, your common interests will keep you strong, and give you the tools to keep rebuilding re inventing yourselves,With age and time.

Now adays sister marry guys they like,and brothers marry sisters they find attractive. These things are temporary, and thats why marriages last for 2 years now aday.
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Postby Xisab » Thu Oct 01, 2015 12:31 pm

I don't think it depends on your looks or how nerdy you look. If you have any of those things, u can get any Xalimo.
I disagree with this aspect of your post. Looks matter and is definitely a big bonus to have, but its true that its only one component that determines attraction. What I will admit is that looks matter generally much more to men than women, who tend to be a lot more compromising in that department if everything else checks out.

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Re: My message to the young xalimos of this forum.

Postby QuantumSatis » Thu Oct 01, 2015 12:41 pm

Six figure income within 5 years from Uni? Be realistic, that almost never happens. Especially not to Blacks. Whitey will underpay you even with a degree.
Which is exactly why a black person needs to choose a career in Science and Engineering, or any work that requires a skill set many don't have in society. Another crucial component to career choices is passion, you have to have passion for what you like to do for work. There will always be people who will undermine you regardless. No one should pay attention to those folks. I help people like that even when I know they hate me because I am far superior to them and more educated.



PS: This six figure salary, how do you define it?
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Re: My message to the young xalimos of this forum.

Postby Xisab » Thu Oct 01, 2015 12:42 pm


No offense, but if you're balling...you can do better.

Most successful Somali guys marry out. What's the point of settling for a xalimo when you know you can do so much better?
No evidence of this whatsoever. You can post the pictures of a few celebrities, but that proves nothing. Most successful faraxs in my circle are happily married to Xalimos.

I'm not trying to knock your preference or anything, saxib. But don't use my thread as a platform to attack Xalimos.

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Re: My message to the young xalimos of this forum.

Postby QuantumSatis » Thu Oct 01, 2015 12:44 pm

XIsab,

Qaxootiwaaxid has apparently low self-esteem. One of those losers who never make far in life. He is lucky to find a Somali woman who will put up with his stupidity.

One less dead beat farah if he marries out.
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Re: My message to the young xalimos of this forum.

Postby incognito1 » Thu Oct 01, 2015 12:45 pm

Six figure income within 5 years from Uni? Be realistic, that almost never happens. Especially not to Blacks. Whitey will underpay you even with a degree.
Which is exactly why a black person needs to choose a career in Science and Engineering, or any work that requires a skill set many don't have in society. Another crucial component to career choices is passion, you have to have passion for what you like to do for work. There will always be people who will undermine you regardless.



PS: This six figure salary, how do you define it?
Petroleum engineering master degree starting yearly salary $80,000 -$100,000

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Re: My message to the young xalimos of this forum.

Postby Xisab » Thu Oct 01, 2015 12:55 pm

Can I just say it's not because you're a geek but that judging from your comments you are an ass
I personally couldn't careless what you think. But I will say if I do come across as an ass, I wasn't always this way. Once upon a time I used to be a timid pushover who people would take advantage of, especially women. I still like to think I'm a nice person by nature, but if not going out my way to help people anymore or throwing people's bullshit right back in their faces when the time calls for it makes me an ass, then I proudly wear that label. The truth is, to survive in the real world you have to at some level be an ass. Whether it's the working world, or the dating game, or anything else.
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