Why Do Women Refuse to Give Up

Sauron · Postby **Sauron** » Mon Dec 21, 2015 12:16 pm

working as a Divorce judge must be a lonely place, I think I have a slight hint on why you get frightened of the idea of Marriage being mentioned sometimes now. Shiekh Hyper!
it's full of drama place never lonely or boring. it gets ugly at times and it's so bad when there are kids involved. we marry people too.

CaliQase · Postby **CaliQase** » Mon Dec 21, 2015 12:51 pm

working as a Divorce judge must be a lonely place, I think I have a slight hint on why you get frightened of the idea of Marriage being mentioned sometimes now. Shiekh Hyper!
it's full of drama place never lonely or boring. it gets ugly at times and it's so bad when there are kids involved. we marry people too.

Hyperactive · Postby **Hyperactive** » Mon Dec 21, 2015 1:00 pm

there are like Aisha, "i want to divorce, right now right here, i do not care what you say your honours. " most of them are spoiled brats. always parents who back them up. the husband, doesnt want to divorce, saying " i love my wife and i am doing my best to provode for her, i want my wife your honour" those are hardest.

kuwaas , wan ko dereyna, until they gave up and kibirka yaraado.

Postby **Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE** » Mon Dec 21, 2015 1:04 pm

Damn three talaqa
Talk about bottled up anger

Postby **AbdiWahab252** » Mon Dec 21, 2015 1:16 pm

Adeer, so all he must do is tell her family that her daughter has not accepted it?

3 talaqa makes sense in this case. She was not satisfied with 1 or 2.

Hyperactive · Postby **Hyperactive** » Mon Dec 21, 2015 1:22 pm

lol Aw, your friend make the divorce papers or not yet? it was just verbal divorce? if yes those are worse. wont sink it until there are official divorce papers. let him go to court. i know will take time and money but if that only way to take her/him off your back .

dont get me wrong, i hate divorce but needs to put more thoughts when you want to marry. being horny not a reason to marry. ileen horny will be done with it after couple day.

Postby **MujahidAishah** » Mon Dec 21, 2015 1:24 pm

there are like Aisha, "i want to divorce, right now right here, i do not care what you say your honours. " most of them are spoiled brats. always parents who back them up. the husband, doesnt want to divorce, saying " i love my wife and i am doing my best to provode for her, i want my wife your honour" those are hardest.

kuwaas , wan ko dereyna, until they gave up and kibirka yaraado.

Heeeeyy

Postby **AbdiWahab252** » Mon Dec 21, 2015 1:59 pm

Hyper,

He was waiting to give her papers until she gets remarried because their nikaax was not registered in the Gaalo system.

Postby **MujahidAishah** » Mon Dec 21, 2015 2:20 pm

Hyper,

He was waiting to give her papers until she gets remarried because their nikaax was not registered in the Gaalo system.

So why is he waiting to give her papers .. You friend sounds fishy to me if he divorced her wouldn't both family and friends know

Postby **AbdiWahab252** » Mon Dec 21, 2015 2:51 pm

MujahidAisha. He informed her family. He just worried she may try to take him to civil court

GAMES · Postby **GAMES** » Mon Dec 21, 2015 3:10 pm

So if u say it verbally than its Legal? What kinda B.S is that. People say some really mean and hurtful stuff in the heat of a moment or when they are angry.

But thats just reer baadiyonimo in my opinion. In America, when u get married, u do it in front of a court and when u divorce, u do it at court.

There is very clear legal line. Somalis need to catch up ASAP.
the problem here, there are people who marry; 2 witness and mahr but do not bother to register until later on when needs proof of marriage.

also you can verbaly divorce in our religion and culture. it left to people's discretionary and their integraty. that may worked previously but now it doesnt work and people can deny they married or divorced some one. hence we need to document it.

Waan fahmay. Another question sxb, can a wife initiate the divorce proceedings in Islam?

Postby **MujahidAishah** » Mon Dec 21, 2015 3:18 pm

MujahidAisha. He informed her family. He just worried she may try to take him to civil court

I don't think she has the brain cells to pull that off tell your friend to come out of his hiding place...

What does he do for a living :whoo:

Hyperactive · Postby **Hyperactive** » Mon Dec 21, 2015 3:35 pm

games, she can go to judge/court and request to be divorced for any harm she feels on her. judge will listen from both and decide it. in my experience, i do not love him any more doesnt work. you married him before with your own consent. to ask divorce you need stronger reason. also women can give up on her mahr/give back what she took from him or even give extra to divorce. if man accepts, that is final divorce. they cannot back together unless she married another man. that called "khol3" . literlly mean, she buys her divorce.

Hyperactive · Postby **Hyperactive** » Mon Dec 21, 2015 3:38 pm

AW, infront of authority, are they married or boyfriend/girlfriend?

Postby **AbdiWahab252** » Mon Dec 21, 2015 3:46 pm

Aishah... he is a Geologist and works for an oil company

Hyper, boyfriend and girlfriend in front of the law.

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