allowing your women to wear pants?

[COOL-MAN]

lol skippa, it may work for some. i am intrested to feet the soul. Allah qofu khair la dam'o qalbigu o jil'eyaa. i understand your all points but i feel i pass that stage ... i look further and why people do what they do with hijab or with out

Hyper you are clearly beyond our league. Mar mar waxan is dhahaa wadadku am uu yahay kuwii la shageegaye. Shuyuukhul wax walbo waa ok

But then again bro my religious knowledge is very limited. You are a masters holder in religious matter. Anigu kula murmi maayo. The stage you are in now which is very far up from where we are, I don't think I want to reach it bro . I hope you understand my point coz u been here before

[TheFuturist]

lol skippa, it may work for some. i am intrested to feet the soul. Allah qofu khair la dam'o qalbigu o jil'eyaa. i understand your all points but i feel i pass that stage ... i look further and why people do what they do with hijab or with out.

I agree sxb. The deen is so much more than just clothing or outwardly appearance.

[DANGIRL]

Most xalimos bodies are built badly so wearing pants of any sort is out of the question.

[Hyperactive]

coolman,

no you are right. i should study phycology man. i keep thinking people divorcing in my court, all i think is, what is the behind their words and the reason they telling me to divorce. what made them come to that... i wish some times to be in their heads to just know the thinking process.

then i wake up and ask to just repeat their 15 minutes ranting, why they want to divorce!!

that exactly how i think when i read posts here.

one woman told me her husband drinks and he didnt know she drunk when she married. he insisted he was drinking before but he was good or cared little more to hide it. so i was thinking, what the hell happened between carying and not carring... why he drinks now and did he cared before.... i lost thinking possibilities, then i told them just come back in 2 months.,,,, give them time to think more.

it's too much layers what people do or say. discovering it is the challenge.

[Skippa]

Sheekhow, It may not work at all but like it was said above, qof weyn lama qasbi karo and this on its own is not reason enough to divorce. You coax, you drop hints, you offer sincere advice, help her with the kids, with the chores...bribe her with compliments and sasab her with gifts and kind words, set a good example by being righteous...essentially raganimo muuji and handle your business like you should...then redouble your efforts and pray inuu Ilaahay u fududeeyo xaqa. Hadaad dadaasho, at least, you are not dodging your responsibility and that's all that matters.

As to why people weave in and out of the right path...It's the devil's work

[TheFuturist]

Most xalimos bodies are built badly so wearing pants of any sort is out of the question.

U should go to continental Europe. A lotta xalimos if not the majority wear trousers. They are still devout muslims. Few Arabic black tents in sight.

[Hyperactive]

skippa, i am against everything to put in shaitan. shaitan is a weak.... just tells you what you already want to do it.

[COOL-MAN]

Sheekhow, It may not work at all but like it was said above, qof weyn lama qasbi karo and this on its own is not reason enough to divorce. You coax, you drop hints, you offer sincere advice, help her with the kids, with the chores...bribe her with compliments and sasab her with gifts and kind words, set a good example by being righteous...essentially raganimo muuji and handle your business like you should...then redouble your efforts and pray inuu Ilaahay u fududeeyo xaqa. Hadaad dadaasho, at least, you are not dodging your responsibility and that's all that matters.

As to why people weave in and out of the right path...It's the devil's work

You said it well. Probably the best advice the OP was after

Sh, hyper, May Allah increase your knowledge and help you with your decision making process

I am tired. Not thinking straight. I think I need a shower like sahal before I reply

. Habeen wanaagsan dhamaan.

[DANGIRL]

Most xalimos bodies are built badly so wearing pants of any sort is out of the question.

U should go to continental Europe. A lotta xalimos if not the majority wear trousers. They are still devout muslims. None of these Arabic black tents.

What part of " bad built" did you not understand? If your upper body and lower body aren't equally proportionate, don't wear things that will showcase it i.e jeans or tight skirts/dresses.

[Hyperactive]

lool@sahal's shower. that became somalinet's quote.

believe me my cousin, if you think little harder than just why people do what they do and think little about quran, stories of quran, God told us. not for entertainment but to learn from it how prophets and messengers handle their bussness.

best example that no one stops and thinks and talk about it, my always best surahs, surat nouh and anbiya'. about nouh and lout.

their both wivies where none believers and Allah even mentioned they" cheat them, not sexually but worse the believe it self and work behund their back to serve intrest of their enemies"

quran told us they were destroyed just like kufars but never they divorced them or they fight them or Nouh dishonored his son. but even in last minutes still told Allah and questioned Allah "out of fatherhood" his son is his family. God corrected him that is jahil thinking/3amal.


do you think they preach others and forgot their wivies and kids? i am sure there was tears and leatures and begging and quotting Allah's words nights in and out. but God didnt tell us that. cause wouldnt be important... you have your own situation and your own time and ability to weight it.

Allah isnt for punishment bussness but looks your heart if your heart where it needs to be , you will be fine. naag hijabka tourtery na kuguma ibtileynayo or will be reason for Allah, just the reason why 2 prophet's wivies were gaalo.

means you cannot safe who you love, it's up to them, that is work they need to do.

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

allow?? that means you have control. you have no control over any one, other than you.

yes she can wear what she wants, either i eccept her or bananka o bahaya.

I don't know why people are saying "If he was aware that she wore trousers prior to marrying her, then he shouldn't have a problem with it now" because maybe this man has changed his ways for the better and has more fear of Allah now and wants his wife to be for his eyes and his eyes only.

A jahil person can be guided and correct the error of their ways.

Married Muslim women who don't cover aya iga yaabiya. I just think what kinda pu$$y ass ni99as are they married too.

oo ma jirkeedu la leeyahay

technically he owns her.

It her body, her choice..ur friend is insecure and jealous... :Shrug

[TheFuturist]

Most xalimos bodies are built badly so wearing pants of any sort is out of the question.

U should go to continental Europe. A lotta xalimos if not the majority wear trousers. They are still devout muslims. None of these Arabic black tents.

What part of " bad built" did you not understand? If your upper body and lower body aren't equally proportionate, don't wear things that will showcase it i.e jeans or tight skirts/dresses.

They just need to do squats and work on their glutes, they have potential

[Tuushi]

Allow her? Get out of here.

Actually made me laugh out loud when I read that. Bless him

Waa shaqo la`aan.

[Skippa]

skippa, i am against everything to put in shaitan. shaitan is a weak.... just tells you what you already want to do it.

I am out of my depth when things get too philosophical adeer but I don't believe that people are inherently bad or innately do bad...besides, I'm a bit vain and there's something noble in the idea of a shaytaan sparing no efforts in his quest to detract me from my true purpose, assailing me from every way, insidiously through my loved ones, infiltrating my very being and still coming up short. This is why I try to avoid being too harsh when I come across a person (particularly a kin/close relative/family member) who like me is struggling and stumbling along the way ...Ma jecli inaan shaydaanka u eexdo.

May Allah favors us all and maintains us on the straight path unto our last breath

[Hyperactive]

ameen, but if we put everything on shaitan, we are not respobsiple wich is i am against it. any ways worse saitan is once's self.