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Right now i am facing the biggest problem of my life. i am torn between choosing two women i met recently. one is a well educated 24 years old halimo from the states (finished university in hawai last year and doing her masters in the UK) the other was brought from hargeysa recently and sounds like she has never set a foot in class (she is currently doing english language for beginners ).

Any man in my shoes will opt for hawai graduate and dump the illitrate halimo but the problem in my hands aint that easy. the educated chick has everything a man looks for in a woman but lack looks plus she is a tad short on the other hand the illitrate chick from hargeysa is blessed with looks any man would kill for. she has beutifully framed features which make men stare at her whenever she walks. i swear just the thought of her gives me an instant erection!

which one will you opt for if you was in MM's shoes??

Tell me their qabiols and i will help you choose..

if u seriously want ot have smart kids and a happy family, then tell me their qabiil now!

Nothing more unattractive on a woman than lack of brains. However, is the one from Hargeysa just unversed in English, but otherwise intelligent ?? Or is she just naturally dumb as a doornail?? If it's the latter, go with the smart one. She'll give you smart children.

lion, they are both i'saaqs. dont ask for their subs.

depends on waxaad raadinaysid sxb.. if you're looking for a long-term relationship then choose the short educated one.

But if you are looking for "help" right here right now then go for miss hargeysa

LH lol true kk


M MAN
tell her qabiil first before we judhe
i mean the one who is in uk now
but the one from hargaysa we can understand thats he is isaq and if u isaq go for it

i will say
go to the 1 in uk kk if she get her own house >>> she need a man who can help her noh
kuleelka ka bi'iyo lkk

ok..honestly, like Michael said, intelligence is the most attractive thing in a woman..that's if u are a thinking man. But if u want a woman who knows how to cook and clean and fu.ck, pick either one..

Remember if she is smart but illiterate, thsi will give you a cjhance to help her learn and grow..and u can take the credit for making her "smart"..lol..

[quote="michael_ital"]Nothing more unattractive on a woman than lack of brains. However, is the one from Hargeysa just unversed in English, but otherwise intelligent ?? Or is she just naturally dumb as a doornail?? If it's the latter, go with the smart one. She'll give you smart children.[/quote]

But they will be ugly and short Who the fukk wants ugly children?

X, good point. But by the same token, who wants good lookin kids that are dumb asses?? Besides, if MM is half way decent lookin, there's hope yet.

Mik, she has brains , i am positive she will make a proper somali wife if i was to live with her back home. however we are in the west and everything is different you know. the illitrate halimos come with a whole package of problems like you know when she has an apointment with doctor you will have to acompany her there shit, but boy she is one hell of a good looking halimo. they say there beutifull somali women but i honestly believe non surpasses this one. she is the real deal minus education

Muslim-man,

1.First you should know the difference between Lust and Love.

2.Is the educated lady very ugly or "dadkeydey iskaga dhexjirtaa?"

3.How about the beautiful one is she very dumb? Is she willing to get educated or she is the type that wants to play around with someone's hard earned money?

4.Is she from Hargeysa or from Tuulooyinka kasii yaryar?

5.How about edebtooda? You don't want to doubt about the DNA of your child?

6.How about diintooda? Akhlaaqda etc

7. How about dabeecaddooda?

Marriage is not an easy matter look at every side before you rush

But then at the end of the day maybe you will follow your heart

muslim-man..she will learn all of that. Man u have 60 year old somali women learning english and passing the citizenship test..She will learn everything..

When she comes here she is gonna want to kill time while u work , so let her go to school and learn!

Waryaah muslim man.
I have been observing you a bit now and you seem to be genuine.

Are you for real or are you among those of us who come here to seek attention!

If you are for real the i will drop my one penny of thought and advise.

I have been told by my young respected arabic (egyptian woman) teacher to never ever marry a girl whom heel from a better background or better educated than you!

There is saying from the prophet (pbuh) that one will marry a girl for 4 reasons.
Wealth, beauty, background or deen.

The later (deen) is the only factor a muslim man should base himself for selecting his bride.

For those young brothers here, just look at your somali neighborhood and look for those among you who are in success in their family.
It is the ninjas and the surwaal gaabatoo (meant sheeks)!

The rest are in hell

Then there's hope for her yet. She's young enough to learn English and grasp the intricasies of Western life. Like goin to the Ob Gyn alone! Take the hottie. She's also probably pretty domesticated.

[quote]Muslim-man
she has beutifully framed features which make men stare at her whenever she walks.[/quote]


Okay now. if that is the case, Why don’t you just tell her to take part of the beauty contests, so she could win the title as “Miss Somalia” and there would be no need for her to attend English class/school or educate herself anymore? Good idea, right? Go for it then.