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Why Do Women Refuse to Give Up

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Why Do Women Refuse to Give Up

Postby AbdiWahab252 » Sun Dec 20, 2015 6:33 pm

So say you have a friend who gave his wife her 3 talaq but she is contesting the entire process? She somehow believes there is room for reconciliation. She refuses to acknowledge the furitaan and continues to pretend that they are married (wears the rings, refers to her man as her husband).

What can be done to bring her to accepting the reality?

I am asking for a friend who is perplexed at the whole situation. I find it to be pure indhadeeg for someone to go that distance for any human especially one you don't have children with,

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Re: Why Do Women Refuse to Give Up

Postby Susu000 » Sun Dec 20, 2015 6:37 pm

Her mother should grab her by hair and say naaya soo soco.. Ninkaan seddaxdaadaa ayuu ku siisay.

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Re: Why Do Women Refuse to Give Up

Postby COOL-MAN » Sun Dec 20, 2015 6:37 pm

Xamiido wasmana wey rabtaa sida loo xodxotana ma taqaano.

She lost all her three chances

No room for her unless she remarries and divorce again :idea:

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Re: Why Do Women Refuse to Give Up

Postby GAMES » Sun Dec 20, 2015 6:57 pm

LooL she sounds like a psycho and future stalker.

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Re: Why Do Women Refuse to Give Up

Postby Sauron » Sun Dec 20, 2015 6:59 pm

Getting left behind
Not being loved
No one understanding
No one caring
are
my fears

I had a dream
I was lost
No one tried to
find me
No one cared
No one listened
understood

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Re: Why Do Women Refuse to Give Up

Postby Hyperactive » Sun Dec 20, 2015 7:59 pm

i think he is the one giving her hope. if they divorced final divorce what is there to make her keep trying unless he gave her hope. runta wah ka fi'an maleh.

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Re: Why Do Women Refuse to Give Up

Postby CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC » Sun Dec 20, 2015 8:12 pm

i dont get it, if he divorced her three times, what's the reconciliation she hoping for? doesnt she know in islam if a woman get divorced 3 times there's no going back unless she gets married nd then gets divorced

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Re: Why Do Women Refuse to Give Up

Postby Hyperactive » Sun Dec 20, 2015 8:19 pm

lion, here arabtu maba kala furman.

we have room full of moftis. they just interview them, ask them if he was mad enough (who is happy when they divorce!!). ive seen them making excuses for them. just like phycologisy and say, okay, you were too angry, take your wife!!

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Re: Why Do Women Refuse to Give Up

Postby CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC » Sun Dec 20, 2015 8:37 pm

lion, here arabtu maba kala furman.

we have room full of moftis. they just interview them, ask them if he was mad enough (who is happy when they divorce!!). ive seen them making excuses for them. just like phycologisy and say, okay, you were too angry, take your wife!!
what the heck!!??
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Re: Why Do Women Refuse to Give Up

Postby Hyperactive » Sun Dec 20, 2015 8:41 pm

lol one case just stuck in my head. this guy already divorced her 2 previous times, then he told her if you do such, you divorced. she just did exactly what he said dont. so they both came to ask what to do.

in front of me, they told them, you were just threating her, you didnt mean to divorce. take your wife and back home. he keep doing the same!! wa mid handcap ban o maleyni!! they bring excuses over and over. in the end, i told them to get out of my case and just handed their divorce case to other judge. wallah some men, they play games.

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Re: Why Do Women Refuse to Give Up

Postby Sauron » Sun Dec 20, 2015 8:55 pm

working as a Divorce judge must be a lonely place, I think I have a slight hint on why you get frightened of the idea of Marriage being mentioned sometimes now. Shiekh Hyper!

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Re: Why Do Women Refuse to Give Up

Postby JSL3000 » Sun Dec 20, 2015 9:16 pm

They should be banned from divorcing each other then they can't give no one a head ache no more :lol:

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Re: Why Do Women Refuse to Give Up

Postby FarhanYare » Sun Dec 20, 2015 9:50 pm

Damn sedax dalqo at one go that's harsh. She must've been one effin b....

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Re: Why Do Women Refuse to Give Up

Postby InaSamaale » Sun Dec 20, 2015 9:56 pm

Damn sedax dalqo at one go that's harsh. She must've been one effin b....


Or maybe he's rash? There's hardly a place for judgement since we know next to nothing.

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Re: Why Do Women Refuse to Give Up

Postby FarhanYare » Sun Dec 20, 2015 10:07 pm

That's true


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