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M-m, living in the west messed you up pretty bad, what you portrayed is not the life a nomad but the life of a westerner living in his rich momas long beach CA stately home;
fact is, things are masses easier for our generation than it never was for the old boys that brought us up and those before them

We have the comfort to go school (free in most cases) and make money on the side if we fancy, we what's more have the opulence to put school to the side and just make money for a short time and then go back to school if we desire

In the world we live in today, you can realistically maintain 2 or 3 families if you truly wish for, old boys never had this luxury man so letÂ’s not kid our-selves

They usta herd cattleÂ’s and goats for living to support their families, how eff-up was that?

so whats is stopping the majority from marrying at a tender if things are as easy as you put it? you are more than twenty yourself and still single (planning to settle down soon doesnt constitute being settled down)



on a serious note, i agree we you on many things. we have alot in place compared to the preceding generation. alxamdulillah

Cadeey, would you please..shut the fukc up......Geez man...do you ever get tired of that Xawaadle bullshit....

Stupid Biatch.

'so whats is stopping the majority from marrying at a tender if things are as easy as you put it'?

am effing scared man to be truthful, out of the blue i find my self being terrified and its not because i doubt my self but the fact that the whole initiative is just enormous

Truth is, the society has put in place unnecessary restrictions and sold untangible ideas that made young ppl think settling down at an early age is some how uncivilised. Having lots of galfreinds on the other hand is something to be proud of . unfortunately the majority of us bought it without giving it much thought or without considering the consequences of taking that route. the end result is what you see among somalis living in the west in todays world. farax's and xalimos marrying way after their late twenties and even thirties for some without being ashamed of their actions.

What is so hard about marriage?? what makes it easy to go between the leggs of a gal illegaly and hard to do it legaly? All you have to do is to stick it where you sticked your GF. The diffrence is this time it's halal and better. it actually fetches you more ajar everytime you do it coMpared to the regrets laden Zina

Last week I had a chance to see an outdated Riwaayad called "If iyo Aakhiro" "Here and Heaven" . One of the characters who goes by the name of "Horor" plays as a very poor father. His wife sells miscellaneous items on the market street. He has a daughter and she attends a boarding school on the outskirts of the city. Despite every thing else being free, there is an annual school fee required by the school by the end of every year. .

In the school, his daughter Dhudi converses with a guy from a well-to-do family. He goes by the name of Aw Tuse Aw Toosiye. The Couple are very much in support of ane another as far as their exams etc, but Aw Tuse is not aware of Dhudi's poor family.

The End of the Year nears and Mr. Horor makes the arrangement to go the school to see the Principle. He doesn't have a penny but tells his wife that he will ask for an exemption due to a family and financial problems. He also asks his wife a 30 shilling Bus fare which she grumbles “No” for not selling anything since she came to the market. Mr. Horor, starved and weak, settles to trek all the way to the school.

On his way, few kilometers from the school, he encounters Aw Tuse and asks for a direction. In their conversation, Aw Tuse sadly becomes cognizant of both his familyÂ’s poor standard of living and the fact that he is the father of Dhudi, the girl he was in love with. Aw Tuse promises him the money to feed and clothe his family. Mr. Horor, aroused by the generosity of Aw Tuse, offers his daughter for marriage. Both jump on each other with excitement. They strike this deal of family union and relationship.

Aw Tuse , also coincidently comes across Dhudi who is dejected by the condition of her family and the fear to bear the cost of the school. She convinces herself to be bold enough to tell their financial condition to her love mate. Luckily, Aw Tuse informs her of his meeting with her dad and the promise he made to sustain her family’s livelihoods. In exchange, he continued, “Your father has offered you Dhudi to be my future wife, do you have any problem with that?” Dhudi consents and becomes happy of her Dad’s decision.

However, an old business man whose name is Xaaji Ladane one day flirts with Dhudi and her Girlfriend. Xaji Ladane has a wife and children but wants to have another one as Minyaro. He has the financial means to get any girl he wants. In their flirtation and dancing, Dhudi and her friend made fun of him and called him a father and grandfather just to put him down. Xaaji Ladene, angered by these girlsÂ’ attitude, decides to purchase Dhudi off the shelf.

He goes to her Dad and gives her one Million shilling up front. The rest and the bulk of the money will be delivered after the engagement. Mr. Horor easily forgets all the favor that Aw Tuse did for him when he needed the most. In stead, he offers his daughter to be Xaaji LadaneÂ’s Future Wife. This will have a major effect on all of the characters and leads to the death of AW Tuse.

The morals of the story is that money is a recognized method by which suitors get their wives.

What are the chances of getting a gal who is willing to cough all the expences?

Zero chance Muslim man. Finish your school, don't worry about girls.

thanks for the advice man

Look at Somali marriages and the number of divorces. I know more Somali 19-21 year olds single mothers than any other race. For men like me, we see it as the most expensive foks. I dont want to be in debt and single and my children growing up with a dysfunctional single mum=former wife. Have you seen the play, "The life of a Somali Garroob"?

Why go through this transaction when it is all free and comes in different dishes?

I am little scared of children and men j/k
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I can't imagine sleeping with one cubeed for the rest of my life
monogamous relationship just doesn't seem that appealing to me

well you cant sleep around forever you know,
time to find a dumb gullible faarax, and trap him into marriage.
If hes dumb enough you can convinve him you are a virgin,
and have never seen a cubeed


fortunatley men get sexier with age,
ill be even more sexier, in my 40's than now
if thats possible.

shalom

i will always be 2 young 2 marry, bud old enough to sleep wid girls.

shalom

gurey... stop giving ideas to people

afraid of sexual transmitted diseases.