The differences of man and woman in Selections.

[DamallaXagare]

I have always felt the mass confusion and misunderstanding of gender Somali relations. Absame is making too many generalizations and i disagree with most of them.

[ABSAME']

LadyQac, DhilloGadabuursi, haven't you said repeatedly that you have slept with Adoons numerous times and sometimes sticking their rods in your rectum? Who gave you the right to talk such issues of Man and woman of ethical understanding of their relationships with one another. You should be cursed to forever spouseless life.


Shankaroon and Demure, equality isn't the problem but the idiotic preferences of women in picking up their men. They pick the wrong person always, esp a high-profile niggaz with no formal education. Double-standard isn't the problem. You are too dumb to reason and predict your future.

If, however, you choose to lose your virginity by sleeping with Adoons and Latinos, Whites and Mexicans, Keep in mind majority of Somali men obtain information easily, which can be used against your candidacy. I have seen so many girls , beautiful and sexy ones, whose application were turned and banished from the community. Walaahi, there is a girl in my city who is begging to be accepted in the community.

Damelaxager, Everybody knows this.

[Cawar]

[quote="Demure"]Cawar, The performance is not the issue here but the superficiality of some of your gender. I better not hear you pretending to be a wadaad again. If one goes by rumors and your own hints.[/quote]

Demure

I was not focusing on the performance per se, but you and others made an issue..dont remeber how...maybe it was Shankaroon.

I am a born again wadaad and rumours are not a good thing to trust..so its better if you took my word for what I am saying.

PS. I knew I had to add this to my earlier post:-
About the hints.. I am not talking about my own experience...but the outcome of the facts out there. There you go I said it...better late than never.. soow maha??

[NiVea*]

Honest,If he is this to the fullest extent then everything [else(looks,money.ect]is extra. a trait so simple is yet so hard to find.

[ABSAME']

A trait so simple is yet so hard to find?"

Well tell us how to find NIvea that.

[LaDy-Qac]

@ ABSAME..i think you are confusing me with my double who uses the same name but with a dot at the. My nickname was hijacked by Mukhtaar who trys to distort my image. I expect an apology from you in the meantime. Or else it' s on sxb . The ball is in your court now.

Cawar, i do happen to care about my future husband' s past in regards to women. Are you trying to justify or impose the notion that it' s OK for a man to sleep around to gain "experience" in order to perform well. It' s like you are approving of siina when it' s comitted by a guy .

I also want to know what you guys think of a female who requires her husband to be "experienced"?. Doesn' t that say alot about her character?

[Cindrella]

Asalamu Calykum,

We all must acknowledge there is no such thing is there perfect person as bin Adam we are bound to do wrong but obviously we can only take so much. Me personally nothing sickens me more than a “bad boy” We all have our own agendas but of all the attributes I desire in a future husband ,an individual with strong sense of morality is imperative in other words a Muslim brother who considers religion his priority. I like to think once this is covered Inshallah all will fall into place.

I share the same sentiment as the girls here or women more precisely (Shankaroon and Mizz Crazy) who consider the idea of marrying a man who had intercourse outside marriage repulsive. It is also hypocritical that they expect their wife to be pure.

"I also want to know what you guys think of a female who requires her husband to be "experienced"?. Doesn' t that say alot about her character?"
LaDy-Qac, I completely agree what kind of self-respecting woman would want her husband to be “experienced”?

P.S Don't worry girls no point dwelling on the unfairness of the situaion in regards to the physical proof of a woman's action compared to that of a man. (I know this is easier said than done) But afterall Allah sees and hears all.

[LaDy-Qac]

Welcome Cindrella

[ABSAME']

Apology to you Lady Qac

[LaDy-Qac]

Apology accepted

[studente]

yes, promiscuousity is very attractive

[XidigtaJSL]

Absame


Coming from an Ogaadeen

[yasmin507]

Absame abti who lied u ugly boys dnt get gurls or maybe they get those rottan gurls if u know what i mean or if they got money. dnt get it twisted ppl not all gurlz like ruff necked boys dem niggaz get slamed by a ruff necked chic like me. For me i like cool lay back guys with qurux tight, car good muslim and ofcouse a agrees wit me on everythings. above all lookz matter..!!