Page 1 of 4

am i two-faced?

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2016 2:58 pm
by CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC
this brother called me complaining about his wife, he said she left home with their 2 years old child, i asked him what happened he said they had an argument and it ended up warqadaydii isii smh when he refused she took the child nd left so he asked me if i can call her find out where they are since she isnt answering his calls he was worried abt their safety since it was night ... i called her she said they were in a hotel and not coming back unless he accept to do what i want, i promised to her that he is going to do what she wants but she has to come back first, long story short she came back and i mediated between them alhamdulilah all was good

few days after i received txt message from her saying why am i laba wajiile??!! i was like what you're talking about dumaashi? ilayn she read our txts msgs from that night, and there was one time i felt bad for him after he calaacaled how under appreciated he is blah blah blah, and at some point i said welll adeer if thats what she wants dee sii warqadeeda ha ka so biyo cabtu meesha ay ku ordayso, she also took 1000 from his account that night so i said close ur account too, protect ur money and let her see what being single mom is like ... so now she is saying i was encouraging her husband to divorce her ass :wtf: :lol:

i said if i wanted that why was i talking to you 3 hrs nd begging you to come that night? then came to your house next day? anyhow the dude said dont worry she will get over it, i dont really care if she is mad at me or not, all i wanted is them to keep their family together but its unfair how she forgot all i did and focus on that txt message, ps malaayacnigu should have deleted before she seen it :lol: :down:

Re: am i two-faced?

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2016 3:04 pm
by BVSNet
No you are not two faced you're on the man's side. She probably thought you were on her side or at the very least neutral

Re: am i two-faced?

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2016 3:06 pm
by Inaayah8
You told him to close the account and let her see what life is like as a single Mum?

Well damn :dwill:

lol that wasn't necessary Blue.

Re: am i two-faced?

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2016 3:07 pm
by MujahidAishah
That's why no one is allowed to touch my phone :win:

Re: am i two-faced?

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2016 3:10 pm
by MujahidAishah
Your boy is a bitch tell him to man up boorash foqol boorash

Image

Re: am i two-faced?

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2016 3:12 pm
by CaliQase
Saaxiibkaa dhooraha ah waaye nooh :lol: :down:

Re: am i two-faced?

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2016 3:22 pm
by CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC
You told him to close the account and let her see what life is like as a single Mum?

Well damn :dwill:

lol that wasn't necessary Blue.
Isn't that wha would happened if she insist on divorce?
No you are not two faced you're on the man's side. She probably thought you were on her side or at the very least neutral
Anigu cidna lama jirin dhex dhexaad ayaan aha labadoodaba waxay ku qaldan yihiin ayaan u sheegay waliba wiilka ayaan cadaadiyay ee hadalka waxan idhi markan arkay waxay samaynayso

Re: am i two-faced?

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2016 4:01 pm
by TheFuturist
i felt bad for him after he calaacaled how under appreciated he is blah blah blah, and at some point i said welll adeer if thats what she wants dee sii warqadeeda ha ka so biyo cabtu meesha ay ku ordayso, she also took 1000 from his account that night so i said close ur account too, protect ur money and let her see what being single mom is like
Bro, no offense, that is a b!tch ass move. Reerka maxaad isoogu diraysaa if you were asked to mediate? :wtf: :ufdup: Way kaa gar leedahay because eexasho ayaad muujisay :Shrug:

Re: am i two-faced?

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2016 4:03 pm
by YummyMummy
you could see it a mile away, and yet we fall in these traps; people ask for help, you help them, both tag-team to blame you after :meles:

Re: am i two-faced?

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2016 4:04 pm
by TheFuturist
you could see it a mile away, and yet we fall in these traps; people ask for help, you help them, both tag-team to blame you after :meles:
This is why sometimes it's best to keep out of people business.

Re: am i two-faced?

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2016 4:11 pm
by YummyMummy
you could see it a mile away, and yet we fall in these traps; people ask for help, you help them, both tag-team to blame you after :meles:
This is why sometimes it's best to keep out of people business.
true, but knowing bani aadam, they'll never be satisfied; you refuse, they'll bad-mouth you, you help, they bad-mouth you :Shrug:

At least Allah knows your intentions and judges you by those :up:

Re: am i two-faced?

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2016 4:11 pm
by AwRastaale
You were man's man. Naagta is qorqoraysa.

You adviced him and you also did what he asked of you.

I was involved in a similar case at first saying keep her to my boy but after full story waxan ku idhi naagta dir.

Some naago deserve no chances or families and that's divorce rate is high.

Naago Somali are no good.

Re: am i two-faced?

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2016 4:14 pm
by TheFuturist
You were man's man. Naagta is qorqoraysa.

You adviced him and you also did what he asked of you.

I was involved in a similar case at first saying keep her to my boy but after full story waxan ku idhi naagta dir.

Some naago deserve no chances or families and that's divorce rate is high.

Naago Somali are no good.
But naago Habashi's are, right? :lol:

Re: am i two-faced?

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2016 4:15 pm
by CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC
i felt bad for him after he calaacaled how under appreciated he is blah blah blah, and at some point i said welll adeer if thats what she wants dee sii warqadeeda ha ka so biyo cabtu meesha ay ku ordayso, she also took 1000 from his account that night so i said close ur account too, protect ur money and let her see what being single mom is like
Bro, no offense, that is a b!tch ass move. Reerka maxaad isoogu diraysaa if you were asked to mediate? :wtf: :ufdup: Way kaa gar leedahay because eexasho ayaad muujisay :Shrug:
What eexasho are you talking about? She left home took money from his account without his permission or knowledge did million other things that I dnt want to say now .. Runta waxay tahay waxan ka jeclahay ma jirto Ino reerkeegu dhisnaado waan ka ogahay furitaan faaido uu so wado ma jirto sidaas baan laba Cisho aan ugu xabeebsaday sidan ugu dhex jirtay smh

Re: am i two-faced?

Posted: Sat Jan 16, 2016 4:16 pm
by Inaayah8
Yeah Chelsea, I get you. But even then you c an understand why she's peed. Waxaay ku arkaysa inad ninkeega ku diraysid.

I learnt the hard way that you should NEVER EVER get involved with a married couple and their B.S, because even when your intentions are good, they'll flip reverse the entire shit on you.

Lol badaha lama galo.