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How to Move on After Divorce( serious discussion)

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How to Move on After Divorce( serious discussion)

Postby Sumubaridi » Wed Apr 20, 2016 7:42 am

Guys, this is the first topic that I really mean it. So plz jokers and haters, don't contribute. I want to get something out of this. If you have never been divorced, you probably do not know what to say, so let those who went through divorce contribute.

It has been so difficult for me to move on after the divorce. I am so scared to go through another divorce again. The previous divorce has taken a huge toll on me emotionally and financially. I have become so comfortable in the single life and Marriage freaks me out. Going to work in the morning, coming home, eat, go to the mosque and sleep has become my routine. That is my comfort zone. It has been 4 years now which 2 of them, I was cleaning after the mess of the first marriage. Maybe its because I put so much into the first marriage and it just disappeared like a wind. Its like putting so much time and emotion into a business then it crush right at your face.

Any one with experience on how to move on After divorce. I know I am not the only divorced person in this forum so lets just share our pain. We might find comfort in each other.

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Re: How to Move on After Divorce( serious discussion)

Postby Hyperactive » Wed Apr 20, 2016 7:50 am

I found women move on faster than men!! 4 years and you cannot move on or you just missed sex?

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Re: How to Move on After Divorce( serious discussion)

Postby Sumubaridi » Wed Apr 20, 2016 8:04 am

I found women move on faster than men!! 4 years and you cannot move on or you just missed sex?
Sxb I cannot move on. I have become a chicken. I am one of those guys who are so dedicated to the marriage and put my soul and blood into it. When it blew up, its like when you CAT died camal. Meel baad inta fariisato oo dhabanada qabsato ayaad waxaad oranaysaah, " oo runtii hada waxkasta ma eber baa? Yacni waxba kama harin? oo waxaad dhisaysay 4 ta sano ma hal bacaad lugu lisay baa?

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Re: How to Move on After Divorce( serious discussion)

Postby Hyperactive » Wed Apr 20, 2016 8:07 am

thank God, it could be worse. if there was children you wouldn't be out of debt. best plan is God's plan. armeyba khair ku sida koku Jira!!

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Re: How to Move on After Divorce( serious discussion)

Postby Sumubaridi » Wed Apr 20, 2016 8:17 am

thank God, it could be worse. if there was children you wouldn't be out of debt. best plan is God's plan. armeyba khair ku sida koku Jira!!
Hada kama fakaraayo guurkii hore. Kaas wuu dhamaaday. Alxd wixii uu ahaaba waa laga gudbay. Laakiin anigii ayaa guurkii oo dhan kacabsanaaya. Beryahaan waxaan facebook kala hadlaa gabdha jooga Somalia iyo Sucuudi carabiya. waxaas dhan waxaan usamaynayaa armay kuwa halkaan jooga sheekada run moodaan oo guur isku diyaariyaan :)

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Re: How to Move on After Divorce( serious discussion)

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Re: How to Move on After Divorce( serious discussion)

Postby barbarossa » Wed Apr 20, 2016 10:41 am

You want to sign a peace treaty with Xaliimos? :lol:

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Re: How to Move on After Divorce( serious discussion)

Postby zidane88 » Wed Apr 20, 2016 10:51 am

Sumu, saaxiib I moved on after 2 divorce, this time Alaxamdu-lillaah i hit the jackpot and here's my advice:

First, ilaahey talada saaro
Second , marry a woman which can go with you of what you are (nin reer dhaqasho u diyaar ah),not what you have.
Third stay away if she's obsessed with her looks,your wealth,other's wealth (heblaayo waxaasay hatsata).
Keep on looking,there's plenty of Golden Xaliimos in the market. don't lose hope. :up:

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Re: How to Move on After Divorce( serious discussion)

Postby Rambie » Wed Apr 20, 2016 11:38 am

You've just made a thread before about some shiekh advising
you for marriage and now you make another how to move on from one?

Anyhow, the only useful thing I learned about relationships here is this quote.

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