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marriage agreement.

Postby Hyperactive » Tue Jan 19, 2016 10:51 am

This is something used to come in my court;

is there unwritten laws that is common-sense(common-sense shouldn't be law in my opinion cause it's different from culture to culture or from individual to another).

we all know the hadeeth, specially men memorize it even if they don't know fatiha, if woman denies her husband a sex, she is angels cursing her until morning!!

The west said it's rape(which I think it's little stretch but agree with it cause we do not have better in our laws). on other side we we exaggerated and make it law that man can force his wife to have sex without respecting her emotional state!

My question; do muslim women take consideration when she signs that marriage paper, man can force himself or even be violent to have sex with her? what is you take sisters, married or single.

ps; I am so happy I am out of that depressing place called family court!!

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Re: marriage agreement.

Postby MujahidAishah » Tue Jan 19, 2016 10:55 am

I wish a farax would even raise his voice at me :win:

Abahii baan ku wasi laha hyper simple as that :myman:

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Re: marriage agreement.

Postby Hyperactive » Tue Jan 19, 2016 11:05 am

but Aisha, when you said "i accept" did you discuss about forcing sex or angels curse you?

one of the woman told on my face in my court " I take my chance with God than abu Huraira" . I looked back I laughed. got her off the hook .

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Re: marriage agreement.

Postby cheifaqilbari » Tue Jan 19, 2016 11:57 am

Family court ka baa ma shaqeysa hyper, mid kle the people whom you meet in family is all the "family disputes" its like going to hospital ofcourse the place is full of only ill patients being saved kkkkk.

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Re: marriage agreement.

Postby CaliQase » Tue Jan 19, 2016 12:56 pm

Welcome back Hyper.

Are you still in the Gulf or you moved to North America?

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Re: marriage agreement.

Postby JSL3000 » Tue Jan 19, 2016 1:20 pm

family court is tough my father is a sheikh he does marriages and family consulting sometimes but too much drama for me.

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Re: marriage agreement.

Postby Susu000 » Tue Jan 19, 2016 2:20 pm

Why would a man even need to force his wife?
Of course there is this normal "not tonight honey" but that's not refusing your husband. That's just normal. Of course if the wife refuses for weeks/months then there is something wrong in the marriage

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Re: marriage agreement.

Postby Sauron » Tue Jan 19, 2016 2:22 pm

why force her when you can add sleeping pill in her shax?

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Re: marriage agreement.

Postby MujahidAishah » Tue Jan 19, 2016 2:48 pm

why force her when you can add sleeping pill in her shax?

Eew why would want to have sex with someone unconscious there are laws against that is ilaali. :scusthov:

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Re: marriage agreement

Postby MujahidAishah » Tue Jan 19, 2016 2:52 pm

but Aisha, when you said "i accept" did you discuss about forcing sex or angels curse you?

one of the woman told on my face in my court " I take my chance with God than abu Huraira" . I looked back I laughed. got her off the hook .
No I didn't discuss if I'm not in the mood with him. There are times when people are tired they aren't in the mood. If its a long term thing the marriage is dead

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Re: marriage agreement.

Postby Sauron » Tue Jan 19, 2016 2:53 pm

why force her when you can add sleeping pill in her shax?

Eew why would want to have sex with someone unconscious there are laws against that is ilaali. :scusthov:
the trick is to get in there and out asap....similar to when a man is having a prostate inspection....in and out real quick and pretend it never happened.

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Re: marriage agreement.

Postby AyeeyoH » Tue Jan 19, 2016 3:08 pm

Salam Hyper.

Maxaa mesha qasab keenay..ha lagu kala dhaqaajiyo hadii arintu gaadhaba kufsasho iyo xoog.Waxaas wa waali.

Labada qof inay isku naxaristaan ba fiican.Ninku hadu arko naagtiso inay xanuunsaneyso amba daalan tahay inu oo samro ayaa fiican.

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Re: marriage agreement.

Postby BVSNet » Tue Jan 19, 2016 4:40 pm

It's 2016, what kind of a man needs to rape a woman who agreed to marry him

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Re: marriage agreement.

Postby MrL0G » Tue Jan 19, 2016 5:55 pm

This is something used to come in my court;

is there unwritten laws that is common-sense(common-sense shouldn't be law in my opinion cause it's different from culture to culture or from individual to another).

we all know the hadeeth, specially men memorize it even if they don't know fatiha, if woman denies her husband a sex, she is angels cursing her until morning!!

The west said it's rape(which I think it's little stretch but agree with it cause we do not have better in our laws). on other side we we exaggerated and make it law that man can force his wife to have sex without respecting her emotional state!

My question; do muslim women take consideration when she signs that marriage paper, man can force himself or even be violent to have sex with her? what is you take sisters, married or single.

ps; I am so happy I am out of that depressing place called family court!!
Adeer most of us here flunked ESL big time.
Bal aankuu duceynee far Soomaali inoogu fasir.

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Re: marriage agreement.

Postby CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC » Tue Jan 19, 2016 6:02 pm

wlc back sheekhuna :) :up:

no need to force or rape anybody, how can one enjoy if the other party isnt in the mood or atleast pretending to be in mood? :lol:


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