The Somali family man and the countless hurdle have increase to an unsustainable dimension that allah only can help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
You have seen that when you buy an item in the UK there is always a term and condition that you should read before accepting the goods.
Somali men have emigrated from Somalia and the surrounding for a better grazing land in the western hemisphere.
But they have missed the part that you should abide by the rules of the land.
Therefore what are the hurdles that I mentioned.
No respect:
80% of Somali man do not get any respect from their children or wifes.
80% of Somali man do not respect themselves.
By that I mean by chewing khat and some of them drinking alcohol.
Not respecting their creator for not praying salat.
Some of them do not even know how many rakkath is needed for ie: duuhuur.
No goals:
100% of Somali man had goals when they initially came to this country however only maybe 5% have achieved.
The rest 95% did not reassessed their goals which end up with no goals at all.
Those 95% men dreams of going back to their land but it is impossible as they are worst off at the moment than when the Somali anarchy was at the pick 1991.
An example of London life:
Somalian-born Saciid Dayib, 40, from Hackney, east London, stabbed his wife Fadumo Yusuf, 34, in the neck before battering her to death with a claw hammer. He was later found hanging in the hallway of their family home.
Somalian-born osman ali came to his home early and found his wife having sex with an other man
Somalian- born Ali ato had break up with his wife however came back 3 month later to find out his wife have married a Somali farah from the mafraaj (chat session house).
The family problems do go on for most Somali men.
They are unable to circumcise their daughters.
So Many men have taught that their culture was backward who regrets today for not circumcising their daughters.
Personnaly I have encountered Somali men who their wifes and daughters have been impregnated at the same time in the same house by other men with consent.
Somali men can’t even protect his own houses.
The small minorities that have not encountered by these problems and more have only been blessed by allah and didn’t escaped by their own capabilities.
Only a Somali man who pray his 5 daily prayers and who allah have blessed with a nijaa Somali wife.(nijaah wife: are those that are proud to wear their hijab)
Can’t only sustain his honor in this country.
For the rest and those that attained the age of marriage should be prepare for hardship.
Cos you will marry and divorce.
You will share your kids with some other man (only wish they are not peadophile).
Cos if they are they will not be only satisfied with your ex wife coutch1y but your own blood.
You will remarry again to divorce or accept your uncircumced dhoocuul to be shared anytime.
Somali man in western country have devalued at the same rate of the Somali cheeleen!!!
A Somali man in here is only a third in respect, honor, self belief that any moryan, farah in Somalia.
May allah help us should we seek and work toward his help!!!!!!!!!
