Having Somali friends & education.

[Inaayah8]

I've noticed that a LOT of Somali waalidiin don't like their children hanging around with other Somali children, especially in high school.

Isn't it bizarre that they believe if their child hangs around with ajanabi's they are more likely to succeed academically?

Surely I can't be the only one who's noticed this trend?

[Inaayah8]

Buy encouraging such deranged behaviour at we not instilling something very dangerous in our children's minds?

Parents who do this, are basically teaching them from a young age that dadkeenu waa saaqidiin oona hor mar jeclayn.

[Inaayah8]

Dhalinyarada maanta are the leaders of tomorrow, that said, why not teach our kids good leadership skills. Obviously I know to some kids it comes naturally but helping them develop these skills will undoubtably benefit them greatly in mustaqbalkooda.

I say this because, hadu ilmahaagu tusaalo wanaagsan adiga ka arkay oonad u dadaashay then the race their children choose to socialise with won't be an important factor because you've provided them with the skills to make wise decisions regardless.

Nor will they have self hate issues as adults.

[MujahidAishah]

Huuno Somali hormaar lagama gaaro waa xassidin soocoda.

I am a parent that won't take my children to a Somali dominated school
I take my kids to a primary school where they are the only Somalis in class. There's about 3 Somali families in the whole school.

The other school down the road is full of Somalis the school is literally a zoo. When it's pick up time it's like a thrid world country you wouldn't think the school is England.
A French lady had to take her daughter because the council allocated that school for her child . She took her child out of that school it's a disgrace she snitched to Ofstead.

Somali women have been bugging my mum and aunt as to why I take my kids to a "cadaan" school because they take the kids on outings a lot

[Inaayah8]

Wallahi I shouldn't be laughing.

I'm on my way out, Insh'Allah I'll reply properly later.

I want to know how other parents on the forums feel about this subject too.

Yummy
Chelsea
Skips
Bibs
Ismail

And others

[Inaayah8]

Huuno Somali hormaar lagama gaaro waa xassidin soocoda.

I am a parent that won't take my children to a Somali dominated school
I take my kids to a primary school where they are the only Somalis in class. There's about 3 Somali families in the whole school.

The other school down the road is full of Somalis the school is literally a zoo. When it's pick up time it's like a thrid world country you wouldn't think the school is England.
A French lady had to take her daughter because the council allocated that school for her child . She took her child out of that school it's a disgrace she snitched to Ofstead.

Somali women have been bugging my mum and aunt as to why I take my kids to a "cadaan" school because they take the kids on outings a lot

Aishah- A lot of people think Somalidu way is xaasidan. But I'm sure it's the same with other races, or do you believe waan ka daran nahay umada kale?

Also, with regards to taking your children to a primary school where predominantly the pupils are ajanabi, would you not say that a school that has outstanding Ofsted reports all round would rather be an important factor to look at?

[MujahidAishah]

I know other races are the same but Somali are my race. they are xassidin walal dhalmada xita ku ma oogalo. That when I closed the book on em

It's in speacial measure the ajanabi school walal I did my research before settle on the one I take them

[CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC]

Waxasi waa bullshit Aniga waxan doorbidaya in ay caruurtaydu ilmo kale oo Somali ah amba muslim ah ay la saaxiibaan intay cadaan la saxiibi lahayeen schoolk ahaana islamic school ayay tagi doonan insha allah

[Inaayah8]

Aishah- Dhalmada as in having babies? Lol

I have another question for you, since your kids are still at the primary school age and still very young, when they get older, say 14-15 will you still prefer that they mix with non-Somali kids?

Putting the xaasid thing to a side, do you feel that caruurta Somaliyeed are majority saaqidiin and are underachieving?

[Inaayah8]

Waxasi waa bullshit Aniga waxan doorbidaya in ay caruurtaydu ilmo kale oo Somali ah amba muslim ah ay la saaxiibaan intay cadaan la saxiibi lahayeen schoolk ahaana islamic school ayay tagi doonan insha allah

Chelsea- Thanks for your contribution 'boowe. Waxaa kale an ku waydiin laha, do you think you feel this way because you're a man and you're not surrounded by or witness dumarka Somaliyeed o Isla ficiltamaya? Waayo dumarkaa inta badan Isla xintama?

[CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC]

Mybe .. Lakiin Maxa xintanka keenaya? Specially dhulkan gaalada ah waa inaan caruurteena isku xidhna Kaliya ka ilaali ilmaha saaqidka ah Lakiin Aniga waxan doorbidaya inuu ilmahaygu xafada kale oo Somali tago hadii oo saxiibkii amba ay saxiibadeed u tagayso instead reer gaalo oo khamri ka buuxo fridgekooga.

[FarhanYare]

This is because some are losers who go to school not to learn, but waste time and get themselves in to trouble. It takes one bad apple to spoil the rest. That was the case in my high school. We had one prolific tuug at the start of my high school (not including the cadaan) and by the end of that year, I think roughly half of the Skinnies ended up taking tuugonimo as a hobby. I was embarrassed because of the guilt by association (u have the whole school that thinks all skinnies are tuugo, and fight).

[Skippa]

Aniga, my little egg, waxay tagtaa school faransiis ah and there aren't too many somalis there but if that were the case, I'd rather iney dadkeega ku dhex jirto ama wixii muslim ah. Sadly, madowga kale ee meesha joogaa, waa african gaalos (congos & bongos) haitians iyo dad ilaahay nacay (istaakhfurulaah). Caruurtooda si fiican uma edbiyaan oo waxaad arkaysaa caruurtii oo anshi xumo iyo kani adeyg isku darsatay...She's not allowed to hang out with that riff raff.

[Inaayah8]

Why am I laughing at some of the replies.

Anywho I'm gona take a cat nap, I'm tired. *Streches & yawns like a little bisad*

[MujahidAishah]

Aishah- Dhalmada as in having babies? Lol

I have another question for you, since your kids are still at the primary school age and still very young, when they get older, say 14-15 will you still prefer that they mix with non-Somali kids?

Putting the xaasid thing to a side, do you feel that caruurta Somaliyeed are majority saaqidiin and are underachieving?

14-15 years old they will mix with whoever they choose but I will instill in them to be an individual and think for yourself and don't let peer pressure put you in unwanted situation. If they have a good head on thier shoulder no Saaqid can persuade them to do anything. No makes you do anything you don't want. I've rambled on but all in all Somali kids are great