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Everyone made them close the forum.Raganimo, dude just give up. You are not gonna change the mind of every self-hating dhoocil. That job belonged to their fathers who abandoned them. Evidently, these airheads have a negative opinion of Somali men and a low self-worth because their deadbeat fathers didn't love them enough and build their self-esteem. They are also not smart enough to listen because they clearly don't understand the irony of insulting all Somali men then getting angry at being called out as unislamic.
Just put this thread to sleep.
You might be right bruh. At least I tried.
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From what I have learned here is that a Somali have the right to interfere with every single Somali business even if you don't know them at all and they are strangers to you.What is the problem here? Why do you people care who marries whom? I'm so confused as to the fuss and energy invested on other peoples lives. Even in Ramadhan the gossip keeps going. Stop putting so much energy on what others do and lead your own life.
Trust me when I say that Somali people marrying outside of their community is not new and will not stop. There is nothing you or anyone can do about that fact. no matter what you say or do, it will not stop. That's just the way it is and will be. During the Italian 'colonial' era many women married and had children with Italians. Now for those who live outside of Somalia, the chances of meeting someone who is not part of the Somali community is greater: We live (neighbours), go to school, work, deal with on a daily basis with people who are not Somali and perhaps the chance of falling in love with the kid you grew up with, or went to school with or the individual you work with etc is not so strange.
I am not married yet, but you know what...I would not deny the possibilities.
There you have it folks, my two cents on this topic.
Cheerios!

What is the problem? you could have taken your time to actually read and understand Raganimos posts. We are not against interracial marriage or marrying out. That is not the topic.What is the problem here? Why do you people care who marries whom? I'm so confused as to the fuss and energy invested on other peoples lives. Even in Ramadhan the gossip keeps going. Stop putting so much energy on what others do and lead your own life.
Trust me when I say that Somali people marrying outside of their community is not new and will not stop. There is nothing you or anyone can do about that fact. no matter what you say or do, it will not stop. That's just the way it is and will be. During the Italian 'colonial' era many women married and had children with Italians. Now for those who live outside of Somalia, the chances of meeting someone who is not part of the Somali community is greater: We live (neighbours), go to school, work, deal with on a daily basis with people who are not Somali and perhaps the chance of falling in love with the kid you grew up with, or went to school with or the individual you work with etc is not so strange.
I am not married yet, but you know what...I would not deny the possibilities.
There you have it folks, my two cents on this topic.
Cheerios!

This thread wasn't about people marrying out, we have no issue with that.
From what I have learned here is that a Somali have the right to interfere with every single Somali business even if you don't know them at all and they are strangers to you.
I wonder how do the non-Somali husband feel when they are with their wife whether they feel threatened or intimidated.
You've completely misrepresented our views. Marry whoever you want. I don't know you and will probably never meet you. I don't care about who you marry. What I care about is our community and how we portray ourselves as a people. All I said was:What is the problem here? Why do you people care who marries whom? I'm so confused as to the fuss and energy invested on other peoples lives. Even in Ramadhan the gossip keeps going. Stop putting so much energy on what others do and lead your own life.
Trust me when I say that Somali people marrying outside of their community is not new and will not stop. There is nothing you or anyone can do about that fact. no matter what you say or do, it will not stop. That's just the way it is and will be. During the Italian 'colonial' era many women married and had children with Italians. Now for those who live outside of Somalia, the chances of meeting someone who is not part of the Somali community is greater: We live (neighbours), go to school, work, deal with on a daily basis with people who are not Somali and perhaps the chance of falling in love with the kid you grew up with, or went to school with or the individual you work with etc is not so strange.
I am not married yet, but you know what...I would not deny the possibilities.
There you have it folks, my two cents on this topic.
Cheerios!



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