theguardian, still they have rights to give sperm and the womb and giving birth. that still counts. you have right to dislike them, have feeling toward them, hatting in them but still you can show even as underteeth displeasure toward them that they feel it or heart it.
in the quran, wasnt conditions if they were good parents or bad. they gave you birth. you never lknow reason they abonded you. some family member lie and make parents who abondant their children as monesters. there is reason if you dont even agree with.
وَوَصَّيْنَا الْإِنْسَانَ بِوَالِدَيْهِ حَمَلَتْهُ أُمُّهُ وَهْنًا عَلَىٰ وَهْنٍ وَفِصَالُهُ فِي عَامَيْنِ أَنِ اشْكُرْ لِي وَلِوَالِدَيْكَ إِلَيَّ الْمَصِيرُ
And We have enjoined on man (to be good) to his parents: in travail upon travail did his mother bear him, and in years twain was his weaning: (hear the command), "Show gratitude to Me and to thy parents: to Me is (thy final) Goal.
oops, ina samaale beat me to it.
... but if i were advising this brother, i would say be nice, go above nd beyond, send them to hajj give them everything they need that you can, walahi this will punish them, if they have any dignity, they would feel ashamed how they negtleted him and what he is doing for them now, and tell him dont listen shaydaan reminding him about the past, he should always remember that he isnt doing this out of compassion or love he has for them but ilahay dartiis iyo sadaqo ahaan ps, just bcz they neglected you doesnt mean you should do the same, remember, allah mentioned parents right after cibaadada.
