I was raped in high school

[AbkoowDhiblaawe]

^^ haa bro. UK, the whole place is a huge ghetto.

Lol I know man.

[Susu000]

war ninyaho, rerko wey badan yihin, ya kala gaara. adounki o idil bey ko ya'een. i dont like europe. i visit the ones in canada and USA.

Let me guess u went to UK thats why u dont like europe lol

Sweden is nice runtii. Sida UK maha

I was in Sweden for xmas and New Years. Lovely country, clean, quiet and just beautiful. Walahi I wouldn't hesitate to move there if i could

[Leftist]

Sumu, pray to Allah and move on. Things happen in life, and it means you've been tested. You didn't do it willingly; therefore, you have nothing to worry about.

Allah will insha'AllAh exchange something good for you in this life and hereafter.

If girls did that, it means it is something acceptable in that environment. Those girls are themselves victims, so I would suggest you to see it in that context and move on.

If you have siblings and relatives in that area, it is better they stay clear from that environment. Perhaps moving them to Wajer, Garisa, Mandhera, or other Somali majority towns is a good solution.

Fyi, for issues like this one, it is better to talk to professionals.

Insha'Allah, you will do fine!

Never thought I would cosign a post by udun, but I co-sign 100%

It's indicative of how widespread this problem is, that only udun and one or two other people are taking it seriously. Sexual assault, molestation, & rape are no joking matter and happens to men just as it happens to women. Only small-minded ignorant people would crack jokes about how it's impossible for a man to be raped by a women.

Beesha Caqli-dugaag, read on and banish your ignorance:

http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/ ... ulted.html

http://www.slate.com/articles/arts/book ... iewed.html