Is my cousin secretly gay???

Mahamoud81 · Postby **Mahamoud81** » Tue Feb 02, 2016 1:26 pm

So I have a cousin who is in his late 30s. He is an only child that was raised alone mostly by his mother. He is quite well established and works as a project manager or something at a technology firm. In spite of this the man never goes anywhere other than work and home. Never goes out anywhere with friends or to weddings or social functions. From what I remember he only has like 2 friends that he grabs coffee with like once a month on a Sunday to catch up for a couple of hours. When I was staying with him for about a week last year I noticed he was asleep every single night before 9 and would wake up around 4 am even on the weekends. He has no social media whatsoever and is pretty awkward when people try to talk to him. He will ignore you midway while having a conversation with you and just stare into space. When people ask him about getting married he keeps giving us the same answer he's been feeding us for years such as he hasn't found anyone yet or doesn't have the time to look or know where to look. Now he's got a new excuse of who will look after his mother as she lives with him in a house he just bought a few years ago. His mother is also not helping the situation by telling us to stop asking him about marriage and is not trying to set him up at all or placing any pressure on him.

How can a man with desires go that long without any romantic and sexual contact??? at this point am sure that he does not even like women at all and never wanted to get married. What do you people think???

GAMES · Postby **GAMES** » Tue Feb 02, 2016 1:31 pm

Umm, from what u just described, i would say no.

Not going out every night doesn't make someone gay.

U need to catch him on the act.

thehappyone · Postby **thehappyone** » Tue Feb 02, 2016 1:35 pm

As a tech person he must have a computer or laptop, check his browsing history.

GAMES · Postby **GAMES** » Tue Feb 02, 2016 1:42 pm

LooL Walaahi bilaahi there was a gay MJ nigga from Toronto here on SNet a while.

He straight up told everyone.

thehappyone · Postby **thehappyone** » Tue Feb 02, 2016 1:44 pm

LooL Walaahi bilaahi there was a gay MJ nigga from Toronto here on SNet a while.

He straight up told everyone.

do you remember "21 m ohio"

TheLoFather · Postby **TheLoFather** » Tue Feb 02, 2016 1:45 pm

I think This beats my wife threads... :Shrug:

Mahamoud81 · Postby **Mahamoud81** » Tue Feb 02, 2016 1:45 pm

Umm, from what u just described, i would say no.

Not going out every night doesn't make someone gay.

U need to catch him on the act.

thats not the point. he is completely disinterested in attending anything social or places where he can meet suitable women. I dont even believe he has ever done shukansi in his life or talked to any girl ever except when it was necessary like for school or work. Does this sound like completely normal behavior to you ??

GAMES · Postby **GAMES** » Tue Feb 02, 2016 1:53 pm

LooL damn, u got a weird ass cousin then. Why don't you confront him and ask him straight up.

Inaayah8 · Postby **Inaayah8** » Tue Feb 02, 2016 1:53 pm

I would say he's VERY NORMAL and we need more men like him on this earth.

Maybe a tad bit socially awkward but definitely not gay.

Mahamoud81 · Postby **Mahamoud81** » Tue Feb 02, 2016 2:07 pm

LooL damn, u got a weird ass cousin then. Why don't you confront him and ask him straight up.

He would get offended and respond by getting up and walking away and ignore me for quite a while. He is pretty damn weird but at least he is the ideal son to his mother. This is the result of being raised alone by a single mother. She sheltered him from the real world his entire life and now he has no clue on how to interact with people and women outside of the working world. She used to tell him when he was young to avoid friends and especially girls and that only ciyaal suuq spend their time making friends and shukaansi girls. I dont even think she wants him to get married at all. Shes living the life with his money and constantly traveling the world on his dime and buying all sorts of lavish things that should have been spent on a wife and family that he should have had by now.

thehappyone · Postby **thehappyone** » Tue Feb 02, 2016 2:09 pm

Sounds like Adam Sandler's The Waterboy

Inaayah8 · Postby **Inaayah8** » Tue Feb 02, 2016 2:11 pm

Why does a man have to be gay for not desiring a wife and not socialising with people?

-He works
-He dosen't engage in haraam B.S
-His Mother is pleased with him

Please tell me waxa ka maqan?

Mahamoud81 · Postby **Mahamoud81** » Tue Feb 02, 2016 2:14 pm

I would say he's VERY NORMAL and we need more men like him on this earth.

Maybe a tad bit socially awkward but definitely not gay.

lol stop lying. There is nothing normal or healthy about this. He is not a man but just an overgrown child with a good job. He is the ideal son but far from being a suitable husband for any woman.

Inaayah8 · Postby **Inaayah8** » Tue Feb 02, 2016 2:16 pm

I would say he's VERY NORMAL and we need more men like him on this earth.

Maybe a tad bit socially awkward but definitely not gay.
lol stop lying. There is nothing normal or healthy about this. He is not a man but just an overgrown child with a good job. He is the ideal son but far from being a suitable husband for any woman.

Your determination to convince us of your cousins homosexuality is a little strange to say the least.

Are you sure you're not the one batting for the other team homeboy? :myman:

GAMES · Postby **GAMES** » Tue Feb 02, 2016 2:29 pm

See, that's what's wrong with being sheltered, growing up with females and being ciyaal maamo.

I am glad i moved out when i was 19 and have been living on my own since then.

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