yea thats right... that was what i was meaning to say, we have been together for about 6 moths we meet while he was working here, but then 2 weeks after meeting him he was sent back to the states for another year we had only been togther for 2 weeks after he was sent back but i knew that he was the one for me. from the first day i meet him,. since being back his come to see me once and evertime he goes back my heart breaks seeing him leav, i am commited but its so hard, dnt really knw if it will work[/quote]
I wouldnt even try to say i understand what your going through cause i dont...but honestly if you say he is the one and you want the next step in the relationship be upfront with him. Ask him is he serious and does he want your relationship to evolve to the next step...this way you will save time and stop the second guessing that happens in life. This way you will know if you need to wait or move on. I gotta say i dont have experience in the boyfriend/girlfriend department at all. Im talking about the natural relationship between man and woman(marriage) im afraid im very old fashion....but i think i tried
So good luck sis and take care of yourself.