a practising muslim adoon is better than a non practising so

[COOL-MAN]

Its is better to give your sister or daughter to a believeing and a practising jareer man than a a non practsing close relative.


you can diss them all you want and call them all the names you want but a practising brother will definately look after your sister better than your non practising cousin who drinks alcohol, doesnt pray five times aday etc etc.

make you priotities right and choose iman over qaraabo and inshallah you will be rewarded.

p.s i know we are all adoons of allah but some people here perfer to call our black brethrens less adoons than they are hence the title of the topic.

[Unclebin]

Are you in this predicament? If so you have too look at? What will your parents think? Will you please them? If she (your sister) is happy with marrying a "jareer"? It's really upto the females. I would rather have my sister marry a wadaad from any country then end up on the streets drinking or end up married to a drunk faraax that beats her? However if she could find a decent faraax then all will be good?

[Basra,]

[same]

r u all addoons of Allah?

[COOL-MAN]

UNCLE BIN,

NO i am not in that dilema and even if i was i wouldn't see it as a problem in any form or way or loose sleep over it. if my sister brings home a decent blak brother home today she is all his. my mum the only surviving parent will aprove with a blink of an eye if he fulfills the conditions required of a decent muslim man. i was brought up in a very modest enviroment and know what is good for my sisters and my daughters if i ever get some inshAllah and so do my parents. for us it is just proper muslim and a proper one is what matters, anything else including qabail BS is secondary.

same,

yes we are.

[Tyrone]

[quote="same"] r u all addoons of Allah? [/quote




LooooL the catch fraze used by so may Somali girls that goes " aren't we all adoons of Allah" was started by me after a somali father suspected his good girl somali daughter was sleeping with me...i told her to say that and low and behold, its the number 1 catch fraze being said by Somali girls world wide




I am Tyrone the great and i approve of Somali girls sleeping with me.

[Ugaas Diini]

Yeah but wouldn't you prefer to see her to a good somali............................ unless she is ugly ofcourse.

[Gacalisa]

i think that there is no one better for a somali female than a somali brother, but calaf is powerful, so if a somali girl falls in love with a black guy who is a good muslim i would not reject, but all somali parents would have a different take on this, so i would say be baari to you parents and obey thier wishes and comands.

[Demure]

Cool-man that's very idealistic, but unfortunately that's not how it works with us "good muslims". They would rather a Somali first, preferably within your clan vicinity, If not a white muslim will do, after that we'll take the black muslim grudgingly, then maybe a jareer Somali, and last but not least; never a midgaan!!

Talk about distorted values and mixed priorities.

[Gacalisa]

i know isnt sad how our society would choose a white man over a somali just because of his qabiil, not only are we distorted but we are very racist against our selves.

[Ugaas Diini]

There was this one man in my town who refused his daughter to marry a somali guy from different qabiil.

Less a year later, his daughter went crazy and ran away with some homeless white guy. While she was with the guy, she got pregnant so he left her. So she came back to her fathers house and had the baby there.

Since she is crazy, she can not take care of the baby and they can not control her either so she comes home really really late drunk like you can't believe. They fear that she will get pregnant again. Wiilkii nasabkiisa ayaa hayo malaha.

[Gacalisa]

that sad, but it was her fault to begin with, do you know that a marriage or anything will not be qeer without your parents consent, becuause waay ku inkaarayaan, and a parents habaar is worst than any thing, she should have just listen to her parents and she would not be that situation.

[Ugaas Diini]

It is a made up story. I am practicing my creative writing skills.

[Gacalisa]

nice, keep going, might get you some where. maybe to a pulitzer price.

[SoMaLiSiZz]

News Flash =======>


Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) had among his closest Companions Salman the Persian, Suhaib the Roman, and Bilal the Ethiopian. Two of the three Companions were ex-slaves who were liberated after embracing Islam, namely Salman and Bilal. Despite this, and in spite of the black complexion of Bilal, he was chosen by the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) as the first muezzin to prayer, a position coveted by many. As a matter of fact, senior Companions like Abu Bakr and `Umar used to call Bilal 'our master', and the Prophet himself used to say: 'Salman is a member of our family.'

the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) used to give the Muslims an important lesson. Thus when his Arab Companion Abu Dharr called Bilal 'son of the black woman', the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) got angry and told him: 'You are a man who has ignorance in him.' Abu Dharr felt such a great remorse that he put his cheek on the ground and asked Bilal to tread on his other cheek if he’d like to.

Time and again the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) used to stress the unity of the human race in Islam. Suffice it to mention one hadith. The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) once said: 'Listen and obey even if your ruler was an Ethiopian slave whose head looks like a raisin.' On another occasion when al-Aws and al-Khazraj, the two main Muslim tribes of Madinah were about to fight each other as they used to do before Islam, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) rebuked them saying: 'Do you still cultivate the call to ignorance even though I am in your midst?' Hearing this, they restored their solid unity and fraternity.


============> Go With Diinta cuz islam is colour blind