Are Somali guys scared of confident girls?

[InaSamaale]

Where did diseased come from anyway?
Somalis are included in Black right?

It came from the slavery plantation fields were the women were given power over their man to humiliate them, this was widespread everywhere, also in every movie this notion that black women should 'show' strength (masculinity) and that femininity is a sign of 'weakness' is reinforced in majority of movies black women feature in.

What do you think this would do to the psyche of black women whom are already predisposition to this from slavery ? what do you think countless movies like Single Ladies do to the psyche of the girls growing up ? The fast majority of White/Asian females you see are cast into very feminine, submissive, receptive roles while the black banshee's are always in the loud, militant rebel roles.

The Somali's are different but most in the diaspora are already heading towards that poisonous direction with the ever growing broken single households and copying the culture of the most decadent of people.

I don't think confidence/assertiveness & being feminine are mutually exclusive. In fact, Somali culture expects both, the "raaliya" but the women with "karti" that can hold it together.

[Adali]

Real woman without drama !

[Inaayah]

What InaSamaale said.

[MujahidAishah]

Smooth in the general section Yaab.

You know the FKD Section is going belly up

[thehappyone]

When your market value is low and even worse when you perceive it also be low, you subconsciously begin to overcompensate turning you into a masculine ghetto banshee falsely masqueraded as 'confidence'

Most reasonable people steer very clear from these type of diseased women, hence this is were the false notion that "guys being scared" spawns from, you only ever hear this kind of talk from majority black women only or the masculine, tomboy extremist feminazi's.

The market never lies, black women in general are at the bottom for a reason, with the asian's at the top in general, the difference?? one is extremely masculine and takes pride in it (black) and the other extremely feminine and takes pride in it (Asian), The numbers never lie

This is where I've been going wrong. I need to stop dating black/xalimos and start dating asians. I'm fed with being called too nice, soft, or sometimes even a pu.ssy, just for being a gentleman.

[Siciid85]

Define confidence? If it means a female that tries to emulate and believes no gender roles, then it's absolute turn it off.

However the type of confidence one should desire in female is one that is comfortable in her feminine qualities and fullfils her role in society without trying to be "equal" to all things men.

Male and female are two halves, they're are supposed to make each other whole by each bringing their own uniqueness.

"Hunna Thiyaabun lakum, Wa Antum Thiyaabun Lahunna".. From the Quran. What a beautiful verse.

[lifeisbloodyhard]

Define confidence? If it means a female that tries to emulate and believes no gender roles, then it's absolute turn it off.

However the type of confidence one should desire in female is one that is comfortable in her feminine qualities and fullfils her role in society without trying to be "equal" to all things men.

Male and female are two halves, they're are supposed to make each other whole by each bringing their own uniqueness.

"Hunna Thiyaabun lakum, Wa Antum Thiyaabun Lahunna".. From the Quran. What a beautiful verse.

What is feminine and what isn't though? That is subjective.

[Siciid85]

Someone like Aisha RA.

[lifeisbloodyhard]

Someone like Aisha RA.

But she was from a different time. Let me do my research and I might get back to you. I don't know much about her apart from that she was the prophet's pbuh youngest wife and she was jealous of the others when he took on more wives. Not a lot.

[Siciid85]

Prophet Muhammad peace be Upon him was from different time, but his massage is still valid as is Aisha RA. She is a great example for Muslim women.