Leaving your kids

[SuldaanOfSanaag]

So many dumaar/rag marry others who can't maintain a good relationship , chose your the person who marrying wisely and don't get divorce easily, try to make it work becos ppl are splitting over little things and the lady will mostly struggle as the guy can married easily but not many guys are willing to marry a single mother. Sad but true

[sahal80]

not only the first wife i have seen many guys who did this to the second wife and her children.

[Timiro1999]

Dadka kale caruur wixii ILLAAHAY siiyo ayay ku tabcaan oo xoog iyo xoolo wixii ay haystaan geliyaan lknse odey somaliyeed markuu woxooga helo gabadh kale ayuu doontaa.
Somalidu weligeed dadka aduunka lama tartami karaan waayo lagu tabcay wuu ku yar yahay.
Ilmahana tacabkaad gelisid ayuun baa laga helaa.
Waxaad arkaysaa reer hindi ah oo aan lacag badan haysan oo caruurtodii private school geynaya, somaligiina qooq reer kale ah ayaa ku dhacaya lol

[guhad122]

Dadka kale caruur wixii ILLAAHAY siiyo ayay ku tabcaan oo xoog iyo xoolo wixii ay haystaan geliyaan lknse odey somaliyeed markuu woxooga helo gabadh kale ayuu doontaa.
Somalidu weligeed dadka aduunka lama tartami karaan waayo lagu tabcay wuu ku yar yahay.
Ilmahana tacabkaad gelisid ayuun baa laga helaa.
Waxaad arkaysaa reer hindi ah oo aan lacag badan haysan oo caruurtodii private school geynaya, somaligiina qooq reer kale ah ayaa ku dhacaya lol

Dee ina Abtaay, dumarkeenii dhowr markey dhalaan bay is hilmaamayaan. Xitaa bahalkii fooxa ee kululaa ee ay hoosta ku shidi jireen way Ilaawaan. Habarta cadaanku iyadoo lixdan jirta ayay gymka kaaga horeysaa.

[Timiro1999]

Dadka kale caruur wixii ILLAAHAY siiyo ayay ku tabcaan oo xoog iyo xoolo wixii ay haystaan geliyaan lknse odey somaliyeed markuu woxooga helo gabadh kale ayuu doontaa.
Somalidu weligeed dadka aduunka lama tartami karaan waayo lagu tabcay wuu ku yar yahay.
Ilmahana tacabkaad gelisid ayuun baa laga helaa.
Waxaad arkaysaa reer hindi ah oo aan lacag badan haysan oo caruurtodii private school geynaya, somaligiina qooq reer kale ah ayaa ku dhacaya lol

Dee ina Abtaay, dumarkeenii dhowr markey dhalaan bay is hilmaamayaan. Xitaa bahalkii fooxa ee kululaa ee ay hoosta ku shidi jireen way Ilaawaan. Habarta cadaanku iyadoo lixdan jirta ayay gymka kaaga horeysaa.

Lol odey somaliyeed marmarsiiyo wuxuu ka dhigtay islanti ayaa sidan iyo sidan noqotay.
Odayada somalidu iyagoo uus buuran, oo bidaar kalax leh ayay donayaan Gabadh kala xidhan, horta adigu iskala xidh marka hore intaanad islanta wax saarin.
Walee somali badankodu intay sidan u dhaqmayaan meel gaadhi maayan.

[guhad122]

Dadka kale caruur wixii ILLAAHAY siiyo ayay ku tabcaan oo xoog iyo xoolo wixii ay haystaan geliyaan lknse odey somaliyeed markuu woxooga helo gabadh kale ayuu doontaa.
Somalidu weligeed dadka aduunka lama tartami karaan waayo lagu tabcay wuu ku yar yahay.
Ilmahana tacabkaad gelisid ayuun baa laga helaa.
Waxaad arkaysaa reer hindi ah oo aan lacag badan haysan oo caruurtodii private school geynaya, somaligiina qooq reer kale ah ayaa ku dhacaya lol

Dee ina Abtaay, dumarkeenii dhowr markey dhalaan bay is hilmaamayaan. Xitaa bahalkii fooxa ee kululaa ee ay hoosta ku shidi jireen way Ilaawaan. Habarta cadaanku iyadoo lixdan jirta ayay gymka kaaga horeysaa.

Lol odey somaliyeed marmarsiiyo wuxuu ka dhigtay islanti ayaa sidan iyo sidan noqotay.
Odayada somalidu iyagoo uus buuran, oo bidaar kalax leh ayay donayaan Gabadh kala xidhan, horta adigu iskala xidh marka hore intaanad islanta wax saarin.
Walee somali badankodu intay sidan u dhaqmayaan meel gaadhi maayan.

Horta Bidaartu waa iska wax dabiici ah, waxna lagama sameyn karo. Laakiin xaqiiqiyan, dumar badan oo Soomaaliyeed waxay u baahan yihiin iney is dar yeelaan. Inta badan raga Mareykanka jooga waa iska typical Somali qaab ahaan, runtiina caato ayayba u badan yihiin. Marka laga reebo kuwa taksiga, uuberka, iyo trakyada waa weyn wada. Kuwaasaa u badan waxa caloosha dheer, iyo garbaha yar-yar leh.

[InaSamaale]

So many dumaar/rag marry others who can't maintain a good relationship , chose your the person who marrying wisely and don't get divorce easily, try to make it work becos ppl are splitting over little things and the lady will mostly struggle as the guy can married easily but not many guys are willing to marry a single mother. Sad but true

good advice

I think single mothers don’t have a shortage of suitors tbh just the quality of guys is subpar and the stakes are much higher...

I legit thought topic was about leaving kids behind for a vacation lol but instead it’s about divorcing your kids coz that’s what it is.... I wish we shamed such dead beat fathers like how we shame women for their clothes, being divorced multiple times, not being married and just about anything really....

[salool]

Raga soomalida way jiraan qaar masuul ah oo caruurta ka war haya xita haday naagta kala tagaan. Laakin way yar yehiin. Ilaahy ha oo garaagro hooyeynka meelaha caruurta la silcaya. Atleast kuwa wadanki jooga reerkooga caawiya, laakin kuwa qurbaha jooga ayey oo dhamaatey.

[AbkoowDhiblaawe]

Many times the somali mothers are fucked up totally undermining the father. I know many good men who left their kids after the divorce because the women used the kids against them and shit. So u can't blame everything on the faarax's.

Somali people need marriage counselling. Many faaraxs are deadbeats and many xaliimos are too busy on social media and gossip n shit instead of raising their kids.

[Khalid Ali]

Somalis marry to have sex there is no family planning there is no structure or strong profound relationship in their marriage that's the problem. You marry for the right reason to have a partner in life.

[Nubis]

Informative posts.

[Jaamacbuuhoodle]

Anigo isticmaalayaa waaya aragnimada khibradayda nololeed , madama aan ahay Oday Soomaaliyeed oo noloshayda Guur badan ii soo maray ( 3 jiir ) oo ay mid naag ajnabi oo christian ah tahay .

Aragtiyada waxaan uh arkaa Dumarka Soomaaliyeed waa dumar ku fahami kara kuna taageeri kara markaad liidato ,, laakin maaha Dumar ku fiican dhinacayo kale !

Waa dhinacayo badan waxaana ka mid ah raaxada Sariirta gaar baa ka xishooda oo doonayaa in hal style kaliya loogu tago ,, ( khibradayda ) naagaha reer Xamarka baa laa qaatay kuwa Waqooyi ma yaqaanan sida nimaanka loo qanciyo .