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Re: Am I unreasonable

Postby COOL-MAN » Sun Nov 15, 2015 2:22 pm

gegoroor, it's wrong to begin with to ask her bother in law. islantu hishood ma leh. mey nin keeda weydisato, marka horaba.

anika iyo sister in law, mahaba isken baray!
Hyper, if her husband is not buying for her and she has children with him, she can make the demand to dumaashi Sumu. Sister-in-law with children usually has more leeway than those without children in Somali dhaqan. For Sumu, it is better he buys a phone that he can afford - no matter the type of phone - and give it to his dumaashi. That will satisfy her need for a phone, and it will give him a good face saving measure. He needs to say that the company who made the cheaper phone is a new company that makes better phones. That way, everyone is happy.
Ugaas, dumaashi does not want any phone. She specifically wants Iphone cusub ( Iphone 5 or 6). That will cost me $400. In my budget, I will be in africa for 6 weeks insha allah. I have $3000/6= will be about $500 a week. So buying her Iphone will make me short of money for a week. Also, Since her and her husband live in the same house, I thought the husband can use a little phone that my younger brother is currently using and give up his galaxy s4 to the little brother so that dumaashi gets the new Iphone 5. That seem to be a good deal. There are 3 phones already in the family. The not too expensive phone that my little brother is using, The galaxy s4 and the new Iphone. It has to be shared between the 3 of them. So its not a matter of buying an extra phone. Its a matter of switching them around.
:lol: :lol: :lol:

It makes a lot of sense. Call the dumashi and explain to her. End of story........................................not :snoop:

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Re: Am I unreasonable

Postby waayeel101 » Sun Nov 15, 2015 2:47 pm

shekoyinkisi ma dumashiyadii ayay sii maraysaa! yaaab
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Re: Am I unreasonable

Postby Hyperactive » Sun Nov 15, 2015 3:37 pm

sumu's life is full of drama.

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Re: Am I unreasonable

Postby waayeel101 » Sun Nov 15, 2015 4:20 pm

sumu's life is full of drama.
sheikhow we must go where he lives.
yebdo maku 6afsh henek. lol

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Re: Am I unreasonable

Postby MzLady » Sun Nov 15, 2015 6:25 pm

you should say first come first serve my budget is limited only one iphone sorry dear maybe next...that is if you are being nice and saving face....otherwise tell her sorry i cant afforded another phone already bought one end of the story

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Re: Am I unreasonable

Postby Vivacious » Mon Nov 16, 2015 12:27 am

First of all like someone said before, your dumaashi has no shame whatsoever. She shouldn't be asking you for anything no matter what. Secondly, your younger brother asked you for a phone and you need to fulfill his wish. Thirdly, you have no shame either that you asked your other brother to give up his phone when he is not involved in your drama. Dude be realistic.

Hyper, I don't know which part of Africa you saw to make you say that people be asking for a phone when they can't get breakfast. That is wrong sheikh :usure:

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Re: Am I unreasonable

Postby BeyondQabil » Mon Nov 16, 2015 1:07 am

No one is reasonable here- only I see is a gullible guy been taken advantage of.....
You don't understand. I am not loosing anything here. I am only helping my 2 brothers exchange phones. If my sister in-law can benefit on the deal when they trade phones, that is cool. I am not spending a penny on the deal.

Oh I understand - I just think it just stupid idea to buy someone in Africa £400 phone -and you're enabling his stupid greediness.

So if you were reasonable you would say no to your brother and tell your sister in law - "stop been shameless"
I agree with this. especially if you are struggling from your side. Stop impressing people with such toys. Your brothers phone should not come into the discussion. It is his phone. If you want to make a deal with the wife, make it with her.

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Re: Am I unreasonable

Postby FarhanYare » Mon Nov 16, 2015 1:15 am

I'm confused. In order for your dumaashi to get her iPhone your other brother has to give up his phone ? Why are you dragging in a person who's not involved in your phone donation crusade ?
I am dragging him into this because he married the dumaashi and dragged me into this. I did not know the dumaashi before he met her. So either way, Him and his wife means one to me. They give up the galaxy s4 to get the new iphone and small used iphone.
Lmao!

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Re: Am I unreasonable

Postby Susu000 » Mon Nov 16, 2015 2:08 am

I'm confused. In order for your dumaashi to get her iPhone your other brother has to give up his phone ? Why are you dragging in a person who's not involved in your phone donation crusade ?
I am dragging him into this because he married the dumaashi and dragged me into this. I did not know the dumaashi before he met her. So either way, Him and his wife means one to me. They give up the galaxy s4 to get the new iphone and small used iphone.
Lmao!
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Re: Am I unreasonable

Postby TheblueNwhite » Mon Nov 16, 2015 2:22 am

If you cant afford to buy your sister in law a phone then tell her. Get her S3 if you can afford it. Beggars can't be choosers.

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Re: Am I unreasonable

Postby Rambie » Mon Nov 16, 2015 4:46 am

I'm confused. In order for your dumaashi to get her iPhone your other brother has to give up his phone ? Why are you dragging in a person who's not involved in your phone donation crusade ?
I am dragging him into this because he married the dumaashi and dragged me into this. I did not know the dumaashi before he met her. So either way, Him and his wife means one to me. They give up the galaxy s4 to get the new iphone and small used iphone.
Lmao!

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Re: Am I unreasonable

Postby Inaayah » Mon Nov 16, 2015 10:48 am

Wow, I'm glad I'm not related to a lot of these gaajo people on this forum.

Sumu if anyone's shameless its you.

What the F is a phone? Dadku intaa iyo in ka badan bay isku quudhan. I don't think it's shameless of her to ask, it would have been more appropriate for her to ask her husband but since she came to you and asked you, you should have delt with the situation like this

1) "Walaal Haye waan ku soo iibini, no problem" buy it and then that's that.

2) "Walaal imikadan ma awoodi karo laakiin marku Ilaahay I soo geliyo aniga ku soo iibini Insh'Allah) and when and if Allah provides you with the means to do so, then fufil your promise.

Whatever you spend on your family, is sadaqa.

Your reward is always with Allah, you should never do something with the intention of expecting something in return.

When you give, Allah SWT increases your rizaq, it's a win-win.

And lastly, your dumashi deserves that and MORE, caruur aad adeer u tahay miyaanay soo korinayn. Isla yaab man.

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Re: Am I unreasonable

Postby Sumubaridi » Mon Nov 16, 2015 10:54 am

Wow, I'm glad I'm not related to a lot of these gaajo people on this forum.

Sumu if anyone's shameless its you.

What the F is a phone? Dadku intaa iyo in ka badan bay isku quudhan. I don't think it's shameless of her to ask, it would have been more appropriate for her to ask her husband but since she came to you and asked you, you should have delt with the situation like this

1) "Walaal Haye waan ku soo iibini, no problem" buy it and then that's that.

2) "Walaal imikadan ma awoodi karo laakiin marku Ilaahay I soo geliyo aniga ku soo iibini Insh'Allah) and when and if Allah provides you with the means to do so, then fufil your promise.

Whatever you spend on your family, is sadaqa.

Your reward is always with Allah, you should never do something with the intention of expecting something in return.

When you give, Allah SWT increases your rizaq, it's a win-win.

And lastly, your dumashi deserves that and MORE, caruur aad adeer u tahay miyaanay soo korinayn. Isla yaab man.
What you do not see is that, I am trying to help my dumaashi get the phone that she needs without using money. Its a matter of brain. She wants an Iphone and she can get it in this deal. Who will pay for it? her husband ofcourse. He will have to give up his galaxy to the young brother who will inturn give up his Iphone to dumaashi. We already have 3 phones against 3 people. A 4th is not needed. her husband will have to get an old Iphone 4 that my younger brother is currently using. He is 52 years old with teenage kids and that phone is enough for him to browse bbc or hiiraan.com and few viber chat. WTF does he need galaxy s4 for. :D :D with your gold digger mentally, you think everything has to be always money. You can make everyone happy without spending money. You just spread around what they already have. Kan kaqaad oo kan sii.

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Re: Am I unreasonable

Postby Inaayah » Mon Nov 16, 2015 10:57 am

Wow, I'm glad I'm not related to a lot of these gaajo people on this forum.

Sumu if anyone's shameless its you.

What the F is a phone? Dadku intaa iyo in ka badan bay isku quudhan. I don't think it's shameless of her to ask, it would have been more appropriate for her to ask her husband but since she came to you and asked you, you should have delt with the situation like this

1) "Walaal Haye waan ku soo iibini, no problem" buy it and then that's that.

2) "Walaal imikadan ma awoodi karo laakiin marku Ilaahay I soo geliyo aniga ku soo iibini Insh'Allah) and when and if Allah provides you with the means to do so, then fufil your promise.

Whatever you spend on your family, is sadaqa.

Your reward is always with Allah, you should never do something with the intention of expecting something in return.

When you give, Allah SWT increases your rizaq, it's a win-win.

And lastly, your dumashi deserves that and MORE, caruur aad adeer u tahay miyaanay soo korinayn. Isla yaab man.
What you do not see is that, I am trying to help my dumaashi get the phone that she needs without using money. Its a matter of brain. She wants an Iphone and she can get it in this deal. Who will pay for it? her husband ofcourse. He will have to give up his galaxy to the young brother who will inturn give up his Iphone to dumaashi. We already have 3 phones against 3 people. A 4th is not needed. her husband will have to get an old Iphone 4 that my younger brother is currently using. He is 52 years old with teenage kids and that phone is enough for him to browse bbc or hiiraan.com and few viber chat. WTF does he need galaxy s4 for. :D :D with your gold digger mentally, you think everything has to be always money. You can make everyone happy without spending money. You just spread around what they already have. Kan kaqaad oo kan sii.
I can't deal with you, you're almost approaching 40, like FORTY!

Go get some xayaa, you misely Jew. :roll:

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Re: Am I unreasonable

Postby Classiq » Mon Nov 16, 2015 11:02 am

Your sister in law has no shame- you were moaning about gold-diggers yet you've been taken for a ride by a woman who gives you nothing in return. ... Even your brother shouldn't get iphone - you act so streetwise but you ain't.
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