Mothers side by default though. I have like 5 first cousins from my pops side, and only ONE Ant, and there all in Belet Xawo. Meanwhile I have a cousin or uncle/aunt from my Mothers side, in virtually every spot on the globe. Lakin its strange how everyone is closer to their reer Apti. I have cousins who are half Lelkase/Marehan, and even though the Dad is Marehan, there much closer to their moms side of the family. The funny thing is no matter how close you are to your moms side of the family, when it comes to identity everybody goes with the pops. You are who your pops is.
