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Why nothing but Somali?nothing but Somali woman for me even the qumayos
is you found some ajanabi? it's ok sister most of us don't judge lol
You Sir are an outlier so I wouldn't compete with your level of open-mindednessLOL. I thought this was the title of a novel. Sounds like a Leo Tolstoy novel. I think Jane Austin had also a similar title.
From my experience and perspective, I think preference is a very short-term, initial feeling which will wither. Prejudices prevail even after thirst has been quenched. Preferences is often underpinned by short term wants ( a kind of biological mating compass ).
The above is also gendered where societies often mock the preferences of women while - at least for awhile- applauding the preferences of males.
I really don't care and I have an open mind on this kind of issues so I would say preference but many societies are subjects/slaves of the prejudice bug.
You're married anyway so it's too late to discussI have a fetish for Somali women.
Qumayos excluded
Did you read what I wrote, or are you prejudiced regarding what I wrote to the extent that you did not even read?You Sir are an outlier so I wouldn't compete with your level of open-mindednessLOL. I thought this was the title of a novel. Sounds like a Leo Tolstoy novel. I think Jane Austin had also a similar title.
From my experience and perspective, I think preference is a very short-term, initial feeling which will wither. Prejudices prevail even after thirst has been quenched. Preferences is often underpinned by short term wants ( a kind of biological mating compass ).
The above is also gendered where societies often mock the preferences of women while - at least for awhile- applauding the preferences of males.
I really don't care and I have an open mind on this kind of issues so I would say preference but many societies are subjects/slaves of the prejudice bug.
I have a fetish for Somali women.
Qumayos excluded
You're married anyway so it's too late to discuss
You test the limits to an extent that is beyond my comfort level.Should I take that as a compliment? But I am being analytical. My approach is to trust my heart (mostly short-run) over my mind ... but many people -in particular younger people- do not have that option.
All eyes can roam and there are 4 in a marriageWaa only 1 down still have sedex boos to go
I would choose an average Somali man over a ajanbi who scores a 9 in every category, only because with the Somali man, caruurtayda u baqi maayo inu some foreign country la baxsandoono.
I have age (wisdom), dough and being the right gender on my side. So I can make choices dictated by my heart. I always go for heart instead of mind. But that does not mean everyone can do it. Many do not have the liberty of taking independent decisions. We are creatures of our context, call it institutional bondage. Thus for many, all roads lead to the mind and the long term impact of decisions should not be discarded.You test the limits to an extent that is beyond my comfort level.Should I take that as a compliment? But I am being analytical. My approach is to trust my heart (mostly short-run) over my mind ... but many people -in particular younger people- do not have that option.
Are you saying that it's better to trust your heart over your mind?
All eyes can roam and there are 4 in a marriageWaa only 1 down still have sedex boos to go
I would choose an average Somali man over a ajanbi who scores a 9 in every category, only because with the Somali man, caruurtayda u baqi maayo inu some foreign country la baxsandoono.
So of all the human beings out there you believe there is one that you will find to be a 9/10 or 10/10 who will be available and who will be interested in you and who will be one of the however many million Somalis there are and who you will meet in person during your lifetime and in the meantime any other 9/10 or 10/10 out of the billions of other humans that you meet from any other ethnicity you will turn down?@BV
I have my own reasons as to why I would only marry a Somali woman, mainly concerning about my future kids..half/half is a no no for me tbh .
and I can always wait for 9/10 or 10/10 Somali girl, I have a got time with me in that department
What if she doesn't understand the cultural nuances? Doesn't ask your guests if they want something to drink, doesn't speak any Somali, isn't impressed with your miyi idea because her culture has more of a written record. No matter how many times you correct her she pronounces it as 'Deer' instead of DirI would choose an average Somali man over a ajanbi who scores a 9 in every category, only because with the Somali man, caruurtayda u baqi maayo inu some foreign country la baxsandoono.
As for the topic, meh. Marry whatever my heart fancies as long as the woman understands that any kids that come out of her will Beesha Haplogroup T and will be sent to the Badiyo/Mii for them to be acquainted with their Tol.
Ah, you have the luxury of being able to do whatever you want without consequence.I have age (wisdom), dough and being the right gender on my side. So I can make choices dictated by my heart. I always go for heart instead of mind. But that does not mean everyone can do it. Many do not have the liberty of taking independent decisions. We are creatures of our context, call it institutional bondage. Thus for many, all roads lead to the mind and the long term impact of decisions.
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