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I have a condition that, If I disclose it to a girl , It will be 90% turn off for her. I have disclose it to more than 20 girls since I found out about the condition and all I got was, walaal iga raali ahaaw. waan kuusooducaynayaa. If I don't disclose it to the girl, It might back fire on me in the future or it might not even be a problem. So Should I take the risk and stop disclosing it to them or continue to be decent and continue to disclose hoping one day one girl will say, I don't mind about that condition.

FYI, its not S*uxally transmitted disease or condition. So the condition will not affect the girl's health.
what would you do if you were in my shoes?

We all know you have a condition but what is it.

probably sterile

Look for quran saar

[quote="Sumubaridi"]I have a condition that, If I disclose it to a girl , It will be 90% turn off for her. I have disclose it to more than 20 girls since I found out about the condition and all I got was, walaal iga raali ahaaw. waan kuusooducaynayaa. If I don't disclose it to the girl, It might back fire on me in the future or it might not even be a problem. So Should I take the risk and stop disclosing it to them or continue to be decent and continue to disclose hoping one day one girl will say, I don't mind about that condition.

FYI, its not S*uxally transmitted disease or condition. So the condition will not affect the girl's health.
what would you do if you were in my shoes?[/quote]


Sumu, I would never, ever, wish anybody (not even on my worst enemy) to be in your shoes, period! Ilaahey, adigana ha ku fudideeyo xaaladda, if, indeed, it is as dire as you portray it to be.

I have a condition that, If I disclose it to a girl , It will be 90% turn off for her. I have disclose it to more than 20 girls since I found out about the condition and all I got was, walaal iga raali ahaaw. waan kuusooducaynayaa. If I don't disclose it to the girl, It might back fire on me in the future or it might not even be a problem. So Should I take the risk and stop disclosing it to them or continue to be decent and continue to disclose hoping one day one girl will say, I don't mind about that condition.

FYI, its not S*uxally transmitted disease or condition. So the condition will not affect the girl's health.
what would you do if you were in my shoes?[/quote]


Sumu, I would never, ever, wish anybody (not even on my worst enemy) to be in your shoes, period! Ilaahey, adigana ha ku fudideeyo xaaladda, if, indeed, it is as dire as you portray it to be.

OK, you misunderstood the word. In my shoes does not mean you be me. Ofcourse non of you can be me. You probably need to live as long as I lived and be as experienced as I am to be in my shoes. What I mean is that, Would you disclose that information to the girl even though you might get rejected or Withhold it till future and either face consequences or get a way with it. Hope you can understand now unless you are dummy.

We all know you have a condition but what is it.

probably sterile

FYI, No one is sterile until they die. As long as they live and they have G*s with S*P*s, they can have kids.

No, I am not sterile because I did not die yet. I did not get kids though they might be coming

Sumu- I missed you soooooo much! *Big hug*

Anyway Sumsum it's always best to be upfront and honest about your situation/s and ti kugu gelaysa way kugu geli, ti diidana calaf ba iskuma lahayn.

I have a condition that, If I disclose it to a girl , It will be 90% turn off for her. I have disclose it to more than 20 girls since I found out about the condition and all I got was, walaal iga raali ahaaw. waan kuusooducaynayaa. If I don't disclose it to the girl, It might back fire on me in the future or it might not even be a problem. So Should I take the risk and stop disclosing it to them or continue to be decent and continue to disclose hoping one day one girl will say, I don't mind about that condition.

FYI, its not S*uxally transmitted disease or condition. So the condition will not affect the girl's health.
what would you do if you were in my shoes?[/quote]


Sumu, I would never, ever, wish anybody (not even on my worst enemy) to be in your shoes, period! Ilaahey, adigana ha ku fudideeyo xaaladda, if, indeed, it is as dire as you portray it to be.

OK, you misunderstood the word. In my shoes does not mean you be me. Ofcourse non of you can be me. You probably need to live as long as I lived and be as experienced as I am to be in my shoes. What I mean is that, Would you disclose that information to the girl even though you might get rejected or Withhold it till future and either face consequences or get a way with it. Hope you can understand now unless you are dummy.

Does the old Somali adage 'been ku soo xero geli runa ku dhaq' mean anything to you?

Sumu- I missed you soooooo much! *Big hug*

Anyway Sumsum it's always best to be upfront and honest about your situation/s and ti kugu gelaysa way kugu geli, ti diidana calaf ba iskuma lahayn.

Naayaa xagee jirtay beryahaan? I miss you too Qumayo.

But think about it this way though, When you are meeting a guy, you put on make up and tried to be more beautiful than you naturally are. Isn't it good for the girls to come and meet the guys the way they are. Tii madoow in ay kuu imaato ayadoow madoow camal

Maahmaah yo ayaa jirta beryahaan ladhahaayo, " Nin make up ayaa lugu sooxero galiyaa foolxumana waa lugula noolaadaa"

Sumu- I missed you soooooo much! *Big hug*

Anyway Sumsum it's always best to be upfront and honest about your situation/s and ti kugu gelaysa way kugu geli, ti diidana calaf ba iskuma lahayn.

Naayaa xagee jirtay beryahaan? I miss you too Qumayo.

But think about it this way though, When you are meeting a guy, you put on make up and tried to be more beautiful than you naturally are. Isn't it good for the girls to come and meet the guys the way they are. Tii madoow in ay kuu imaato ayadoow madoow camal

Maahmaah yo ayaa jirta beryahaan ladhahaayo, " Nin make up ayaa lugu sooxero galiyaa foolxumana waa lugula noolaadaa"

My all time fav Snetter.

Sumuow, noolow. *Raises her can of drink*

here's to Sumsum

Size does matter, so let her find out if she can stomach dumplings.

Sumu, you're really wasting a skill, brother. You may need to setup a website of your own where you publish these stories. You could reap the fruits of the traffic that is coming to your site - of course I mean ads.

Your more sterile than bleach and I don't give a shit

Ayeeyda cuun!!

Db

Ilaahay akuu sahlo umuurahaaga Sumu. Amiin