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Is your goal to be married forever or just to find a Decent Somali guy to marry?

1. Don't marry ajnabi because the marriage will not work at all interracial marriage will not work. The marriage will end up with divorce and usually the half cast alien mixed mutt children will never consider nor accepted as a Somali by our community they do not have clan nor have a Abtiris.  You'll lose your beautiful pure blooded cushitic Somali lineage by marrying an ajnabi. You will carry a baby on your belly for 9 months and that baby will look nothing like you. People who marry out are the people who hate themself the most and want to dilute their god blessed pure lineage.

2. There are decent Somali guys who are good, on their deen etcc. And will treat
 you the best, but remember this is a marriage! There is no such thing as a "forever married untill death do apart us" at least on this generation majority of marriage end up divorce. Theres going to be the day when the marriage is going to be over be it 1 year or 10 years.. when the marriage is over its over and you wasted your time with the partner who divorced you almost half of your life.

3. If you really want to be married FOREVER or very very long which is  very rare on these days, then its best to marry your own cousin or the guy within your own subsubsubclan (laf) he will treat you the same as he treat his mother aunts sisters etccc. since you're a fam, and you will understand each other more then a Somali from other tribe!! Even if he treats you bad you'll always complain to your people (who is actually his people also) and they will fix everything.. the marriage will work fine because his people are yours and vice versa.. this type of marriage will last forever..

4. Or you have other option  to not  get married at all.. this option is very deep.. if you decide to not get married then its good to adopt an orphan children in Somalia. Or if you build a house for orphans and then take good care of them imagine the ajar you would get.. and also you will get married in hereafter. Unmarried women who never married will marry on hereafter inshAllah

I hope i helped you sis and best of luck for finding your future hubby

Well this was depressing..

Im a good brother but I only tolerate sexy xalimos, make your way to my inbox and join the audition.

Im a good brother but I only tolerate sexy xalimos, make your way to my inbox and join the audition.

Loooool

Adali waa ku salaamay!

Xplaya is a great guy just excuse his qabyalad rants


If your dhulbahante you need not apply kuwa waa automatic rejection :lol

How so?

It is the wisest post in this dying forum for a very longtime.

How so?

It is the wisest post in this dying forum for a very longtime.

It wasn't the wisest post. It was full blown pessimism. Forget the interracial marriage part, even if we marry a decent Somali who isn't our cousin, we should be prepared for divorce.. Lol, ok. Such a bleak outlook on life.

How so?

It is the wisest post in this dying forum for a very longtime.

It wasn't the wisest post. It was full blown pessimism. Forget the interracial marriage part, even if we marry a decent Somali who isn't our cousin, we should be prepared for divorce.. Lol, ok. Such a bleak outlook on life.

Im a good brother but I only tolerate sexy xalimos, make your way to my inbox and join the audition.

Loooool

Adali waa ku salaamay!

salaanta waan kaa qaaday bro gegiroor, waxaan ujeeda in aad ku soo biirtay kooxda gabdhaha somaliyeed asturi lahaa welcome

It wasn't the wisest post. It was full blown pessimism. Forget the interracial marriage part, even if we marry a decent Somali who isn't our cousin, we should be prepared for divorce.. Lol, ok. Such a bleak outlook on life.

Why do you assume if you marry a decent Somali, you'll end up in a divorce? Com'n sister you shouldn't be even contemplating that.

I guess we can agree to disagree on queen's post. On my end it was a great post, but of course your perspective could be different!

Why are so many sisters divorced it's rare to meet a married somalian