My message to the young xalimos of this forum.

[DisplacedDiraac]

I can assemble any piece of furniture together, anything a Faarax can do, Inaayah can do it ten times better.

Ilaahay rag nama bado.

Thats right
I've assembled so many things I don't even need to look in the instructions booklet no more

[Hyperactive]

Find a man or a woman you share humor, lifestyle, food, business, future goals, and family plans with, some one who enjoys travel and understands romance is like tango. Because when the illusions of love and beauty fade and they will, your common interests will keep you strong, and give you the tools to keep rebuilding re inventing yourselves,With age and time.

Now adays sister marry guys they like,and brothers marry sisters they find attractive. These things are temporary, and thats why marriages last for 2 years now aday.

pure wisdom

Most young girls don't know how to cook. 25 year plus old cajuuzo who doesn';t know how to make Malawax? Saddest state of affairs man.


LOL.

why just cook for your self or sideydo kale boorish iska ontid?!!! very bad reason to marry some one cause they cook or clean!

these days, you do it your self or get a maid! either ways, i wouldnt expect my wife to cook for me or clean after me. i am not handcapped. Allah gave me two hands and legs to do it by my self. if i can have my own kids alone i would do it!!

my sisters never spent a minute of their lives in the kitchen and they are grown teens or young adults. so why expect another man's daughter/sister to cook for me?

[Inaayah]

I can assemble any piece of furniture together, anything a Faarax can do, Inaayah can do it ten times better.

Ilaahay rag nama bado.

Thats right
I've assembled so many things I don't even need to look in the instructions booklet no more

You're what I call a bad ass lady.

My mum like other Somali mums taught us literally EVERYTHING. Sida basar loo yeesho, guriga nadaafada, sida cuntada loo kariyo, from your basics to casuumad. Sida rinjiga guriga loo mariyo, sida wax loo rakibo, literally everything.


She equipped us with all the tools we need to survive because not only reer dhan ban u dhaxayna but because anything can happen. A man is not always going to be around, and not just that but bani aadanka laysku ma haleeyo.

[MujahidAishah]

I can assemble any piece of furniture together, anything a Faarax can do, Inaayah can do it ten times better.

Ilaahay rag nama bado.

Thats right
I've assembled so many things I don't even need to look in the instructions booklet no more

My sisters I salute
I have made a business out of putting ikea furniture together

[Hyperactive]

those cheap swedish furniture is so hard to put them together man. some times do not even match the parts toghether.

good quality american funature are

[Amira143]

How to open a jar lid without the help of a inkaarqabto man: You just hit the lid against the side of the kitchen worktop, when the lid makes the pop sound you open it.

Like a boss.

You can also poke a hole on the lid breaking the vacuum seal!

[Inaayah]

Amira knows about that flex too.

Yaa rag u baahan.

[MrL0G]

I once met this gabadh who also boasted about her DIY skills.
Turned out she was mid kalya weyn ee kalaxmihii balaadheen oo aan sida haadka kacahayn.

Bal show us items you have put together aan rumeysanee.

[QuantumSatis]

Hyper, I know how to cook. It is survival skill you learn when you grow up on your own(for the most part). My mother taught me how to cook actually since she and dad both worked and I had to take care of my younger sibling. I used to do home chores like a girl would(since I was the oldest son) and because my parents didn't see tasks to be divided based on gender. That is how I got started in the kitchen. I did cook some of the lunch after hooyo either mixed things up for me ready to be on the stove, or she wrote me instructions of how to.

With that said, I am not cooking for a wife unless she is sick or has a babe. The month of Umul, waan ka saari doonaa, but beyond that, she will cook and I will be gracious enough to not even ask what she cooked but sneak into the kitchen and get my plate loaded with her skillfully cooked meals. If she doesn't cook, I won't ask why either. Anigaa wax qasanaayo and if she wants, she can eat what I make.

Cooking is a skill females need in particular to take care of their kids. Familial benefit.


PS: Breakfast in bed is easy since aan hilfaha u laabi doono markay waxaan kariyay cunto defo. Axsaan ma jiro. Mutual benefit. Qadada iyo Cashada karinteeda is her job. Waa lakala faa'iidaynsanaa.

[Inaayah]

Hyper, I know how to cook. It is survival skill you learn when you grow up on your own(for the most part). My mother taught me how to cook actually since she and dad both worked and I had to take care of my younger sibling. I used to do home chores like a girl would(since I was the oldest son) and because my parents didn't see tasks to be divided based on gender. That is how I got started in the kitchen. I did cook some of the lunch after hooyo either mixed things up for me ready to be on the stove, or she wrote me instructions of how to.

With that said, I am not cooking for a wife unless she is sick or has a babe. The month of Umul, waan ka saari doonaa, but beyond that, she will cook and I will be gracious enough to not even ask what she cooked but sneak into the kitchen and get my plate loaded with her skillfully cooked meals. If she doesn't cook, I won't ask why either. Anigaa wax qasanaayo and if she wants, she can eat what I make.

Cooking is a skill females need in particular to take care of their kids. Familial benefit.


PS: Breakfast in bed is easy since aan hilfaha u laabi doono markay waxaan kariyay cunto defo. Axsaan ma jiro. Mutual benefit. Qadada iyo Cashada karinteeda is her job. Waa lakala faa'iidaynsanaa.

QS is like everthing a man should be.

[BVSNet]

Can I just say it's not because you're a geek but that judging from your comments you are an ass

I personally couldn't careless what you think. But I will say if I do come across as an ass, I wasn't always this way. Once upon a time I used to be a timid pushover who people would take advantage of, especially women. I still like to think I'm a nice person by nature, but if not going out my way to help people anymore or throwing people's bullshit right back in their faces when the time calls for it makes me an ass, then I proudly wear that label. The truth is, to survive in the real world you have to at some level be an ass. Whether it's the working world, or the dating game, or anything else.

Blaming your shit personality on a girl who hurt your feelings when you were 13 is weak as hell. Grow up

[MissFiora]

Its actually true, women love men with lacag, power and prestige.

I don't think it depends on your looks or how nerdy you look. If you have any of those things, u can get any Xalimo.

I have seen it with my own eyes Walaahi. This west African dude came to my work with the most beautiful White women i have ever seen.

She was tall, had blonde hair and blue eyes, she was the typical Northern euro with a perfect perfect body and form.

She was only with him because he owned a successful company.

I am extremely superficial. I don't care about how successful a man is if he hedious ..he's hedious can't look past it. The West African u speak of probably used sixir on her they are notorious for that ama Blondie has jungle fever and wanted a Mandingo warrior.

Im just curious tho. From what standard do you rate good looks from when it comes to Somali men. Because from what i noticed with xalimos in the west this usually implies anything that doesnt look typically somali. In otherwords western xalimos would rate your looks based on how Black American you look or how Arab you look or how indian you look.

Which is why the only pictures you see on somali beauty pages of Somali men who are half breeds or look AA , Arab or Indian

Hopefully Abaayo you're not one of them. A typical somali looking Farax will suit you!!

Haye you had to go there somaha looooool

My type ... the beard needs to be more dense. P.S I can't do the standard Somali E.T looking Farax.

[MissFiora]

..but he has to look like Jonny Bravo ..not no creepy Kurdish looking type ufffff

A guy that misses leg days? The horror

I am all about that upside down pyramid look

[MissFiora]

I once met this gabadh who also boasted about her DIY skills.
Turned out she was mid kalya weyn ee kalaxmihii balaadheen oo aan sida haadka kacahayn.

Bal show us items you have put together aan rumeysanee.

hehehehehe

[MissFiora]

How to open a jar lid without the help of a inkaarqabto man: You just hit the lid against the side of the kitchen worktop, when the lid makes the pop sound you open it.

That sounds dangerous huuno ...naag gacmo leh yaa guursaan? #teamhealthandsafety