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Where can I find a goo Somali brother?
Posted: Wed Feb 08, 2017 6:04 pm
by Baatifuul
I'm actually serious so no trolling please.
I find it really hard to find a decent somali brother. I dont want a tight jeans wearing confused man but one that got himself together. A real man thats ready to move out of his mothers house without any balwaad. I mean He can be skinny but if he's short too then i cant work with that. And i dont want a hairy ajnabi, i know we're all muslims but i cant date/marry a Hamudi.
Any suggestions
Re: Where can I find a goo Somali brother?
Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2017 4:51 am
by Jabuutawi
Go to your nearest mosque and ask for a Somali brother. Why are you discriminating on vertically challenged Faraxs too? Good things come in small packages.
Good luck sis in finding your knight in shining armor,
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Re: Where can I find a goo Somali brother?
Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2017 5:11 pm
by UniQueen
Is your goal to be married forever or just to find a Decent Somali guy to marry?
1. Don't marry ajnabi because the marriage will not work at all interracial marriage will not work. The marriage will end up with divorce and usually the half cast alien mixed mutt children will never consider nor accepted as a Somali by our community they do not have clan nor have a Abtiris. You'll lose your beautiful pure blooded cushitic Somali lineage by marrying an ajnabi. You will carry a baby on your belly for 9 months and that baby will look nothing like you. People who marry out are the people who hate themself the most and want to dilute their god blessed pure lineage.
2. There are decent Somali guys who are good, on their deen etcc. And will treat
you the best, but remember this is a marriage! There is no such thing as a "forever married untill death do apart us" at least on this generation majority of marriage end up divorce. Theres going to be the day when the marriage is going to be over be it 1 year or 10 years.. when the marriage is over its over and you wasted your time with the partner who divorced you almost half of your life.
3. If you really want to be married FOREVER or very very long which is very rare on these days, then its best to marry your own cousin or the guy within your own subsubsubclan (laf) he will treat you the same as he treat his mother aunts sisters etccc. since you're a fam, and you will understand each other more then a Somali from other tribe!! Even if he treats you bad you'll always complain to your people (who is actually his people also) and they will fix everything.. the marriage will work fine because his people are yours and vice versa.. this type of marriage will last forever..
4. Or you have other option to not get married at all.. this option is very deep.. if you decide to not get married then its good to adopt an orphan children in Somalia. Or if you build a house for orphans and then take good care of them imagine the ajar you would get.. and also you will get married in hereafter. Unmarried women who never married will marry on hereafter inshAllah
I hope i helped you sis and best of luck for finding your future hubby
Re: Where can I find a goo Somali brother?
Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2017 5:18 pm
by SuldaanOfSanaag
Uniqueen are u single?
Re: Where can I find a goo Somali brother?
Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2017 5:32 pm
by TeeriReturns
Is your goal to be married forever or just to find a Decent Somali guy to marry?
1. Don't marry ajnabi because the marriage will not work at all interracial marriage will not work. The marriage will end up with divorce and usually the half cast alien mixed mutt children will never consider nor accepted as a Somali by our community they do not have clan nor have a Abtiris. You'll lose your beautiful pure blooded cushitic Somali lineage by marrying an ajnabi. You will carry a baby on your belly for 9 months and that baby will look nothing like you. People who marry out are the people who hate themself the most and want to dilute their god blessed pure lineage.
2. There are decent Somali guys who are good, on their deen etcc. And will treat
you the best, but remember this is a marriage! There is no such thing as a "forever married untill death do apart us" at least on this generation majority of marriage end up divorce. Theres going to be the day when the marriage is going to be over be it 1 year or 10 years.. when the marriage is over its over and you wasted your time with the partner who divorced you almost half of your life.
3. If you really want to be married FOREVER or very very long which is very rare on these days, then its best to marry your own cousin or the guy within your own subsubsubclan (laf) he will treat you the same as he treat his mother aunts sisters etccc. since you're a fam, and you will understand each other more then a Somali from other tribe!! Even if he treats you bad you'll always complain to your people (who is actually his people also) and they will fix everything.. the marriage will work fine because his people are yours and vice versa.. this type of marriage will last forever..
4. Or you have other option to not get married at all.. this option is very deep.. if you decide to not get married then its good to adopt an orphan children in Somalia. Or if you build a house for orphans and then take good care of them imagine the ajar you would get.. and also you will get married in hereafter. Unmarried women who never married will marry on hereafter inshAllah
I hope i helped you sis and best of luck for finding your future hubby
I have never read wiser words, i agree with all,
but one thing, i know people marrying their cousins, sub sub sub clans people and family always seem to interfere with our borders or respect for couple privacy, well in our generation any way, this is my experience
Re: Where can I find a goo Somali brother?
Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2017 5:46 pm
by Estranged
Is your goal to be married forever or just to find a Decent Somali guy to marry?
1. Don't marry ajnabi because the marriage will not work at all interracial marriage will not work. The marriage will end up with divorce and usually the half cast alien mixed mutt children will never consider nor accepted as a Somali by our community they do not have clan nor have a Abtiris. You'll lose your beautiful pure blooded cushitic Somali lineage by marrying an ajnabi. You will carry a baby on your belly for 9 months and that baby will look nothing like you. People who marry out are the people who hate themself the most and want to dilute their god blessed pure lineage.
2. There are decent Somali guys who are good, on their deen etcc. And will treat
you the best, but remember this is a marriage! There is no such thing as a "forever married untill death do apart us" at least on this generation majority of marriage end up divorce. Theres going to be the day when the marriage is going to be over be it 1 year or 10 years.. when the marriage is over its over and you wasted your time with the partner who divorced you almost half of your life.
3. If you really want to be married FOREVER or very very long which is very rare on these days, then its best to marry your own cousin or the guy within your own subsubsubclan (laf) he will treat you the same as he treat his mother aunts sisters etccc. since you're a fam, and you will understand each other more then a Somali from other tribe!! Even if he treats you bad you'll always complain to your people (who is actually his people also) and they will fix everything.. the marriage will work fine because his people are yours and vice versa.. this type of marriage will last forever..
4. Or you have other option to not get married at all.. this option is very deep.. if you decide to not get married then its good to adopt an orphan children in Somalia. Or if you build a house for orphans and then take good care of them imagine the ajar you would get.. and also you will get married in hereafter. Unmarried women who never married will marry on hereafter inshAllah
I hope i helped you sis and best of luck for finding your future hubby
Well this was depressing..
Re: Where can I find a goo Somali brother?
Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2017 6:25 pm
by Gaashaanle1000
What on Earth is a "goo" brother?
Most women nowadays and especially in the future will not find a husband. The world is heading in a direction most of us do not want to accept or even realise.
I think intelligent women will soon enough not mind polygyny and that is a fact!
Re: Where can I find a goo Somali brother?
Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2017 7:15 pm
by Bella18
3. If you really want to be married FOREVER or very very long which is very rare on these days, then its best to marry your own cousin or the guy within your own subsubsubclan (laf) he will treat you the same as he treat his mother aunts sisters etccc. since you're a fam, and you will understand each other more then a Somali from other tribe!! Even if he treats you bad you'll always complain to your people (who is actually his people also) and they will fix everything..
Marrying your cousin is like having contract with everyone in the fam. Every individual will have a say in your business. In most cases matters escalate and creates bad relations between them. Stick with Somali lakin stay away from close relatives /sub-clans or forever say goodbye to privacy.
The marriage will work fine because his people are yours and vice versa.. this type of marriage will last forever..
Really? Depending on others to fix your problems will make the marriage last longer? It looks like you are disregarding working together, having patience for one another and all the other hurdles people go through to have well balanced relationship.
Re: Where can I find a goo Somali brother?
Posted: Thu Feb 09, 2017 7:24 pm
by PanSomaliNationalist
Pull up at my luuq so you can give me a blow job prostitute
Re: Where can I find a goo Somali brother?
Posted: Fri Feb 10, 2017 2:17 pm
by CigaalSHiiDaaDCFC
I agree with queen stick with ur own
Re: Where can I find a goo Somali brother?
Posted: Fri Feb 10, 2017 2:41 pm
by Adali
Im a good brother but I only tolerate sexy xalimos, make your way to my inbox and join the audition.
Re: Where can I find a goo Somali brother?
Posted: Fri Feb 10, 2017 3:14 pm
by Macarons
Is your goal to be married forever or just to find a Decent Somali guy to marry?
1. Don't marry ajnabi because the marriage will not work at all interracial marriage will not work. The marriage will end up with divorce and usually the half cast alien mixed mutt children will never consider nor accepted as a Somali by our community they do not have clan nor have a Abtiris. You'll lose your beautiful pure blooded cushitic Somali lineage by marrying an ajnabi. You will carry a baby on your belly for 9 months and that baby will look nothing like you. People who marry out are the people who hate themself the most and want to dilute their god blessed pure lineage.
2. There are decent Somali guys who are good, on their deen etcc. And will treat
you the best, but remember this is a marriage! There is no such thing as a "forever married untill death do apart us" at least on this generation majority of marriage end up divorce. Theres going to be the day when the marriage is going to be over be it 1 year or 10 years.. when the marriage is over its over and you wasted your time with the partner who divorced you almost half of your life.
3. If you really want to be married FOREVER or very very long which is very rare on these days, then its best to marry your own cousin or the guy within your own subsubsubclan (laf) he will treat you the same as he treat his mother aunts sisters etccc. since you're a fam, and you will understand each other more then a Somali from other tribe!! Even if he treats you bad you'll always complain to your people (who is actually his people also) and they will fix everything.. the marriage will work fine because his people are yours and vice versa.. this type of marriage will last forever..
4. Or you have other option to not get married at all.. this option is very deep.. if you decide to not get married then its good to adopt an orphan children in Somalia. Or if you build a house for orphans and then take good care of them imagine the ajar you would get.. and also you will get married in hereafter. Unmarried women who never married will marry on hereafter inshAllah
I hope i helped you sis and best of luck for finding your future hubby
That type of cousin marriages only last long if the couple are traditional and care about the wider clan family, reputation and culture. Otherwise, it makes no difference to them if they are non-traditional.
There are marriages that last "till death do us part" outside of cousin/own-clan marriages. True that families' influence and encouragement/ acceptance of the union is vital for longevity and marital success but there are other important factors like religious beliefs, educational attainment, family background and personality that affect it.
Re: Where can I find a goo Somali brother?
Posted: Fri Feb 10, 2017 3:36 pm
by Waachis
Consult with the imam of masjids. Piety should be your first priority when seeking a spouse. May Allah make it easy for you.
Re: Where can I find a goo Somali brother?
Posted: Fri Feb 10, 2017 6:17 pm
by X.Playa
I'm actually serious so no trolling please.
I find it really hard to find a decent somali brother. I dont want a tight jeans wearing confused man but one that got himself together. A real man thats ready to move out of his mothers house without any balwaad. I mean He can be skinny but if he's short too then i cant work with that. And i dont want a hairy ajnabi, i know we're all muslims but i cant date/marry a Hamudi.
Any suggestions
Nothing wrong with a man who handles his Rum. Only Somali women hate drinkers , why this hate for Khamri , the juice stimulate the brain and sharpens the senses and its good social drink.
Re: Where can I find a goo Somali brother?
Posted: Fri Feb 10, 2017 6:28 pm
by MujahidAishah
I'm actually serious so no trolling please.
I find it really hard to find a decent somali brother. I dont want a tight jeans wearing confused man but one that got himself together. A real man thats ready to move out of his mothers house without any balwaad. I mean He can be skinny but if he's short too then i cant work with that. And i dont want a hairy ajnabi, i know we're all muslims but i cant date/marry a Hamudi.
Any suggestions
Nothing wrong with a man who handles his Rum. Only Somali women hate drinkers , why this hate for Khamri , the juice stimulate the brain and sharpens the senses and its good social drink.
You can have our most eligible bachelor who has been on snet since 99 he is currently in mourning because he's favourite snet wife has been deported out of the USA our snet queen basra..
Xplaya is a great guy just excuse his qabyalad rants
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