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Re: Somali girls abandoning kids in the street

Postby Sumubaridi » Mon Sep 05, 2016 10:49 am

I think some people are being nieve in believing that only a mother with mental health issues would dump her child. Not true at all, some women only care about their reputation and would rather dump the child as oppose to ruining their family name.

And some feel like they have no other choice
as their families refuse to support them and that girl is disowned and thrown to the wolves.

Khaladku wu dhacaya but I blame the girls family more than I blame her, waayo tani hore way dhici jirtay waanay dhici doonta and when and if they see their daughters go through this, they should support them or else that child will grow up with a lot of difficulties in life and people will always address that child as a "qarac" and ayu ku abtirsanaya?

It's just really sad

I have never been pregnant or being a women so maybe I am taking it too strong from a man's perspective. Or Maybe because I don't give a dumb fock about what other people say. If I was the girl's brother and father, I will take that child to the boy's father and put it on his lab. I will tell him cunugaan wiilkaaga ayaa dhalay iyo gabadhayda. Its your grandson and my grandson. Its for us to deal with it.If you need help on resolving the issue, call me. My daughter will not be the only one suffering. If you want to throw it away, allah wuu ujeedaa aniga adaan kuudhiibay.

I will leave the child with him and take my daughter home. I will take the girl to go breast feed the child and we will leave it with them to take care of it. If they come to their senses and want to talk, like nikaax etc, welcome. If not, then it will be for them to deal with the child. Cunug matuuri karaan. waa beentood.

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Re: Somali girls abandoning kids in the street

Postby Inaayah » Mon Sep 05, 2016 10:54 am

Sumu- I'm going to tell you a true story that I witnessed in Hargeisa...

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Re: Somali girls abandoning kids in the street

Postby gegiroor » Mon Sep 05, 2016 1:37 pm

Topicgan oo kale waxay ahayd in af Soomaali keli ah lagaga hadlo!

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Re: Somali girls abandoning kids in the street

Postby Sumubaridi » Tue Sep 06, 2016 7:53 am

Sumu- I'm going to tell you a true story that I witnessed in Hargeisa...
Inta kusoo qor aan kawada faaiidaysanee.

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Re: Somali girls abandoning kids in the street

Postby Sumubaridi » Tue Sep 06, 2016 7:53 am

Topicgan oo kale waxay ahayd in af Soomaali keli ah lagaga hadlo!
Wax dhih malaha. dhib haysta dadkeena aan kahadlaynaa oo xal ubaahan.

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Re: Somali girls abandoning kids in the street

Postby gegiroor » Tue Sep 06, 2016 10:11 am

Topicgan oo kale waxay ahayd in af Soomaali keli ah lagaga hadlo!
Wax dhih malaha. dhib haysta dadkeena aan kahadlaynaa oo xal ubaahan.
Was sax in laga hadlo hadii aynu masaakiinta caawinayno. Laakiin af Soomaali kuwa hadla markaad ka hadlaysaan si ceebteenu u asturnaato.

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Re: Somali girls abandoning kids in the street

Postby Hyperactive » Tue Sep 06, 2016 10:21 am

gegi, why you care how others sees us? and who you want to hide from?

all you care is eeb and that is exactly culture these girls abandoning innocent kids!! we are society of superstition. this mentality needs to change in order for us to move forward! mistakes happens and will happen as long we are alive. nothing eeb about it. we need to own it and not to get it worse.

when all we think about is to cover up haraam/mistakes to not be exposed (eeb) consequeses. it's a "most" to own up our mistakes and should not care what others think of us. only then we know between haraam and halal. between owning up our mistakes no matter what and between running from it to just get worse hense, running from eeb.!!

we have to face our fears and stop being a fake. it's scary to face our worse fears it's but much easer to continue to be a fake. being a fake is safe at the times but not fun.

the only reason those girls giving up their babies is they dont want others to think about them less and shaming them. leave the feeling of shame to your self. we all have enough things we are ashammed of it. let us busy with our own shame, self shame.

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Re: Somali girls abandoning kids in the street

Postby Sumubaridi » Tue Sep 06, 2016 11:51 am

gegi, why you care how others sees us? and who you want to hide from?

all you care is eeb and that is exactly culture these girls abandoning innocent kids!! we are society of superstition. this mentality needs to change in order for us to move forward! mistakes happens and will happen as long we are alive. nothing eeb about it. we need to own it and not to get it worse.

when all we think about is to cover up haraam/mistakes to not be exposed (eeb) consequeses. it's a "most" to own up our mistakes and should not care what others think of us. only then we know between haraam and halal. between owning up our mistakes no matter what and between running from it to just get worse hense, running from eeb.!!

we have to face our fears and stop being fake. it's scary to face our worse fears but much easer to continue to be fake. being fake is safe at the times but not fun.

the only reason those girls give up their babies is they dont want others to think about them less and shaming them. leave the feeling of shame to your self. we all have enough things we are ashammed of it. let us busy with our own shame, a self shame.
Somalis cadaabta waxay kanecebyihiin Ceebta. Qofku in uu gabadhiisa dilo oo cadaabta galo wuxuu kajecelyahay in wax laga sheego. Waa dad mental ubadan. I kill my daughter because someone else will say something about me. Who is more closer to me. My daughter or the people.

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Re: Somali girls abandoning kids in the street

Postby Hyperactive » Tue Sep 06, 2016 12:13 pm

Sumu, i am glad you're enlightned. i think i read something like, "there is difference between truthful of tange and honest of heart". we all think we live in truthful lives but very view of us live an honest of hearts. Allaho na see ikhlaasel qalbi and 3amal.



i just put on google and found out. here the right one. "there is difference between literacy of truth and honesty of heart"

we all acting up the way we think others except us and not true us. God knows though.


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