It took me time but here it is:
Allah has said: “O believers! Whoever from among you turns back from his religion, Allah will bring a people whom He will love and they will love Him, humble towards the believers, stern towards the disbelievers, fighting in the way of Allah, and never afraid of the blame of the blamers. That is the Grace of Allah, which He bestows on whom He wills. And Allah is All Sufficient for His creatures needs, All Knowerâ€Â
Note: humble towards the believers and stern (harsh) towards the disbelievers.
In fact it wasn't a haadith but better from the koran and allah have said so.
The stupid arabs are nice toward the westerners and harsh to the muslim!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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